Dharma talk: How to dodge your ego

Via on Nov 10, 2011

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Fiona writes: Kaspa & I are Buddhists, of the Pureland variety. We have a separate blog here, but today I thought I’d bring two usually-separate-parts-of-my-life together and post my Dharma talk here as well as over there.

We have a weekly meeting with our lovely local sangha, and usually Kaspa is celebrant (he leads the service). This involves making water offerings, leading walking and sitting meditation and chanting, and lots of bowing. There are lots of things to ‘get right’ (although it’s not as complicated as being bell-master, which Caroline did beautifully last night). I’m still very much a learner.

Last night I decided I’d be celebrant a few minutes before the service started. My talk was about how it feels to go out of your comfort zone, and how often our egos get in the way.

A ‘wagesa’ (the thing I forgot to bring to the service) is a strip of coloured material we wear around our necks, as a ‘membership badge’ like a dog collar – the translation of the Japanese is ‘small robe’. Namo Amida Bu is what Pureland Buddhists call the ‘nembutsu’ – a simple calling out to/remembrance of/praise of Amida Buddha. You can learn more if you’re interested here.

After the service, Kaspa told me I’d got everything right, apart from the terrible faux pas of walking down the centre of the material in front of the shrine. This is reserved for EMPERORS ONLY. Talk about giving myself a promotion…

Namo Amida Bu.

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Image by Dmitri Valberg, used with thanks. 

About Writing Our Way Home

Kaspa & Fiona’s eyes met across a crowded room in 2010. They decided to: a) get married & spend their rest of our lives together, & b) pool their passions & talents to give birth to Writing Our Way Home. Their mission of helping people to connect with the world through writing. They offer a smorgasbord of writing e-courses, & run a thriving community. Read more about their mindful writing practice, small stones, and meet Lorrie in Fiona’s free ebook. / Fiona is a published novelist, therapist, creativity coach, & is very fond of earl grey and home-made cake. Kaspa is a Buddhist priest, writer, therapist, drama enthusiast, & is still learning to play the ukulele.

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