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About: EdDeb Shapiro

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Ed and Deb Shapiro are award-winning authors of BE THE CHANGE, How Meditation Can Transform You And The World, forewords by the Dalai Lama and Robert Thurman, with contributors Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche, Mingyur Rinpoche, Jack Kornfield, and many others. They are featured bloggers on Oprah.com/Spirit, HuffingtonPost.com/Living and elephantjournal.com. Deb is the author of the award-winning YOUR BODY SPEAKS YOUR MIND, Decoding the Emotional, Psychological, and Spiritual Messages That Underlie Illness. Their 3 meditation CD's are: Metta—Loving kindness and Forgiveness; Samadhi–Breath Awareness and Insight; and Yoga Nidra–Inner Conscious Relaxation. After 30 years on the spiritual journey, they have realized not to take themselves too seriously! You can find them at: edanddebshapiro.com. Register for their Be The Change Meditate e-Conference which brings meditation alive and accessible to all.
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What Buddha Might Say To Deepak Chopra.

by on May 14, 2013

“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.” ~ The Buddha Many years ago, we were teaching a meditation weekend in Plymouth, England. On the Saturday, after the program was over for the day, Carole, one of the attendees, told us she had just been with Deepak Chopra, that he had walked out of the [...]

Meditate Your Way Through Anger.

by on May 3, 2013

Anger can be an effective expression of passion for justice and fairness, for basic rightness, for what is appropriate and humane. But anger can also be like a single match that can burn an entire forest, causing tremendous damage and hurt. It causes wars, leads to greed and self-deception. The fallout can be huge and, [...]

Why Spontaneous Kindness Feels So Sexy.

by on Jan 30, 2013

Source: animalwallpapers.us via klinn on Pinterest The Dalai Lama says kindness is his religion. Wikipedia says that a random act of kindness is “a selfless act performed by a person or persons wishing to either assist or cheer up an individual … There will generally be no reason other than to make people smile or [...]

Changing the World from the Inside Out.

by on Jan 16, 2013

Why do people mistreat each other? After the shooting at Sandy Hook, the response of the NRA was that every schoolteacher should be armed. But isn’t this trying to solve the problem from the outside, rather than from the inside? As the new Miss America, Mallory Hagen, said with her winning answer, I don’t think [...]

What the Buddha Might Say to Oprah.

by on Jan 8, 2013

We walk and dance along the path, picking ourselves up each time we fall, discovering that giving is getting, kindness is awesome, and life is a precious gift.

Why Stress Is Actually Your Best Friend.

by on Oct 24, 2012

Do you get stressed by the rain or do you just get wet? Ed was born in the in the U.S., Deb across the pond in England. We spent years living there as we had our own TV series in London, and taught workshops throughout Europe. But, little by little, the constant grey and rainy [...]

The Power of No.

by on Oct 10, 2012

We’ve all had times when we say yes to someone but really wanted to say no. It’s often difficult to say no because of the desire to be loved—we want to be helpful, we want to show we care, but we may have little to give, are tired, over worked, or need alone time. Do [...]

Where To Find Supreme Happiness.

by on Oct 3, 2012

“Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within.” ~ Helen Keller It would seem that regardless of emotional and physical hardships there is a place inside each of us that is essentially happy and free—but we have a tendency to ignore this place, or to think that being happy is dependent on circumstances [...]

The Enemy Is Within, Not Without.

by on Sep 18, 2012

We will always blame and condemn those we feel are responsible for wars and social injustice, without recognizing the degree of violence in ourselves. We must work on ourselves as well as with those we condemn if we wish to move towards peace. ~ Thich Nhat Hanh, nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize by Martin [...]

Turning Jealousy into Joy.

by on Sep 12, 2012

  With the impending Presidential election, we are facing an onslaught of one-upmanship, with no concession that one or the other might actually be right or have something to offer. It’s an endless battle of my ego versus yours, my opinions versus yours, my brilliance versus your stupidity. In a similar way, growing up in [...]

