Michelle Schafer

24 Lessons & Reflections from 2024.

Dear Emotionally Unregulated Man: How Angry are You?

Musings on the U.S. Election from Down Under.

Sis, He’s Not Your Man.

Having Kids to be Your Caretaker in Old Age is Unbelievably Selfish.

She Thinks She can Change Him—She Can’t. He Thinks She will Never Leave—She…

There are Far Worse Things than Being Alone.

When a Past Love Comes Knocking—Do You Answer the Door?

She is not the Home-Wrecker—an Uncomfortable Truth.

Is it Love? Attachment? Codependency? Or are you Scared to be Alone?

56, Fulfilled, Fortunate & Fabulously F*cking Free.

The Grief of Relationship Breakdowns & Breakups.

Why some Men are Choosing a Tree over a Woman.

How to Please a Woman—21 Tips that will Get You There.

Why it’s Never Okay to Comment on Another’s Body Size or Shape.

Women don’t “Belong” in the Kitchen & Men don’t “B…

Man vs. Bear: Why Some Women are Choosing the Bear.

He Loved the Way I Loved Him—& I’ll Never Love like that Again.

The Heaviness of Mother’s Day Grief.

Ageing out of a Bikini? Haters gonna Hate.

Please Stop Hurting & Killing Women.

Dear Lonely Heart: Here are some Wise Lessons from someone who has Learnt them All.

Dear Vulnerable Man, You are Hot as Hell.

I Am Not a Commodity & My Value Does Not Diminish with Age.

The Grief in Losing Yourself & How to Rediscover Who You Are.

How Internalised Misogyny Supports Weaponised Incompetence.

Dear Valentine.

What’s Better than Sex? Meaningful Sex.

Why Some Women are Choosing “Cats” Over Men.

Let this be Your Year to Slay: 2024 Year of the Dragon.

The Dangers of Faking it.

Stepping into 2024 with Courage, Curiosity & Compassion: 15 Reflections we all S…

Vale Fellow Elephant Journal Writer, Mentor & Friend.

Dear “Alpha Men”: Put down your Microphone. Stop your Podcast. It’s…

When Your Soulmate is Not a Soulmate—But a Karmic Mate.

The Collective Grief of a World in Mourning.

The Space In-Between Living & Dying: How 4 Days of Uncertainty Felt Like an Eter…

I’m Only Worthy When I Have a Partner.

Let Me Touch You.

7 Things the Death of My Mum Taught Me.

Why Women are Attracted to Younger Men.

Rebuilding the Pieces of Ourselves When We Feel Broken.

If You’ve Ever Loved & Lost, this Song will Remind you that We may Never R…

18 Tips for Giving Ageing the Best Shot.

55, Fierce, Fun-Loving & Fabulously F*cking Flawed.

48 Things that Prove there is Far More to Intimacy than just Sex.

The Stranger I once called my Love—a Man I used to Know.

Discomfort is the Price of Admission for a Meaningful Life.

Dear Men, Listen Up: This is what a Self-Aware & Confident Woman Really Wants.