Is the Guru/Student connection lost the more big business Yoga gets?

Via Tobye Hillier
on Oct 1, 2011
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I’ve felt rather jaded with yoga recently. Not my own personal practice, although I’ve been busy starting college and my practice has taken a back seat to a certain degree, I enjoy it. It’s more the teaching of it that I’ve fallen out with.

Don’t get me wrong, I love teaching. I love the sociability of it. I’m an extrovert in the true sense of the meaning ie; I feel energised being around others. I love the energy of company that I find in a yoga class.

But I’ve not been teaching much of late. Summer is always bad for yoga studios right? And traditionally yogasana is started in the autumn anyway. I was hoping that in opening my own studio, there would be enough regular students that I could afford the odd residential here and there, with maybe a few master classes thrown in for good measure. There hasn’t even been enough students to pay the rent though.

The situation has made me think, to re-evaluate where I’m at and focus on what I actually want. You see I don’t want yoga to be about money. Payment for me is hearing people telling me how great they feel after I class I’ve taught or, how they don’t get those crippling migraine headaches that used to keep them bedridden for days at a time, anymore.

We’re between a rock and a hard place at the moment it seems…at least, that’s how it appears for yoga studios around me on the east coast of Ireland. A lot of the bigger studios have begun to offer unlimited class passes. For around fifty euros a month, you can take as many classes as you want. That’s a pretty good deal I reckon!

Most of these classes though are based around the one-hour format. Can we really get a proper yoga practice in just one hour? I don’t think so. To really get the benefit of yoga, from yogasana to meditation, the class has to be longer. In the need to get more people in to pay for rent and teachers, studios have succumb to the fast-food ideology… value for money and quick when we’ve not got time, but doesn’t give us the long-term nutrition we really need.

Karuna yoga as a school, has been around for 47 years now. My Guru Ruth White, as a student of B.K.S. Iyengar (Guriji is still president of the Karuna school), was also studying Advaita and meditation with her husband John. In those early days, Iyengar wouldn’t teach meditation and Ruth’s love of this limb of yoga encouraged her to take the step in setting up Karuna yoga.

Ruth White.

Karuna was my first style of yoga and it fits me like a glove. I enjoy other styles, but Karuna is my heart. Ruth’s classes are intense and can last for hours. I sometimes think she’d be happy to keep teaching all day, but she notices when students begin to get distracted by thoughts of lunch. Her morning sessions always end with pranayama and meditation after savasana. A few days of this at a residential and I’m walking on air.

So you can maybe see why I don’t really agree with the whole one-hour lesson thing. The other thing I feel students could be missing out on though is connection. Connection between student and teacher is important. Traditionally yoga would have been taught one-on-one, just guru and student and there would have been a certain amount of bonding in this dynamic.

It is possible for the teacher to keep a connection with a lot of students. Ruth White can certainly do it, there could be 50 budding teachers in her class but she manages to teach each person individually. And I’ve a feeling that John Friend is probably very much the same.

I guess what I’m trying to say here is that; as yoga becomes more and more popular, with more studios opening everyday. And with yoga business being more about getting “butts on seats”. I hope we don’t lose sight completely, of what yoga actually is.

You see, it’s real easy to get caught up by the ego without realising. It’s possible that big studio owners believe they are reaching out to more people and spreading the yoga love, when the opposite may be the truth. There’s less and less of a connection with guru and student.

Anyone can teach yoga postures, but to really teach yoga, I think the teacher has to have had some kind of epiphany. An epiphany about how the life experiences they’ve been and are going through, are directly linked to what’s happening physically, with muscle, sinew and bone. The teacher can then see what’s happening with each student and share their experiences.

I’ve recently been doing some one-on-one sessions with a guy that runs and plays a lot of football. He wanted to try yoga because of the flexibility, to compliment his fitness routine. But he also wanted to learn more about how yoga sets the mind at ease and releases stress. He’s under some pressure with work and unlike a lot of guys, has decided to do something about it before it effects his health, as he’s been experiencing some anxiety and panic attacks.

In three sessions, not only has he found muscles that weren’t there before, he’s also not had one panic attack in two weeks! I don’t feel that he would have got those results as fast if he’d been going to classes with 20 or more people in it, unless the teacher was really good at making connections with the students.

So I don’t feel jaded about teaching yoga anymore. For a long time my biggest worry was trying to get people into classes, to pay the rent and earn some money. Now, I’m not worried. No matter how many people I teach, the only thing I really have to focus on to be happy, is how I connect with each person in the class.


