Don’t Date for Love: Why Modern Dating is Leaving you Lonely.
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Unlike Instagram or Facebook, Elephant is independent, and mission-driven—and despite having (slightly) fewer resources, we believe in paying our writers to offer quality to our readers.
Elephant was one of the first major sites to pay our best, consistent writers. But it was always hard to measure “best.” Now, we are introducing weekly payments to the top 15 articles on Elephant based on their Ecosystem Score—95% determined by our readers’ actions: reads, hearts, comments, shares, and 5% determined by our Editor’s Picks (so that mission balances popularity).
Note: When folks earn identical scores, we use the number of reads as the tiebreaker.
March 12th-18th Winners
Don’t Date for Love: Why Modern Dating is Leaving you Lonely.
The Difference Between Settling for Someone & Settling with Someone.
Ladies, the “Perfect Mother” is a F*cking Myth.
Abuse, Assault & a Woman’s Perpetual Catch-22.
Why I’m Setting Down the Label “Borderline Personality” Once & For All.
Why Alcoholics Anonymous might be a “Toxic Relationship.”
How the Thorns in our Relationships can be our Greatest Gifts.
How Loving Yourself Makes you a Good Person.
How Rumi’s “Guest House” Poem taught me to Accept Grief & its Lessons.
Trauma, Triggers & our Path to Wholeness.
I’ve Been Sober for 23 Years & I Still Crave Alcohol.
Healing Childhood Trauma: 11 Steps using Imagery & the Ideal Parent.
How Anne of Green Gables Teaches us to Embrace our “Too-Much-Ness.”
How to Look Within & Tell the World, “I am Worthy.”
How I Healed my Chronic Pain, by Not Doing Yoga.