“Are You There, Buddha? It’s me, John.” ~ Buddhists and Prayer

Via John Pappas
on Feb 2, 2010
get elephant's newsletter

Prayer should be part of our spiritual journey, transforming confusion into clarity and suffering into joy. However, some mistakenly believe that the Absolute is separate and/or different from us. Believing this, their prayers ask for favors, such as health, salvation, fame, victory or the winning lottery numbers. They use prayer in order to manipulate their God to work for their benefit. Wanting Him to play favorites, they beg to be blessed by Him at the expense of others. However, this attitude defeats the power of prayer. We believe that in order for prayer to be effective it must be devoid of any self-centeredness and calculation, relying strictly on great compassion. It should be done to strengthen and open our hearts, and to benefit all beings. Buddhist prayer has nothing to do with begging for personal worldly or heavenly gains.

Buddhist prayer is a practice to awaken our inherent inner capacities of strength, compassion and wisdom rather than to petition external forces based on fear, idolizing, and worldly and/or heavenly gain. Buddhist prayer is a form of meditation; it is a practice of inner reconditioning. Buddhist prayer replaces the negative with the virtuous and points us to the blessings of Life. ~ from here

This is always a tough one for me and both the video and excerpt touch upon important differences between Buddhist and Christian definitions of prayer. It seems that no tradition of prayer in Buddhism utilizes a direct connection with supernatural agents. This doesn’t mean that, as Barbara puts it, we don’t “invoke” the names, features or aid of deities or Bodhisattvas. If you walk into my house in the morning during my routine, I would say that it damn well looks like a prayer. Hands in gassho while reciting something “reverent” in front of an altar.


I don’t ask or request anything but by connecting with the needs and suffering of others and by trying to realize the qualities of those Buddhas and bodhisattvas, I suppose that it opens up some Dharma doors for me.  There is a conduit to transcendence somewhere. Even my skeptical mind assumes as much but the exact method is out of grasp and open to interpretation and experimentation. Prayer can be a part of that because it connects me to the transcendent nature for which I strive. Just as Christians pray, we pray. We ground our prayers in the strength of our practice and not the waiting ears of some omniscient creator however. That is not to say that some help or guidance isn’t appreciated from time to time (yeah, I’m looking at you Amitabha!).


Bottom line is that if praying to invisible omnipresent Buddhas aids your practice then apply it. From my brief (and granted incomplete) exploration of some esoteric practices it seems that the qualities of those we pray to can eventually become realized in our own actions and reactions if we strive. At that time I suppose it is fine to throw away the deities and pray to the features we already have as a way to actualize them.

The critical point of any practice is to practice with zeal. Zeal does not entail just working hard, but also enthusiasm and some amount of delight in the practice. That zeal may manifest itself in prayer to deities, Buddhas and bodhisattvas, recitation, meditation or just joyous experience in life. The whole point of prayer is connection, whether that connection is with nature, God, Amitabha or simply our own nature is of little (or no) importance.

The real point is to bring about some amount of inner balance and serenity. It is not important to get into a great deal of conceptualization whether this or that thing is of a specific practice (Buddhist, Christian or secular). The largest difference between Buddhist prayer and prayer in a Christian sense is that prayer for Buddhists is a part of a process that works towards the end of suffering.

I suppose that there is an aspect of reverence in any tradition though. But sometimes the best prayers or chants are the ones where the dude next to us laughs, farts or falls down. Then we connect with our practice in an honest and whole-hearted way – laughter!





About John Pappas

John Pappas is a struggling Zen practitioner with a slight Vajrayana palate (but he won't admit it) stumbling between the relative and absolute through the Buddhist Purgatory otherwise known as the Great Plains of South Dakota. Emerging writer, librarian and aspiring hungry ghost, John spews his skewed perception of the dharma all over his personal blog, Subtle Dharma Mouth Punch as well as on the ephemeral Elephant Journal and occasionally (while having no artistic ability to speak of) on Dharma/Arte. John also loves tacos, homebrew, yoginis and obscure Cthulhu references. You can follow him on twitter under the handle @zendustzendirt


6 Responses to ““Are You There, Buddha? It’s me, John.” ~ Buddhists and Prayer”

  1. Pat says:

    IMHO It seems to me that Christians pray TO and in my practice I pray FOR.
    Pat, St. Louis

  2. Greg says:

    I highly recommend The Gethsemani Encounter, which chronicles a retreat attended by both Buddhists and Christians, including HH Dalai Lama. The idea for the retreat was initiated at Naropa University.

    In the text the monastic traditions are compared including approaches to prayer. The book provides a better look at the more intense form of Christian prayer practiced by Benedictines. The retreat was an homage to the work of Thomas Merton who embraced both traditions (as I do).

    Also an excellent work in this regard is Thich Nhat Hahn's book Coming Home: Jesus and Buddha as Brothers.

    Also of interest are the sections in Luminous Emptiness regarding deity yoga. The book by Francesca Fremantle was tutored by Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche and is subtitled Understanding the Tibetan Book of the Dead.

    The more mystical traditions of both faiths lead to some common ground though sorting through the language can be a challenge. This is an area where practice shines.

  3. […] church. I don’t necessarily think of myself as a Christian now—I find myself more drawn to Buddhist philosophy and practice—yet I have often contemplated the radical challenge from Jesus to “love your enemies.” When […]

  4. Buddha Guard 1
    The Buddha guard statues are available in five different postures. All of these had a group and protected Lord Siddhartha in the jungle, and trying to get meditation in forest (jungle).

    These statues are also called Dragon.

    These statues have about 28 inches height and about 15 to 20 inches width. Height and width varies as per the posture of statue.

    Group of five guards is available here. You can order this group of five. You also have flexibility to choose few of them also.

    This is a custom carved statues available in fixed size and we carve this on demand. This needs special carving technique and very senior craftsman.
    Highly furnished and very fine carved statue.

    This set of 5 is very attractive for interior decoration as Dragon.

  5. hurda says:

    Number of computers and the Internet with millions from the cable system is composed by a number of sub-networks composed of many of these are based. Without using the internet are just waiting for a clear, even to 152 billion per year has led to kilowat time consuming. Of course, the benefits are not always harmful. According to him, which is aimed at today's answer to the internet is definitely one of the best inventions will continue.
    hurda demir
    hurda metal

  6. fuar standı says:

    sharing is very beautiful and high quality