Your Body-mind Revealed.

by on Sep 5, 2012

                Generally speaking, we tend to think of our bodies and minds as separate systems and believe they function, for the most part, independently. Yet instinctively we know that is not the whole story. For instance, can you remember the last time you had an interview for a [...]

Six Reasons Why I Love To Be Wrong.

by on Jul 24, 2012

When a relationship is at its height, it’s as if the two separate partners merge into each other and become one. This works wonderfully while there is concord and rapport. But when there is discord, we tend to retreat back into our separate selves, communication at a standstill. Shaming or blaming each other causes further [...]

Medication or Meditation?

by on Jun 20, 2012

      “For fast-acting relief, try slowing down.” ~ Lily Tomlin, actress and comedienne We tend to take our bodies for granted and our health even more so. As a result, when something goes wrong, it can be alarming, even frightening, as if we had been walking around inside a stranger and suddenly discover [...]

What The Buddha Might Say to President Obama.

by on May 15, 2012

“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.” ~ Buddha With six months to go before the election, President Obama has officially launched his campaign. This is an important time for him not to take anything for granted, but also to stay true to his beliefs and [...]

From Gitmo to Gandhi.

by on May 8, 2012

“I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi The prison camp at Guantanamo Bay, built on a legacy of fear, was established to deal with violent terrorists, but instead became the cause of further suffering and chaos. It [...]

Why Do We Enjoy Making Fun of Others?

by on May 1, 2012

Two men and a woman videoed themselves enthusiastically laughing as they beat up an old man. Nineteen year-old Tyler Clementi committed suicide by jumping off the George Washington Bridge after his roommate and a friend secretly video taped him having gay sex and put it out on the internet. Children giggle when another child falls [...]

What the Buddha Might Say to Mitt Romney.

by on Apr 24, 2012

 “We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.“  ~ Buddha One of the truly great things in life is to discover our genuine and authentic self, to dance to the beat of our own drum. And so, conversely, one of the greatest challenges [...]

Compassion the Dalai Lama Way.

by on Apr 17, 2012

A Meeting with the Dalai Lama. Shortly after we were married, we went to India and spent our honeymoon in ashrams and monasteries, and then we went to McCleod Ganj, where the Dalai Lama lives in exile along with other Tibetan refugees. Once there, we went to the Office of Securities to request a meeting [...]

If You’re Not Here, Then Where Are You?

by on Apr 10, 2012

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.  ~ John Lennon Who said life would be like walking the yellow brick road, or that the human condition would be easy? And why is it so important to be here? What’s the big deal? It appears that the reason we’re not happy [...]

What Does Karma Yoga Mean?

by on Apr 6, 2012

If we act with kindness and without focusing on ourselves, happiness will arise naturally, like a flower opening in the sun. Some people think that yoga means stretching, bending and twisting like a pretzel, or sitting crossed legged with our eyes closed and chanting om. But if that is all we did we would be [...]

How Hot Is Your Anger?

by on Mar 27, 2012

We can watch as anger fills the mind and makes such a song and dance, and we can just keep breathing and watching as it goes on it’s merry way.

Meditation: The Pearl in the Oyster.

by on Mar 19, 2012

Meditation enables us to transform difficulties into solutions, release the boundaries and limitations of separation and merge into oneness. It is an experience of profound joy and intimate familiarity, a feeling of coming home that reminds us so completely of who we really are that we forget we had ever forgotten. There is just this.

Seeing with New Eyes.

by on Mar 7, 2012

Imagine you have never been here before. Everything you see is completely new to you, completely unknown, waiting to be explored and discovered.

Why Yoga Has Gone from The Sane to The Bizarre.

by on Feb 28, 2012

      Yoga has come a long way from its roots in the east. As it has become more popular in the west teachers have added their own twists—both literally and figuratively. In the process of becoming so widespread, however, yoga often gets misunderstood by both teachers and practitioners. Yoga is a way of [...]

