March 25, 2012

Life Instructions from a 95-year old.

(Photo via Sodahead)

I’ve always wanted to have a grandfather.

But due to unexpected life shortcuts, both of them were gone long before I could sit on their lap and play with their white beard and hear stories from when the world didn’t use to end.

Now, my imaginary grandfather looks a lot like the one in the picture. In the long, winter nights, we sit by the fireplace and in the summer, we occupy our swinging chairs in the porch, with a blanket of stars over our heads. And he says all these simple, breathable things to me, hoping that I at least get to do some of them, so when I’m 95 I can laugh like that, with no teeth.

Caught in my 21st century, postmodern ADD, it doesn’t seem like I’m listening… but deep down, my tired heart is taking notes.

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“I don’t believe in aging. I believe in forever altering one’s aspect to the sun.” 

~ Virginia Woolf


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blong Feb 6, 2014 4:16pm

This is a list that requires frequent rereading. It also makes me want to visit my grandfather… He is 95. ROADTRIP!

ankiss34 Jan 1, 2014 8:53pm

Wonderful list! I love getting wisdom from older adults. They can teach us so much.

brianna Nov 3, 2013 6:55pm

i read this once online and then forgot what it was called… i just spent i don't know how long looking for it, and then a half hour reading it.

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