Yes people can be introverts, but using that as an excuse to not talk about anything and blame everyone else for their problems is a huge issue!  If you’re a fricking adult, whether it’s uncomfortable or not, put on your big people pants and solve things instead of running and hiding from it. It’s just another excuse to blame others for your own, shortcummings! Yes, maybe it’s tough, maybe it’s hard, but welcome to the real world. Everything in life isn’t rainbows and sunshine. Face your weeknesses, embrace them, fight with them, use them to make you stronger and better. Do not use them as a cructh and contue to hide and be week and cowardly. Show and lead other sbe example. Let them see how you have struggled, fought, and overcome. As long as everything is a reason why things are your fault and every one else is to blame you’ll never grow, improve, and/or better yourself!