The Happy Habit.

Via John Dalton
on Aug 20, 2012
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How To Train Yourself To Be Happy

There’s a popular myth that if you repeat an activity for 21 days it will become a habit. Scientific proof for this is thin, but I’ve found it true in my own experience so I don’t care. That’s why I was delighted to come across this video by Bruce Lipton because, among other things, he outlines a very plausible way to give yourself the habit of being happy. I also think it’s a nice adjunct to Sam Harris’s video on free will I wrote about last and fills out the picture a little more.

Bruce Lipton is a biologist and cells are kind of his thing. As a seven year old, looking through his first microscope, he thought cells were little people. He went on to get bigger and bigger microscopes, a raft of impressive qualifications, teaching positions in some of the most prestigious institutions around the world and in the end came full circle to describing cells as mini people once more; he just uses bigger words now.

Like Sam Harris’s video, this one is long (55 miutes) so I’ll outline the highlights.

    1. Genetically identical cells will develop differently depending on the environment they are in, some will grow into bone, some into muscle, etc. So genes alone don’t determine outcome. It is genes plus environment which determine outcome.
    2. Our mind’s perception of the world changes our biology, the chemistry of our body, which in turn changes our cells.
    3. We run our lives through our conscious mind only five percent of the time.
    4. The other 95 percent of the time our subconscious mind runs our life.
    5. Subconscious beliefs are formed in the first six years of life.
    6. The subconscious mind learns through habit, not insight.
    7. Through repeated diligent awareness you can change the habits of your subconscious mind.
    8. Survival of the fittest is incorrect, we evolved because our cells came into community.
    9. Our body is comprised of 50 trillion cells living in community with each other.
    10. Every human being is a cell in the larger super organism called humanity.
    11. The nocebo effect is the evil twin of the placebo effect.
    12. Cancer can develop because of a familial belief in the propensity to get cancer. Adopted children developing cancer in a cancer family.

Apparently it’s been measured and about 70 percent of our thoughts are negative or redundant. Being a long time meditator I was used to hearing my mind go on about all its worries and negativities. I saw it as mind chatter and was more interested in the silence than what it was chattering about. The notion that what I think about is just a habit is very handy to know and refreshingly impersonal. Rather than trying to smash those pesky negative thoughts and be more positive, it’s more a case of choosing the thoughts I want to be thinking and getting myself out of the habit of thinking about things I’d rather not be thinking about.

Most of the work is done in just identifying the thoughts I’d like to change as they arise—being aware in the moment, which is basically what meditation is anyway.

I haven’t been changing my thinking for long, a few weeks now, but I’m definitely noticing changes in myself. I feel my nature coming through more, which is very joyous.


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About John Dalton

Born in the craggy foothills of suburban Dublin John Dalton staggered along the spiritual path until he got himself enlightened in 1996. Deciding against a career as a celebrity guru he became a cranio sacral therapist instead. His first book Why Do We Get Sick? Why Do We Get Better? A Wellness Detective Manual is an undo-it-yourself book for sickness and unhappiness and is popular with people of all ages. His latest book Maya Noise describes what happens after enlightenment and what it's like to live an ordinary life with extraordinary knowledge. It reads like The Power of Now meets Pulp fiction and has become a firm favorite with spiritual teachers and gurus the world over. Passionate about cranio sacral therapy he oversees a project called Open Source Cranio which aims to provide free online cranio sacral training resources for people in developing countries. He lives in Dublin, Ireland with his wife and smiles a lot when cycling. You can see all of his Elephant Journal articles here. He also tweets and has recently discovered talking about himself in the third person is disturbingly easy.


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