Life Instructions from a 95-year old.
I’ve always wanted to have a grandfather.
But due to unexpected life shortcuts, both of them were gone long before I could sit on their lap and play with their white beard and hear stories from when the world didn’t use to end.
Now, my imaginary grandfather looks a lot like the one in the picture. In the long, winter nights, we sit by the fireplace and in the summer, we occupy our swinging chairs in the porch, with a blanket of stars over our heads. And he says all these simple, breathable things to me, hoping that I at least get to do some of them, so when I’m 95 I can laugh like that, with no teeth.
Caught in my 21st century, postmodern ADD, it doesn’t seem like I’m listening… but deep down, my tired heart is taking notes.
“I don’t believe in aging. I believe in forever altering one’s aspect to the sun.”
~ Virginia Woolf
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Andréa Balt is an unfinished book, garage philosopher, eco maniac, art nut & other unrealistic & impractical things on a bike. She has a BA in Communication, an MFA in Creative Writing & she's a certified Nutrition Junkie. You can connect with her via Facebook, Twitter & Pinterest, or pay her a visit at Rebelle Époque, her art & writing blog, where she might fetch you a virtual cup of word-tea. She also makes daily, green rebellion at Rebelle Wellness and she recently co-created Rebelle Society, a creatively maladjusted, imaginary country, occupied by the art of being alive. Rebelle?











Beautiful, as always, Andrea….<3. ~Mamaste
That was supposed to be a heart; not more than 3
Thanks for the luv.
Not to be a stickler, but that's actually less than 3. Sorry.
I miss having a dog!
Wait there's an algebra smiley?
Just posted to Elephant Spirituality on Facebook.
I miss not having one. Only cats so far. But I think I'm ready now.
{No idea about algebra, but just saying the word makes me feel smart.}
Printing this out and posting on the refrigerator – and removing everything else.
Unless that "everything else" is on this list—which I don't doubt.
But what about cats? So much better than dogs!
Cat lady here. But if grandpa says so… welcome Dog.
Another hot pairing from Andrea's interstellar matchmaking service.
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Minus 'wear polished shoes' – accepting all the others. Thx Andrea – superb list to review from time to time…
Anyone seen “Tangled”? This gentleman HAS to Be the inspiration for the Cupid character!!!!! Pretty great advice he gives too!