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July 17, 2020

Understanding Victim Mentality

Wrote it after a couple of years of thinking and personality analysis. I hope it helps many of you.

There’s a type of people who meet dead end due to their own ignorance and conceit. They try to direct their absolute failure at the wall that stares at them by kicking it, but it only hurts their own foot. Such vain and deceitful souls perpetually suffer because the required courage to go back and right all the wrongs they’ve done is absent in them, instead they’re always looking for a scapegoat to blame and play their infamous victim card. God has blinded their “qalb”(heart’s core), they lack the mechanism of introspection and prefer to live in a fool’s paradise by measuring others with their defected yardstick of morality to strengthen a sense of pseudo-righteousness they have fostered over the years.

You’ll find such trolls often trying to establish themselves as morally and spiritually superior to others but if we put their words and actions under microscope, we find a sharp incoherence between what they say and what they practice.

Soul, humility, grace, honour, decency, manners..these are merely words in their dictionary hurled at others for personal convenience, and the speaker never dares to measure their own caliber for once.

If you ever come across such sorry creatures, pity them for kicking the wall too hard to find an escape from the dead end, because the road they wanted to travel is on the other side of the wall and they’re too proud to amend their route.

Let them clinge close to the wall in hope of getting through, let them satisfy their tiny, fragile ego by kicking the wall and assuring themselves that they’ve bruised the wall and will make a hole to pass through it eventually.

Stay true to your ownself. People always have unsolicited opinions, advices and judgements.

All you need is an inner gauge to measure yourself every once in a while. As long as your heart is at peace and your words coherent with your actions, there’s no one who can pull you down to their level.

Instead be so passionate that it makes them raise their own self and come out of their narrow shell.

Alif || KB~?
@alifschaos

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