10 things you should stop doing right now.

How do you react when you face a problem?

You start blaming yourself and others or
You start getting super tensed and start worrying instantly or
You give in for the solution too quickly on other’s suggestion or
You still back, relax and let the solution come easily and effectively to u.

Anything other than D means you feel you are unworthy or not capable enough to take your own decisions and time.

We all usually kind of make up stories in our head which is self-inflicted. We all have so much capacity to worry all day everyday. Thoughts of worrying, self-doubt, fear like I’m not good enough, How can I do this, what will others think, what if I fail etc, all these thoughts brings us more such thoughts leading us to never finding a way which is truly meant for us.

Watch your thoughts carefully and keep a check on where they are leading you. These are the 10 things you should stop doing right now.

Stop giving this reason to everyone or you “I don’t get time for myself or I’m so stuck” instead make out your own time by getting up one hour early.
Asking for approval. Never ask for Permission to do what you really love. Trust me Go boldly towards it. You will never regret.
Best time is Now. Do not Procrastinate things you really want to do, how silly it may sound to anyone.
Do not let anyone’s opinion affects you. Look deep within “Do you really agree or Is it just because of pressure?
Say NO. This is very important. If you feel worthy, you will say No more often. Do it atleast twice a day.
You settle for less than you deserve. You always find reasons to believe it’s good for you but actually you are not happy about it. Remember the first thought you get and stick to it. Don’t change your decision.
You eat whatever other’s order for you in the restaurant. Always order for yourself. Don’t eat just anything to please anyone.
Take your stand however wrong it may feel to other. Do not give in too quickly. Universe loves stubborn heads.

“A man who procrastinate in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance”

You hate it when you are criticized. Learn to take criticism without being affected. Best way to understand they are different so is their opinions.
Do not compromise on your happiness. Have, be or do whatever that keeps you happy or come alive. For me, its inspiring people. 

“My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws and to stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am”  – Anias Nin

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