My original feeling, from the first moment I discovered him, was the same. And years later, after becoming familiar with his work and with the community that worships him, I still feel the same — except I'm even more convinced now.

He plasters his face across every book and dvd package that he sells.

He surrounds himself with people who worship him; if you stop praising him, you're out of the club.

He has his own special integral jargon.

Basically, he's just a guy with a bachelor's degree in science. Yet he thinks he's above people with actual advanced degrees, he looks down on them and gives them a color.

He calls himself a "private person"… just google him or search him YouTube to see if you think he's a private person.

Most people in the integral community have seriously messed up lives / families, yet they think they are superior to people who don't buy into Wilber's view of reality.

It's scary and dangerous, in my opinion.

I'm not the hugest fan of Eckhart Tolle, but I remember he wrote something like "ego is attracted to ego", and I've noticed that most of the people who are drawn to Ken Wilber are arrogant, and it's a delusional arrogance at that.

They love to praise themselves by praising Ken.

Cohen says, "Just make a choice and give it up." Jeez, wouldn't we all do this with our suffering if it were so easy in the way Cohen describes it. This man has as much compassion as a gnat…probably less. I've heard other stories about this so-called guru and they are downright scary and mean. He's not practising just crazy wisdom…he's just crazy…a bit of a narcissist and bordering on sociopathic.

Annie, I hope you find a loving being to help you.