Leaving Anusara.

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on Feb 15, 2012
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This has been the longest time I have gone without publishing a piece of writing in over two years. I kept trying to write this piece and that piece, and frankly, I have  pages of fabulously rich notes, scribbles, and thoughts to play with at some point. What has prevented me from drawing them coherently into an interesting piece of writing has been the bottom falling out of a central component of my life, namely Anusara Yoga. If you’re reading this, you know the rough outline of what has happened or perhaps you know the gritty details or the hints and shadows of them. In any case, every time I attempted to develop a piece of writing for the past few weeks, it felt forced, stilted, beside the point.

I realized tonight, as I wrote my resignation letter, that this would be a purging of blocked words, a letting go of things so that I could clear the way for new words to come, new ways of thinking to coalesce. And as I type this now, I feel relieved, renewed. I am creating instead of leaving, forming instead of dissolving. I’m entering the upswing of a new cycle.

The following is my letter to my community. Some people will like that I published it here and others will not. I wrote a piece here last year in which I spoke about the need to smash apart the old to begin again, and so this is what I’ve done. This is the way I need to deal with it to feel complete. Putting something into words makes it feel real to me. It seals the commitment. To those of you I love who are staying and those I love who have left, I hope it’s ok with you all. It’s the best I have to offer at the moment.

Chidambaram OM

Dear Friends,

This evening I came to a calm, yet profoundly sad decision to end my business affiliation with Anusara Yoga. This has been a painful process for me, involving the same anxiety, sleeplessness, and tears that so many of you are also experiencing. I love our system of asana and believe it to be the most elegant and intelligent one out there. I deeply love and admire our community as well, and for over ten years now I have been in a continual state of wonderment over the ocean of talent, intellect, and creativity that I have encountered in Anusara teachers and students. I cannot imagine my life without it and without all of you.

Furthermore, and the toughest point in all of this, is that I truly love, admire, and respect John. He has been supportive of me in many ways, and his teaching has helped me to heal when I was going through a couple of tough times. He has changed my life for the better. I am amazed at what he created, and I am forever grateful.

After several days of emotional turmoil, I realized that I was resisting leaving because of my deep love for the practice and for our community. The problem was, I had fallen out of love with the organization. Did you ever end a relationship because you and the other person were playing with different rulebooks? This is what I’m talking about. And this is why I have to leave.

I would like to be very clear. My resignation is a painful and carefully thought-out decision. It is a decision whose roots are in thoughts, feelings, and experiences that I’ve had over a few years. The events and revelations of the past couple of weeks have sealed it, but that tiny seed of thought indicating my eventual departure has been gestating for a while.

I pulled away from the initial cascade of resignations that began Sunday, feeling that I did not want to make a major life decision quickly, simply because so many of my close friends had left. What is necessary for me in any major life event is to get quiet, to make sure that I am in a thoughtful and grounded place, and to act from that place with informed certainty. I wrote, I meditated, I taught, I spoke with friends and family, and I’m in that place right now.

My reasons for leaving are rooted in my belief that an organization cannot successfully and healthily exist when one person has control over so many. I have felt like a bit of an outlier in the past few years because I have resisted some of Anusara’s philosophical underpinnings, specifically the Shiva-Shakti Primer. I have also disagreed with some of its financial initiatives, such as the 10% dues we are asked to pay on yoga products, when so many of us can barely make a living.

I have not felt empowered to publicly contest either of these policies without potentially damaging my career within Anusara, Inc., and that is a huge problem. I am a person who once spent six months on a picket line at the Museum of Modern Art fighting for my rights, and for me to feel, at this point in my life, that I can’t voice my dissent is not healthy. A silently fuming person is not the person who I wish to be. A person who says one thing and then does another is also not who I want to be. I believe in boundaries but I don’t believe in constraints. There is a difference. In addition, I feel that there has been a culture of fear and secrecy that is the opposite of the transparency I embrace. There are far too many moments for me to cite here, but I welcome anyone’s questions for clarification. This is about my personal integrity and about how I want to move through the world.

I am still a certified Anusara Yoga teacher, although I will be relinquishing my license. I will fulfill the teaching commitments that I have planned in the next few months that offer credit hours to those attending.

There is no other style of asana I wish to teach. I firmly believe that this brilliant alignment system is the best there is out there. I will continue to teach exactly how I teach right now. I will honor all that I have learned from John and from everyone, both teachers and students, who have been with me through this wild and beautiful ride. I love you all. Thank you. I’ll see you on the other side.

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing
and rightdoing there is a field.
I’ll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass
the world is too full to talk about.

