A Dying Baby Teaches Me about Living.by Jennifer Pastiloff on May 27, 2012 Here I am in Santa Fe, sitting on a love seat, and next to me, a sweet baby is propped up on pillows, as I write, drool sliding down his chin, eyelids heavy and soft, purring like a cat every so often. A sweet dying baby. 2,083 views |
Meet The OMies.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Apr 19, 2012 I am Jennifer Pastiloff and this series is designed to introduce the world to someone I find incredible. Someone who is manifesting their dreams on a daily basis. Today’s guest is Rick Rondeau, co-founder of one of my favorite companies ever: The OMies. I will admit that I am obsessed and own 6 OMies t-shirts. 11% of all revenue generated [...] 292 views |
Saying Goodbye.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 20, 2012 I realize that my father, and my beloved soul brother Steve, for the brief time they were both in my life, taught me how to be human. They taught me: what it means to connect to someone. To reach over and touch someone’s forearm, to look into their eyes and laugh so hard that I think my insides my fall out of me if I don’t grip my stomach and pray, to be made so alive by their presence that I wonder if I have made them up. 1,061 views |
Love Yourself, Accept Yourself, Forgive Yourself.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 19, 2012 One of my main rules as a yoga teacher is that if you fall, you must laugh and take down your neighbor, which cultivates a sense of humor, and hopefully a little joy. You need at least a little joy daily. Sprinkle it on your cereal, slip it in your downward facing dog, add it to your pinot noir. 4,613 views |
What I Learned From My Friend Steve Bridges. 1963-2012by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 9, 2012 Although I had thought a lot about this all throughout the week, it wasn’t until Annie asked me, and I had to say it aloud, that I got very clear on the things I had learned from him. Not from his death but from his life. He taught me to love my life. 1,275 views |
Robert Sturman: King of The Yoga Photograph, King of Capturing The Soul. The Manifestation Q&A Series.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Feb 21, 2012 When I asked what he will be up to in 2012, he says “I’ll be pointing towards the beauty and I’ll be continuing to tell our story. That’s what the Artist does” and this, this, is why I love Robert Sturman. 1,777 views |
Sanctuaryby Jennifer Pastiloff on Apr 18, 2011 The following blog entry is not written by me, but rather by a very dear friend named Emily Rapp. I feel compelled to share. I really have no choice but to share it with the world. Her words, heartbreaking and gorgeous, shed light on something unspeakable. Having had serious loss in my own life, I [...] 625 views |
What Are You Manifesting In Your Life? (and Modern Family)by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 22, 2011 I had been moaning and whining and crying about how I couldn’t take it anymore and didn’t want to be in pain anymore… 1,995 views |
The Archeology of Loveby Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 17, 2011 Part 3 in the Series ” The Evolution of a Relationship“. As it says in the poem below, “I will invent what I have to (like any good archeologist)”. I am fascinated by our ability to fall in love, to fall out of love, to get over what seems un-get-overable at the time. I am in [...] 336 views |
Romance: A Fairy Tale.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 14, 2011 Part 2 of The Evolution of A Relationship. Another one from when I was a waitress. There is no denying that sometimes what we feel is a curse…can be our greatest blessing. So much art came from those years at that café. So much poetry in the faces I saw, daily. In the dishes. In [...] 729 views |
The Evolution of a Relationship: two poems for people who may or may not like poems.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 13, 2011 Ah, so I am coming back to my roots. Writing. When I was a kid, my parents (before my father died) used to introduce me as “the writer”. This embarrassed me for some reason. So much so, that I grew up and decided to be an actress? Well, I am back. The writer. Reviewing some [...] 479 views |
Let Go.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Feb 24, 2011 It’s got me wondering, this whole business of “letting go”. I’m hearing it everywhere: On the street someone whispers it into their cell phone, Girl, you have to let it go. He’s horrible to you. You deserve better. Move on. Let go! The yoga teacher insists upon it: Inhale, and with the next exhale, Let [...] 3,754 views |
Cinemasana. Yea, you read that right! Cinema + Asana!by Jennifer Pastiloff on Nov 18, 2010 Do you love yoga and want to share your practice w… 132 views |
What are you up against?by Jennifer Pastiloff on Nov 14, 2010 I can’t hear you. Says your yoga teacher. Well, if I stand really close to you and look at your lips, I can. Or if I bend down as you are in downdog and look at you upside down, maybe I can. Gary Lightbody, Lead singer of Snow Patrol fittingly said: ” Jennifer is an [...] 1,189 views |
The Anniversary: Celebrating life’s curveballs.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Sep 14, 2010 The Anniversary of finding out devastating news about your child. A lesson in turning life, even when it seems impossible, into a celebration. My sister celebrates the anniversary of finding out her son has special needs ( Prader-Willi Syndrome) 1,193 views |
Fear: how do you live your life?by Jennifer Pastiloff on Aug 29, 2010 Fear: Is it running the show? Healing from an eating disorder and other fears… 2,776 views |
Change. Yay Change!by Jennifer Pastiloff on Jun 25, 2010 Learning to embrace change instead of having it leave you in cold sweats. It does not have to equal sadness and chaos. Yay change! 962 views |
Father’s Day, and The Expiration of Grief.by Jennifer Pastiloff on Jun 21, 2010 Expressing grief doesn’t have a time stamp. As long as you have a heart and you feel a tug at that heart, you are permitted to express your grief. Even if it has been 25 years. 1,724 views |
Offer Good…and Good Comes Back to Us. ~Jennifer Pastiloffby Jennifer Pastiloff on Mar 10, 2010 California Bride Raises $2,300 at her wedding and donates 100% of would-be wedding expenses to relief for Haiti. My wedding was perfect. I still believe it may have been a dream if it weren’t for the photos. If you read the first article I wrote for elephantjournal.com, you’ll remember how I described myself as not being [...] 1,187 views |