I never meant to hurt you!
I never meant to make you cry, but tonight
I’m cleaning out my closet (one more time)
I said I’m sorry momma!
I never meant to hurt you!
I never meant to make you cry, but tonight
I’m cleaning out my closet

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When I look back I look both on hardships good deed and bad deed, in my closet got some think we all got them, doesn’t count those that couldn’t count from past life .

I always regret to have hurts some because yes we all made mistakes those who told you only made mistakes but not them they call narcissistic usually not a good person to be with.

I look on good too because pictures isn’t dark there’s sunny side too, ying can’t live without yang.

We are all like this no one is a Saint and even saint made mistakes themselves, in our politicaly correct society we need to learn that ok to be not so correct.

Doesn’t mean that right or not right it all depend of our intentions, the situation and what we do to it right .

But the question is what is right because that also a big difference we aren’t born in life with full YouTube course how to handle life.

First what is right : there’s no good answer on what is right or not, because what people call truth is usually there version of it if we put that truth to test usually fade away in 5 sec . There’s different truth there are all base on intention, for example the Buddha found truth of suffering with cause and effect and found duhkha.

What is right depends on us, what make sense to us, usually good for us in self care but also for others .

There’s mind tool that can be applied to every situation to see what is right .

• Whatever situation there’s always a cause behind any problems Whatever that in your relationship or work or spiritual path first look for the cause .

• There’s always two side : universe is simple we make it very complicated for no reason, ying and yang energy are all time with us, so let’s you get hurt a there’s a cause b well you are on the receiving side but when you found the cause effect will disappear.

• Intention is first whatever we do there’s an intention behind good, compassionate, greedy or evil all our choices.

• Be compassionate yes be compassionate for yourself, for others so far we all made mistakes and if your intentions is good well like gardens good will grow.

• Be unconditional loving that kind of love is love that doesn’t judge doesn’t hurt doesn’t broke.

• Understand that we all suffer any situation you and others suffer so be mindfull and yes sometimes we need to know how to say no.

• Pain is temporary will change to something else but question is on what we change it, because if we change that for hate or nasty well its like putting a bullet in our head.

• There is always a spiritual solution, when I was deep in the black hole and I used to here that I was very sceptical, until well I tried and yes it works.

• Merit and Demerit well good news it can be done when we are full of bad well can be turn over.

• No luck : if you win in lottery well done but that not luck, if you get that special empowerments that also not luck, all of that got cause that you know or don’t know.

• To be right we need self respect, respect of others, mean there values if you right because you trash others values weĺl good news you not right, we need unconditional love and compassion with the intention of benefit others .

• last not the least it’s easy to do wrong and harder to right, so take a simple example of you wanted the last pack of chocolates and you will see will be gone without thinking of others. If you take what is right well in Buddhism I can take example of Garchen Rinpoche who gave his entire life to learn compassion to others, or Mother Theresa who gave her life in calcutta. Yes the real right is take life and one day at time.

  To conclude this we need to understand that we all made mistakes and we need to learn to be compassionate to be able one day to do greater good.