Just Because it has the Word Yoni, Does not Make it Tantric, or Conscious.

Just because it has the word Yoni, does not make it Tantric, Neo-Tantric, Sacred or Conscious.

Just because it has the word Lingam, does not make it Tantric, Neo-Tantric, Sacred or Conscious.

The questions to ask are about the intention of the massage, where inside of me does it come from?

Does it come from my heart?

Is it an expression of love?

Is it an act of intimacy and connection?

Does it allow your energy to flow in the way that your body is expressing it at that moment?

Does it allow you, whichever aspect, whichever expression of you, is arising, to be there?

Is it an acknowledgement of you as a being of sensation, of feeling, of emotion?

Is it a conversation between my hands and your body, between my heart and yours?

Can it move away from the expectation, the goal, the pattern of orgasm into the realm of being?

Can it take you into yourself in a way that allows you to see what’s there, to feel what’s there?

Does it access the wisdom of your body to allow your energy to flow to the places it’s needed?

Does it take you to the space of stillness, of quiet, where you can feel the pulsation of life within you?

Can it be an experience of freedom, where whatever you, your body, your being, needs, can arise and be present?

Can it be a moment where all of your body is accepted, welcomed, caressed, acknowledged?

Can it simply, and in the greatest depth, at the same time, be a time to experience the fullness of being?

In this we go deeper into service.

Serving both of us, allowing both of us to be expressed in deeper ways.

Healing happens without us having to do more than be present in the moment.

Release happens without us having to do more than feel into the moment.

Pleasure is there, in the way it needs to be, with us allowing it to flow.

And love, love is there in every breath, in every touch.

And maybe then…