October 29, 2013

The Power of Self-Worth. ~ Sakyong Mipham

Imagine what could happen if we all began to feel that we are good, and that society is good—and to have confidence in ourselves that way.

When I am teaching in the West, people talk about self-loathing and self-aggression. That is coming from a sense of unworthiness. There seems to be a lot of evil in the world, and many of us experience great skepticism about human nature. In addition, we may have been taught at home, school or church that simply by having been born, we are inherently faulty or incomplete.

Without a feeling of worthiness, human society and communication naturally become vehicles of manipulation and deception, and we use every activity to shore ourselves up or to outdo someone else. Through this false sense of power, life becomes a perpetual unfolding of doubt, which only confirms the inadequacies we perceive and elicits a feeling of alienation.

My father called it “the setting sun.” This term describes a time when humanity’s sense of dignity and purpose is diminishing, like sunlight at the end of the day. What is setting is our ability to recognize our goodness.

If humanity is to survive – and not only that, to flourish—we must be brave enough to find our wisdom and let it shine.

We uncover it by beginning to examine our assumptions. We may never before have considered human nature, but in order to move forward as a global community, it is vital that we do it now. Is it really our nature to be fearful and aggressive, or could it be that we are actually gentle and fearless at heart?

Underneath the stress and anxiety, is it possible there is peace?

If our self-reflection turns up an inkling of that, we can draw power from it, daring to shift our destiny. In this way, the Shambhala principle is a socially transformative process through which confusion about human nature becomes confidence in human worthiness.

The above is an excerpt from Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche’s new book, The Shambhala Principle (Harmony, May 2013). the Sakyong will be teaching on this topic in New York City in November.



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pilot Oct 7, 2015 6:11am

Lovely comment Joe! I would extend your edict to "…… eliminate every form of humans harming ANY LIVING BEING" Why not? We share kinship with every living creature on this earth – our responsibilities to them are arguably just as important as they are to other humans. Wouldn't it be grand if we could move from the entrenched and toxic and anthropocentric biblical "great chain of being" to the enlightened and sensible recognition of the interconnectedness of all beautiful life? Thank you and cheerio!

Joe Sparks May 18, 2014 6:58am

Humans, free of distress, would automatically care deeply about the universe around them and seek to work to build a just society, clean up the environment, and pursue all other desirable goals. Here is a commitment I use to contradiction my feeling of unworthiness. " From now on I will inspire, lead,and organize all people to eliminate every form of humans' harming humans. This will mean_____________. I fill in the blank and say the first thing that comes to mind and continue to repeat the phrase over and over. Each time I sense my true nature and humanness. This is one thing that really helps me re-claim my goodness and self-worth. I am noticing my life is changing as I keep making this decision, over and over again.

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Sakyong Mipham

The Sakyong, literally translated as “earth protector,” is a dharma king and lineage holder of the Shambhala lineage, guiding thousands of students around the world in the path of meditation. You can follow him on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.