What it really means to love…farts & all.

Via Roger Wolsey
on Oct 3, 2011
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For the Lovers.

Wow! Now that‘s a tribute! What a testimony!

May we all find someone who is perfectly imperfect … who accepts our perfect imperfections.

happy loving everyone.




Roger is the author of Kissing Fish: christianity for people who don’t like christianity.  He informs us that he doesn’t snore… but has a few other issues. We didn’t ask him to elaborate.


About Roger Wolsey

Roger Wolsey is a free-spirited GenX-er who thinks and feels a lot about God and Jesus. He’s a progressive Christian who identifies with people who consider themselves as being “spiritual but not religious.” He came of age during the “Minneapolis sound” era and enjoyed seeing The Replacements, The Jayhawks, Husker Du, The Wallets, Trip Shakespeare, Prince, and Soul Asylum in concert—leading to strong musical influences to his theology. He earned his Masters of Divinity degree at the Iliff School of Theology in Denver, CO. Roger is an ordained pastor in the United Methodist Church and he currently serves as the director of the Wesley Foundation campus ministry at C.U. in Boulder, CO. He was married for ten years, divorced in 2005 and now co-parents a delightful 10-year old son. Roger loves live music, hosting house concerts, rock-climbing, yoga, centering prayer, trail-running with his dog Kingdom, dancing, camping, riding his motorcycle, blogging, and playing his trumpet in ska bands and music projects. He's recently written a book Kissing Fish: christianity for people who don't like christianity


8 Responses to “What it really means to love…farts & all.”

  1. tim conard says:

    this was beautiful.
    my late grandfather used to snore in his chair so loudly you couldn't hear the tv over him. he would frequently snore so loudly that he would wake himself, suddenly sitting bolt uoright and looking around for the source of the noise.
    my late grandmother used this incredibly strong perfumed powder. you could walk into a room ten minutes after she had left and smell that she had been there.
    i would give almost anything to hear those snores and smell that powder again…

  2. Tammy Ash Perkins says:

    Beautifully said… Thank you for sharing this.

  3. Amy says:

    So sweet and wonderful. I hope I do find someone perfectly imperfect to spend the rest of my days with!

  4. Sara Young says:

    Yay! Open them up with humor then give them the message. Beautifully executed. Thanks.

  5. BrotherRog says:

    I believe you're thinking of this one" http://www.elephantjournal.com/2010/04/confession

  6. CynthiaBeard says:


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  8. dsrtrosy says:

    Wow, where do you find these wonderful things? While I don't necessarily believe there is someone for everyone, I do love to hear those love stories that transcend perfection and becomes the perfect match in the imperfections. This is the love we should teach, not the fantasy.