Over the last few years, I’ve found myself craving a different kind of holiday experience—one filled with less stuff and more connection.
Don’t get me wrong, the dopamine hit of opening a present is lovely…but it’s temporary. At the end of the day, what really lasts aren’t the things wrapped in shiny paper but the moments where we’re actually present.
I’m talking movie nights, a spontaneous day trip to the city, or a winter hike followed by hot chocolate.
Those are the moments that actually feel like gifts.
So this year, I made a quiet shift: to focus more on experiences and fewer things.
Not extravagant trips or big gestures, but meaningful, everyday moments that help us slow down and connect.
And you may be thinking, But I love giving and receiving presents.
And that’s totally okay.
If your love language includes giving something tangible, I’ve put together a list of my favorite items—perfect for anyone on a wellness, spiritual, or self-discovery journey. And if experience-based gifts are more your speed, I’m including my recommendations here as well.
Thoughtful Tangible Gifts
For the people in your life who love meaningful and intentional gifts—here are my top recommendations.
Astrology Inspired Jewelry: A timeless pendant that honors someone’s zodiac sign is an easy way to acknowledge someone’s uniqueness while giving them something beautiful to wear year-round.
Books that Uplift and Inspire: A book—whether focused on healing, creativity, or emotional growth—can become something a person returns to again and again. Bonus points if the book includes great illustrations or reflective prompts and quotes—this can make it feel extra special. Don’t forget to include a handwritten note on the inside cover with a personal message about why you chose it for them.
Intentional Planners or Journals: A well-designed journal or planner can be an excellent tool for anyone entering a new season of life. Look for ones with space for gratitude writing, reflection, and goal-setting. These also make wonderful gifts for kids, encouraging them to write down their feelings, thoughts, and daily reflections.
Singing Bowls: Small, beautifully crafted singing bowls—whether crystal, brass, or tuned to different chakras can be great gifts to create moments of grounding throughout the day. These are especially helpful for kids who like “special” items they can use when feeling overwhelmed or frustrated.
Tarot or Oracle Card Decks: With so many options to choose from—angels, cats, herbs, moon cycles—there’s a deck for every personality. A great choice for the intuitives, seekers, or creatives in your life. Consider pairing it with a book or course on how to read the cards, if they’re just starting out.
Meditation Mat and Cushion: If you or someone in your life is looking to develop a more consistent meditation practice, a good quality mat and cushion can make someone’s self-care practice feel even more inviting. Look for ones that are cozy in texture, easy to put away or carry around, and washable is a plus.
Experience-Based Gifts
You don’t need to gift something big to leave a lasting impression. Here are a few simple, meaningful experiences you can give this season:
A Day in the City: Pick a museum, a bookstore, or walk around the park with lunch. Keep it simple and present. My kids love an excuse to go to the city—even if it’s just for a meal. Part of the fun is getting dressed up, enjoying a special treat, and taking an Uber (which, honestly, makes the whole experience more relaxed and enjoyable—no driving, no parking, no stressing).
Tickets to a Show: The holidays are a great time to catch a new movie or see a performance—whether it’s the theater, a concert, the circus, or another spectacular event. This is especially fun for kids, couples, or families.
Wellness Experience: A Reiki session, sound bath, meditation class, or restorative yoga session can be incredibly grounding at any time of year. Want to make it extra special? Plan a weekend getaway within a two-hour drive. A change of scenery, even a simple one, can feel incredibly restorative. Tip: Go during the week for better room rates—it also makes childcare a bit easier on your partner or family member if you have school-aged kids.
Creative Classes: Pottery, painting, candle-making, baking—there’s something special about learning together. It sparks creativity and can become something you continue to practice long after the class finishes.
Nature Adventure: A winter walk, a local forest trail, or a quiet morning by the water followed by a meal out is always a draw—especially if you want to make this a family gift. I’ll be honest: my kids aren’t always excited about a hike on its own, but pairing nature with something fun afterward makes the experience feel special for everyone. Tip: If going with kids, try turning your walk into a scavenger hunt. You can either create a simple checklist or use pre-made cards for an easy game the whole family can play.
So, whether you’re gifting experiences or something meaningful to hold in your hands, I hope you choose gifts that bring more presence, joy, and connection into your holiday season.
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