About Tobye Hillier

Originally from England, Tobye Hillier has lived in Ireland for over 17 years, living in a small seaside town called Greystones 20 miles south of Dublin. A qualified Karuna yoga teacher (RYT 500), Tobye also plays a pretty darn funky 5-string bass guitar and likes to sing in other peoples' showers. Empathic and intuitive, He likes to bend Yoga to suit people and not the other way around.


14 Responses to “Is the Guru/Student connection lost the more big business Yoga gets?”

  1. Prasad Rangnekar says:

    Nice write up Tobye, all the best for your journey, May you guide many more with your new found strength and confidence

  2. yogi tobye says:

    Why thankyou Emer!

    Glad you enjoyed reading it 🙂

  3. Louise says:

    hi Tobye, although i know what you mean, i like to think of myself as a yoga coach, spurring students on on whatever level they need. all my classes are very different, size wise with mixed abilities & very different energies. & although i do like to mix in with the students & have that connection, some students just like to be there in the middle, being amongst it, soaking up the atmosphere & do not like to speak or be spoken too. this did used to freak me out a bit at first, "cos why didnt they want my input?" but when they still keep coming back you have to think thats how they like it. everyone is different with different needs & if an hour suits some, let it be, it may just be that that hour will start them on the road to seek more. regarding the business side of things, as long as your living is an honest one & it does pay the rent its ok. its quite easy to give something back to the universe, eg charity work.

  4. yogi tobye says:

    I hear ya Louise, the atmosphere is the connection for lots of people I guess.

    And certainly there is nothing wrong with the one-hour class… actually I wonder where the 90 minute format came from?

  5. Tanya Lee Markul says:

    I definitely think yoga can be taught in an hour – we don't always have time for a full 90 minutes or 2-3 hours. I think it's about the sincerity of how it's practiced that counts. 🙂 Just my little opinion. And….I've often thought about this. Where I live, there is a yoga studio that has gotten quite popular and now has 3 locations opened in the small city of Copenhagen – I feel in a way that it's a bit much….if you are already successful, why not leave room for others to make their way?!

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  7. yogi tobye says:

    yeah there's a couple of studios here in Dublin that have 3/4 venues a piece…. both good studios, but then one of them has a lot of teachers moving through it. I think a lot of yogis find a teacher they love and trust and no matter if its 60 or 90 minutes, they enjoy the class.

    It's not the idea of a 60 minute class in itself….. just more the thought that the class length has been shortened to fit more classes in, in one day……

    Thanks T!

  8. ZensationalCreations says:

    Damn, did I write this? No, but it's written as if Tobyee plugged into my head and heart at the same time! Pretty scary, pretty awesome! Been there/doing that! I closed my studio that was on the gorgeous Isle of Palms in S.C. –, in 2008 and started So, for 3 years now, I've focused on building my new business and getting "my practice" back. I was so engrossed in teaching yoga that my personal practice slipped through the cracks. Every class I took for myself, became a class to pick up teachers' dialog instead of letting go of the dialog overload in my head. That was a hard "balancing act" for me! Since the beginning of 2011, people have been seeking my services as a teacher like never before. I started subbing here and there; then the flood gates opened. Huuuumm, I wonder if it's because I whispered to the Universe, "please let me know if I should teach yoga again"? As of Monday, 10/3/11, I will start teaching 2 days a week with the branch of government where I worked before resigning to open my yoga studio. Would you agree that any and all branches of our government needs yoga like never before?!?!?! I would bet that most of our government employees have never tried yoga! Working as a government employee was definitely not a yogic environment for me. Anyway, enough about me… Just sayin 🙂 MUCH Love to you Tobyee, thanks for your amazing words. Keep writing AND teaching as long as your practice doesn't suffer, and you are happy in the flow of the Universe. Om Shanti…

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  10. Maria says:

    Interesting Tobye. Thanks for posting. A couple of thoughts struck me on reading this. I think for many people who attend yoga classes, the one-hour format works. i think the deeper you go into learning about and practising yoga – asana, pranayama and meditation, the less a one hour class will be enough. Also agree with previous comment – students ofetn follow the teacher, not the studio or location….

  11. yogi tobye says:

    Good work Z! 🙂

  12. yogi tobye says:

    For sure Maria, the auld glazed look in the eyes of newbies when ya pass the hour mark… gotsta keep them focused!

    Good luck in Vancouver 🙂

  13. Nils Montan says:

    Gurus are usually bad wherever and whenever you find them. We are mature enough to get our spirituality in a democratic form and don't need the old Asian model. Whatever you do, don't give the Guru too much money or hop into bed with them, the two things they seem most interested in.