Are Men 12-year old Boys?
If you watch Enrique Iglesias’s “Ridiculous, Wildly NSFW Music Video for ‘Tonight’ (I’m Fucking You),” you’d sure think so.
Or are such adolescent male fantasies (every woman is perfectly beautiful; the man is handsome and has nothing to do but play cards and hook up; jealousy quickly turns to orgy; girl-on-girl on a speedboat, no less; everyone’s rich) just what sells songs?
Can we grow up? Can I grow up? Will I lust after beautiful women my whole life, or, having met my match, draw close to the eyes of love and, slowing down, reach depths and heights of pleasure and satisfaction that the Tonight I’m Effing You mentality can only…fantasize about?
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