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November 26, 2019

Tips To Get Over the New-Outfit Nerves

Your dressing sense depicts a lot about your personality. It is the way of presenting yourself to the outside world, showcasing the styles and choices you are comfortable with. But why do we often feel comfortable in new clothing outfits?

“New-outfit nerves” are common when it comes to wearing something that does not match your natural choices for the first time. This sense of nervousness can actually turn an otherwise positive situation into a vicious negative loop of “Do I look out of place?”

It is evident that you then quickly get stuck in your head, repeating the same question as your confidence plummets. But, fortunately, there are a few tips that can help you get over the new-outfit nerves.

We will help you take a closer look at the phenomenon and how a modern man can easily manage it.

  1. Step out of your comfort zone –

For an investment banker, dressing up in formals is nothing out of the ordinary. Someone who has a high designation, and lucrative career, formal outfits usually compliment their confidence level, both at work and in social settings.

There are a substantial number of careers that don’t involve public-facing roles or are rewarding for wearing fine clothes. In case you are also someone who is not regularly exposed to that kind of attention, then you may feel hesitated wearing it.

So, what might you do when suddenly, you’re asked to don the formal uniform and join the crowd of white-collars? All you have to do is step out of your comfort zone and keep all your confusions aside.

  1. Confidence is the key –

For people who wear a simple T-shirt and a pair of jeans every day, their perspective on wearing a suit and tie will be much different from those who wear formals every day. Often people feel hesitant while dressing up in a shirt and slacks about how you’re perceived, especially when you are immensely uncertain about the dress code.

To shed this nervous feeling, you have to feel confident about what you wear. This may sound a bit cliché, but you’ll need to put aside the idea that how you see yourself is the same way how others see you. There is a lot of chances that the people around you are not as critical as you assumed them to be.

Wearing unfamiliar outfits quite often is the best way that can help you resolve this feeling of awkwardness in any social situation. It also needs the confidence and courage to do so. If you make yourself believe that you are not wearing something out of place or too loud for the situation, then the nerves will naturally go away.

Also, there are other ways of boosting your confidence. Share the way you feel the trustable people around you. You might not feel awkward to admit to them that you think your dress is over the do or even pretentious for the situation. This is an effective way of validating that your feeling is normal, and there is no connection with what others feel about you.

  1. Wear it well

Owning a piece of clothing does not mean that you have to wear it necessarily. So along with your confidence boost, you have to do a little homework on how to wear unfamiliar outfits. Find ways to skillfully wear a suit jacket and slacks, or the shoes that should be appropriately worn with your outfit.

You might be surprised to know how modern man follows this simple rule to earn up compliments from others. You may also feel silly at first, but trust me, it works best if you want to wear the best.

  1. Define your style

As time passes, there are many style pointers that start adding up. Your taste of cloth choices may evolve and change. Many people also start liking styles that are a lot different from what they used to wear. The outcome of this evolution is a more confident self with nice clothes in your own wardrobe. Overcoming your nerve of experimenting with new clothes can help you change your choices in a better way.

So, when you have finally changed the way you feel about wearing certain unfamiliar clothes and understood how and when to wear them, eliminated the stigma you once carried. You will actually feel good about yourself and the choice that you make when it is about dressing for a specific occasion.

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