The Indomitable Female Spirit.

Via Mae Sakharov
on Jul 7, 2012
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Photo: Political Graveyard

Celebrating the Women Who Have Lived Boldly.

Many dauntless women have traversed the globe in search of adventure, love and freedom from the constraints of patriarchal societies. They often gave little thought to the following day, even during difficult times, although perhaps they were sometimes struck by a yearning to take a lighter road.

An avid reader of biographies, I have always loved reading about such women and their exploits. Biographies of Colette, George Sand and Isadora Duncan are cherished possessions in books now yellowed with age.

Just as fascinating for the reading are tales of women seeking spiritual enlightenment in far-off corners of the world. For a while, I read all I could find about the Russian Jewess Isabelle Eberhardt who converted to Islam and disguised herself as a Bedouin traveling through the North African Algerian Sahara.

Residents of the walled city of Damascus revered Lady Jane Digby el Mazrab, the much-married English aristocrat who ended her days with a man 20 years younger, writing vivid journals of her experiences traveling in the desert.

Photo: Sherry Venegas

Stories of the sharp-shooter Annie Oakley who traveled with Buffalo Bill Cody’s Wild West Show and the notorious outlaw Belle Starr left me wanting to join their ilk.

Other heroines were those who gave their lives to service, renunciation and political activism. The lives of Sojourner Truth, Madame de Pompadour, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Louisa May Alcott, the Stowe sisters and Prudence Crandall are profiles in courage.

Prudence Crandall was an educator and abolitionist who opened the first private boarding school for black girls in New England. Petitions were drawn up against the school, rocks were throw into windows, and eventually it was burned to the ground. When the school closed, Ms. Crandall took in private students and spent time lobbying for women’s rights. Never having made more than a subsistence living, she struggled on in poverty until a group of concerned citizens, including Mark Twain (who once said, “Every time you stop a school, you will have to build a jail”), contributed to Ms. Crandall’s pension of $400 per month.

I could go on and on reflecting and recalling the courage of well-known and unsung women and continue to note the risks they took for what they believed in. When seeking qualities that connect them, I realized they all felt it necessary to challenge the status quo, even at risk of failure.

Many of our lives are so structured and programmed, saddled with debt, that risk taking seems out of the question. In fact, those who step out into uncharted territory can be seen as headstrong or out-right fools.

This came home to me vividly after I received word the school I started in Trenton for high-risk children was not going to be funded. My dream of creating a model school that could be replicated was dead.

When I confided my situation and the fact my pension was in question to an acquaintance, the man replied, “You were a fool. Why were you a teacher to begin with? And why did you leave your school in New York for uncertainty?”

Photo: Reid Bacon

After the initial shock at his response, I became angry. How does one know without trying, even with the ever-present risk of failure?

My childhood idol, Isadora Duncan, never hesitated to move onto uncharted territory in her quest to find freedom in the dance. Yes, she became lost along the way! Yes, she experienced more tragedy than most, culminating with the sudden death of two children. Her character combined the capacity for bold vision combined with a tendency to make some catastrophic choices, but whatever the circumstances, she got up, dusted her off and kept walking.

I applaud and celebrate the pantheon of women who, regardless of their circumstances, lived life to the fullest, and, when confronted with struggle and earthly failure, picked themselves up and went on.

Celebrate the indomitable female spirit.


Editor: Lorin Arnold

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About Mae Sakharov

Mae Sakharov Ed.D, a graduate of Columbia University opened the first learning center in NY in 1983. Her former life was as an actress, hatcheck girl in Berlin and selling the NY Times on the streets of Paris. She currently has a private practice as a college counselor, is a professor education, animal rescue volunteer and an Urban Zen Integrative Therapist. Her love of Yoga and engaged Buddhism is ingrained and essential.


13 Responses to “The Indomitable Female Spirit.”

  1. cathywaveyoga says:

    Amelia Earhart, Clara Barton, Joan of Arc

  2. Mamaste says:

    Just intro'd on FB to : Equal Rights, Enlightened, Family & Culture.

  3. Mae says:

    Yes and so many more sung and unsung

  4. mae says:

    Much appreciate your sharing wider.. mae

  5. mandb says:

    Happy weekend ladies!

    It's Sunday. I usually stay out of the internet today, but some writing by a good friend brought me here. It's a personal vignette by a woman who's spent her life opening doors for others. She's a teacher who got started in San Francisco, a PhD who's had a long career working with vulnerable beings: special education, children and families in Vietnam, hospital therapy in Haiti, cancer survival, pet adoptions. She makes heroic rescues as a way of life. The news talks about her (20/20, Dateline, CNN). She likes to talk about how to keep doing her work and inspiring others. A recent obstacle got her thinking about her heroines:

    Some attitudes here might spark debate. I've spent some time thinking about the the generative call to create that comes with the feminine, and how expressing it can be so incongruously difficult, leading to even more creative paths through those obstacles to expression. I'm sharing here because I'm astonished that as I ponder this, heroine-ism by one of my own, there's a powerful network of the feminine right here. It couldn't be easier!

  6. dava says:

    hank you for this article. I intend to quote from it often!

  7. jhager says:

    Thank you for sharing this inspiring wisdom. I have found, through my relationships with an impressive network of women, there is nothing more powerful than a woman with a mission to accomplish.

  8. mae says:

    Appreciate your comment-and agree nothing like a woman with a mission to accomplish.

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