– Rumi

With Love and Gratitude,

Susanna


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About Susanna Harwood Rubin

Susanna is passionately committed to finding beauty in everyday life. She is a yoga teacher-writer-visual artist, which means that she rarely stops moving except to meditate. She is ERYT-500, has been teaching for over 12 years, and travels regularly to South India to delve into the traditions of Rajanaka Yoga that inspire her work. Her spiritual home is the great Nataraja Temple of Chidambaram. She teaches internationally, but is based in New York. Find her weekly classes at Twisted Trunk Yoga and Abhaya Yoga . Susanna's artwork is represented in collections such as the UCLA Hammer Museum, the Berkeley Museum, and the Addison Gallery of American Art. She lectured and wrote for MoMA for years, including co-writing the book "Looking at Matisse and Picasso," and she will still happily talk about Picasso for hours if you ask her. Susanna currently writes on yoga, writing, art, and life for a number of publications, including The Huffington Post , Mantra Yoga+Health , Rebelle Society , and YOGANONYMOUS . She gives talks on yoga, Hindu myth, and philosophy, and created the popular Writing Your Practice workshops and telecourses for yogis, applying yoga philosophy and myth to the practice of writing. Overall, she is amazed at the richness of her life. Find her on Twitter , Facebook , & Instagram

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44 Responses to “Leaving Anusara.”

  1. Karl Saliter Karl Saliter says:

    Best of luck in your journey, Suzanna. Nice article: keep ’em coming!

    Just posted to Elephant Spirituality on Facebook.

  2. I honor you Susanna. So much love and light to you.- Jeannie Page

  3. I really resonated with these particular lines:
    "A silently fuming person is not the person who I wish to be. A person who says one thing and then does another is also not who I want to be. I believe in boundaries but I don’t believe in constraints. There is a difference."
    I am learning so much from all of these writings and viewpoints. Thank you for sharing.

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  5. A beautiful and deeply thoughtful response–freedom is not just another word.

  6. sarah says:

    Lovely piece – but anusara is not the only system of hatha yoga that is intelligent and wonderful. Just get on your mat and let your own creativity flow!

  7. Blessings Susanna. I appreciate reading your thoughts and process here. Thank you sincerely for sharing.

  8. Carol Horton Carol Horton says:

    Hi Susanna: I remember how generous you were in taking the time to share resources on Tantra with me when I was curious to find out more. That experience was one of the many that made me believe that no matter how distasteful Anusara looked to me from the outside (and it did), there had to be a lot of good things going on there. Now that you and others have begun speaking more freely, I see that even more clearly. (And can understand the dynamics, which I didn't before.) It feels to me like the crackup of Anusara Inc. is opening a space to from which many new and wonderful things will emerge. This is exciting to see. It will be good for everyone who loves yoga, regardless of method, teacher, or beliefs.

  9. jenna says:

    gorgeous piece. lots of heart, clarity, and the vision that comes from "getting quiet".

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  11. Teri Taylor says:

    Susanna, I understand completely. I decided not to take the Anusara TT. It is a relief tinged with sadness, but I see hope on the other side. Blessings, Teri

  12. Suzanna, I will always remember how you lit up the room when you arrived in Sianna’s teacher training in Paris, fresh from India! Your deep love and enthousiasm for the yoga philosophy was contagious! Your beauty, generosity, creativity and sweet nature will stay in my heart forever and I will be so happy to see you again somewhere on the yoga path. Good luck and untill we meet again! Love, Sandra

  13. Heartofthematter says:

    Suzanna, as I read this, the only thing keeping you from leaving Anusaura over philosophical disagreements and financial considerations was a fear that your career in Anusara would be affected. From what you wrote, you did not work for change within and are not motivated by the allegations about possible exploitation of the CEO/leader role in sexual relationships.
    You're clearly not afraid to voice your disagreements now, and the org is being restructured. I certainly respect how difficult helping to restructure the org will be, but it does seem that someone like you with clear thoughtful criticisms who voices total support for the system and its creator might see this as an opportunity to tear down & rebuild what she thought was wrong now that there's so much opening for that. As a sympathetic reader, it looks lwhat changed for you was the career value of being part of the org?

  14. myriamsofialluria says:

    Love & Blessings to you Susanna…I look forward to reading about the next phase for you! Believe that all is in perfect order, because it is.

  15. Ali says:

    Every single teacher leaving Anusara (if you’ve felt all this for so long, why did you wait till now? That’s not courageous, that’s just convenient) says they will be fulfilling their Anusara obligations etc etc. Right. So you’re leaving but you’re not really leaving. You’re offering credit hours but you don’t support or believe in what you’re teaching. You no longer want to be affiliated with Anusara but you’ll make money out of people genuinely committed to Anusara – committed enough to pay you no small amount of money. Where’s the integrity in that? All I see here is ego ego ego. Shame on you. I wouldn’t want you to be my yoga teacher if you were the last teacher on earth. C

  16. Dale says:

    I think you should stay, protect the kula, and work to fix the things that you do not like. With many things in the air and change in the wind, is a perfect time to enter the dialog and champion the changes that you think are necessary. In contrast, leaving helps nobody except yourself. Are you part of the kula, or just a bystander? Those who are _of_ the kula will protect and serve the kula, not run away.

  17. Shaloub says:

    I'll see you again on the mat/that field of grass.

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  19. Joe says:

    There is no integrity in the form or timing of your words. I have read too many flowery excuses for why the rats are jumping from the ship. Say what you really mean…. John screwed up and here’s my chance.

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