What Your Heart Has To Say.

by on Feb 14, 2012

      Love is letting go of fear — Gerald Jamplosky Love is in the air! Everywhere we see red hearts beaming from cards and boxes of chocolates. The color red is entrenched in our collective psyche as the symbol of love —a dozen roses do not have quite the same impact if they [...]

Don’t Put Anyone Out Of Your Heart.

by on Feb 8, 2012

The story goes that, at the time of the Buddha, a group of monks wanted to do a quiet retreat… …away from the crowds of followers, so the Buddha sent them to a glade in the forest where he said they would be undisturbed. The monks found their way there and settled down to meditate. [...]

Does Your Relationship Ever Drive You Crazy?

by on Jan 25, 2012

Shortly after we were married we went to India and spent our honeymoon in a Yoga ashram and a Buddhist monastery. We also had a private meeting with the Dalai Lama at his residence in McLeod Ganj, in the foothills of the Himalayas. As Ed recalls: After some 30 minutes of talking with him I [...]

Relax India Style By Spreading Your Dhoti.

by on Dec 20, 2011

India is an extraordinary country where you get to meet all sorts of unusual people. On a recent visit we had tea with Mary and Don, a fascinating couple, who were born-again Christians from Texas.

Why Your Intellect Is An Obstacle In Yoga.

by on Nov 15, 2011

The real experience of yoga is not found through the books or teachings, as helpful and inspirational as they may be. When we are about to die it won’t help to know what page we are meant to be on!

How Can You Love Me When I Don’t Love Myself.

by on Nov 8, 2011

Loving ourselves can appear so difficult; it seems much easier to love someone else. But if we don’t start with ourselves then we can’t truly care about anyone else. Rather, we love them so they will love us, which is the love we are not giving to ourselves.

Shut Up and Be Still!

by on Nov 1, 2011

      Ed is a passionate and expert skier. When you sit for meditation and your mind drifts you can just bring it back to your practice and continue. But if you are skiing down a steep mountain and you lose concentration you could hit a tree. Ed teaches this, calling it inner skiing, [...]

Ignorance Isn’t Bliss!

by on Oct 19, 2011

We think that if we know too much it will just be a burden we can’t handle, best to keep our heads down like an ostrich and ignore change and fear.

Be Inspired by Seven Amazing People Being The Change.

by on Oct 5, 2011

One evening we were drinking tea and talking about the state of the world, the good and not so good things, and realizing the preciousness of it all. We imagined a world without suffering and agreed that people needed to unite in greater connectedness. It became obvious to us that this could be done by [...]

What the Buddha Might Say to Rick Perry.

by on Sep 6, 2011

You may try but you can never run away from yourself. — Swami Brahmananda While we were living in England we had our own TV series and interviewed the British minister Jonathan Aitken, who had just been released from prison. He was an arrogant, egotistical man who, like many politicians in America, think they can [...]

You Are Not The Body Or The Mind

by on Aug 30, 2011

“Or we can chose to know it, see it, be with it, but not become it. It is not who we are, it does not define us. Yes, the pain is real but, like all things, this too shall pass. My head has started to find my feet again. Life in the body!”

There is no Real Yoga without Love.

by on Aug 17, 2011

“There are two wolves that are fighting each other in my heart,” his father says. “The first wolf is angry, jealous, dishonest, bitter, and hateful. The second wolf is kind, caring, compassionate, generous, and honest.” The child asks which of the wolves will win the fight. His father replies, “The one I chose to feed.”

Even Politicians Need Love—Ask the Buddha!

by on Aug 2, 2011

America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter, and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves. ~ Abraham Lincoln The political arena right now can make any sane person feel sick and angry, because of the few selfish leaders imposing their own egocentric whims. As we have seen in [...]


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