What To Do When A Relationship Makes You Cry.by Ellen Smoak on Apr 8, 2013 Have you ever cried your eyes out over your ex? What about cried your eyes out while you were still in the relationship? Yesterday, a reader wrote to me about her realization that her ex made her cry more than he made her smile. Then, she told me that he didn’t understand why she wouldn’t [...] 2,708 views |
Why Your Ex Is Getting Over You Faster.by Ellen Smoak on Mar 28, 2013 Time and time again, my private clients, readers and loyal fans ask me this same question: Why do men seem to get over a breakup faster than women? I find this one of the most interesting topics surrounding breaking up…one that needs much more light shed on it to fully understand why. This is a question that I am [...] 1,023 views |
Did You Know Your Ex Is Still Getting in Your Pants?by Ellen Smoak on Mar 19, 2013 A heart that has been broken feels like it was just sent through a cheese grater and trampled on by a herd of wild buffalo. So, when our heart is broken, what we need is advice that’s as strong as the way we want to feel again. 633 views |
Why a Rebound Relationship is What We Need after Being Dumped.by Ellen Smoak on Feb 26, 2013 Being dumped is probably the most rejecting feeling in the entire world. 1,015 views |
This Is Why Your Ex Broke Up with You.by Ellen Smoak on Jan 30, 2013 Breakups already make us crazy enough. Why drive yourself even more crazy searching for unattainable answers? 1,559 views |
The Present F*cking Moment.by Ellen Smoak on Nov 16, 2012 Don’t get me wrong—I loved Eckhart Tolle’s book The Power of Now just as much as the next “un-present” person. But let’s be real. 388 views |
How I Survived Being Dumped by My Fiance.by Ellen Smoak on Oct 27, 2012 What I realized that day is that in order to beat my broken heart, I had to want it and act on that desire. I had to want to heal and get over my ex more than I’d ever wanted anything. Because, (and I realized this too), the rest of my life depended on it. 1,207 views |
Shut the Refrigerator Door Already.by Ellen Smoak on Oct 16, 2011 Do you ever hold the refrigerator door open for way too long, waiting for something to just appear out of nowhere? And what about the times you keep going back, as if exactly what you want to eat will magically be there five minutes later? 401 views |
Don’t Let Yourself Be the Judge.by Ellen Smoak on Aug 26, 2011 Do you judge people? Criticize them? Are there people in your life who you belittle behind their backs or even silently to yourself? 1,254 views |