There is so much to process these days.

As I was inquiring and feeling into the bigger picture, a series of messages came through that really hit home and brought so much healing to my divine partnership:

‘The divine masculine, as the protector, is being shattered to its core.’

He is losing touch with sacred qualities:

He does not know how to protect.

He does not feel his full strength and power.

He has lost his confidence, his certainty, and at times, his discernment.

Everything is changing so quickly that his ability to guide and lead feel weakened.

When the masculine gets thrown off kilter, he becomes forceful, arrogant, disconnected from his emotions, stubborn and easily threatened.  

And so…

He becomes fearful and angry

He lashes out.

He can have tantrums.

He might withhold the truth simply because he is confused.

He might be criticizing you and saying things that seem completely ridiculous.

Can you relate to any this?

If you feel disconnected or feel you are being ‘attacked’ by the masculine, your instinct will be to argue, defend and contract.

I’m sure you’ve tried that, played that game, and found the situation escalating and ending nowhere. At a time like this, with no place to go, no refuge, what do you do?

Now more than ever, the masculine needs your feminine guidance and leadership. He needs you to guide him back home.

If you are in a same sex relationship, one of you is higher on the spectrum of the masculine and one of the spectrum of the feminine. Just listen from your position in the relationship and you can use this to bring deep healing.

Beware, your ego will not want to give, and now is a time to step into your sacred heart, so that you can give for a higher purpose and bring profound healing.

How do you step into your divine feminine guidance?

1. Remember The Qualities Of The Sacred Feminine

The sacred feminine is:

• Compassionate, wise and intuitive.
• She is kind, patient, generous and supportive.
• She knows she’s a healer and she knows her power.
• She’s sensual, she’s a lover.

2. Dial Up Those Qualities

In order to turn up the volume of those qualities you must take care of yourself first!

Here are some ideas:

• Set up sacred space and create more time in meditation, prayer, journaling or any other spiritual practices
• Spend more time in creativity and creation.
• Bring out your sensuality through movement, dance, flow or any other way that gets you feeling feminine and sexy.
• Feel nature in any way you can, walk barefoot on grass, tend to your plants or sit by a tree.

3. Tune Into What He Needs

Once you’ve taken care of yourself, and especially of your soul, you’ll be able to keep your vibration high and tune into what he really needs.

• Tap into your feminine power and set the intention to guide the divine masculine into his role of Wisdom, Protection and Presence.
• Use your feminine intuition to ask the question: ‘What does He need right now?’
• If you don’t get a specific answer, focus on Sacred Nurturing.

4. Give Him What He Needs

Switch from mind based conversations and fall into your heart.

• When you are feeling calm and good, set up a sacred and healing space with soothing music and candles.
• Hold him (virtually or physically) like you would hold a child. You can have him lay down and put your hands on his forehead and on his heart. Do it for 20 minutes or more.
• Do not try to talk out any issues, let your feminine intuition, healing and nurturing take over.

5. Give Him What He Yearns For

Once you have opened up his heart with your heart, you will be able to be more than nurturing and loving. You can use your feminine sensuality to create deep intimacy and connection.

• The divine masculine is yearning for devotion. Words and how you show up can be powerful, however, what he is truly yearning for is devotion to his soul.
• You can only see directly into his soul when you are connected to your vulnerability, your divinity and to the love and the grace that you are.
• Once you are feeling that, you can honor his soul through your gaze, your touch, your tenderness.

6. Receive His Sacred Presence And Adoration

As you guide the masculine back to his center, he will meet your feminine sacred nurturing with his masculine scared presence, and from that place you can both tap into a higher wisdom and love.

The more you practice feminine sacred nurturing and intuitive guidance, you will find the masculine stepping into his divinity.

You will experience his PRESENCE, strength, protection, support, action, confidence, courage and empowerment.

You will experience him being in touch with his feelings.

You will experience him worshiping you, able to surrender and be held by you.

You will experience him adoring you and you adoring him.