Why my fish are kissing

Via Roger Wolsey
on Sep 14, 2010
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I’m a person who notices bumper-stickers when I’m out and about and I enjoy making mention of the more interesting ones in my sermons.  It seems that there are some of you who enjoy this kind of thing as well – in fact a few of you have approach me to ask me about the things that are stuck on the back of my car; i.e., two of those silvery “fish” emblems.

You’ve probably noticed that there are an increasing number of vehicles on the road with one of two symbols on their bumpers; 1) the Christian fish symbol, or 2) the fish with feet underneath it with the word “Darwin” in the middle (perhaps representing secular humanism).  Lately I’ve been seeing fancier versions with the Christian fish aggressively swallowing the Darwin Fish or visa versa.

It seems that there are two “competing truths” at war with each other.  Either the literalized interpretation of the Biblical creation story is true (that God did everything “just as it says” in six days less than 6,000 years ago) or else the truth lies in the evolutionary theory of the emergence of the species over billions of years advocated by Charles Darwin.

To many of the unchurched folk in our society who see these bumper emblems on their daily commutes it would appear that all Christians are literal Creationists who ignore, and even attack, the fruits of critical thought and the contemporary sciences.  And this troubles me.

This perception can become yet another reason for them to write off Christianity as “antiquated and irrelevant” and thus, they miss out on the richness of being involved with a community of faith – and possibly experiencing the deep joy of salvation and abundant life.  Yet there are many millions of faithful believers who contend that being a Christian doesn’t mean being oblivious to critical thought.  We aren’t called to turn off our brains when we enter a church, read the Bible, or let Christ into our lives!

As a United Methodist, I embrace John Wesley’s “method” of fully utilizing the tools of Scripture, Tradition, Reason, and Experience.  This means taking in as much as we can from all fields and disciplines as we discern meaning in our lives.  It is for this very reason that I subscribe to a wide range of magazines and have Minnesota Public Radio and a Christian Radio station right next to each other as presets on my car radio.  As a result, it seems quite reasonable and faithful to many Christians to perceive that the processes of evolution were, and are still being, employed in the unfolding of God’s Creation.  So, it’s not necessarily an “either/or” situation, perhaps it’s more of a “both/and”; i.e., these views of creation aren’t necessarily contradictory or mutually exclusive.

To be sure, there are truths that are essential to the faith: that the depths of Gods’ mercy and love for us were and are, uniquely manifest in the life of Jesus of Nazareth in a way that we’re invited to share in and that Jesus is Lord. Yet there are many things that are “non-essentials” – e.g., our understandings of the virgin birth, the miracle stories, stances on sexuality, whether the communion bread really becomes Christ’s body, etc. – and this is one of them.

John Wesley spoke to this saying, “In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; and in all things, charity.” And, “Though we may not all think alike, may we not love alike?  May we not be of one heart though we may not be of one opinion?  If your heart is as my heart, give me thy hand.”

And so, I purchased both of these fish emblems, faced them toward each other, and show them “kissing” in order to witness to the world (both churched and unchurched) that there are other ways of being a faithful Christian.  If nothing else, it might help shift things into a healthier way of playful dialogue.  It’s a small thing, but who knows?  It might make a difference.

Evolving in Christ,

Pastor Roger

The above is a letter that I published in the church newsletter for Delano UMC in Delano, MN in 1996, a few months after I started my first appointment as a pastor out of seminary.  It is now part of my soon to be published book, Kissing Fish: christianity for people who don’t like christianity.

p.s. In this era of potential Qur’an burnings and people like Glenn Beck asking people to leave their churches if they hear their pastors speak of “social justice” this debate about evolution vs. creationism seems almost quaint.  I never thought I’d think of the era of the “culture wars” as the good ‘ol days. : P


About Roger Wolsey

Roger Wolsey is a free-spirited GenX-er who thinks and feels a lot about God and Jesus. He’s a progressive Christian who identifies with people who consider themselves as being “spiritual but not religious.” He came of age during the “Minneapolis sound” era and enjoyed seeing The Replacements, The Jayhawks, Husker Du, The Wallets, Trip Shakespeare, Prince, and Soul Asylum in concert—leading to strong musical influences to his theology. He earned his Masters of Divinity degree at the Iliff School of Theology in Denver, CO. Roger is an ordained pastor in the United Methodist Church and he currently serves as the director of the Wesley Foundation campus ministry at C.U. in Boulder, CO. He was married for ten years, divorced in 2005 and now co-parents a delightful 10-year old son. Roger loves live music, hosting house concerts, rock-climbing, yoga, centering prayer, trail-running with his dog Kingdom, dancing, camping, riding his motorcycle, blogging, and playing his trumpet in ska bands and music projects. He's recently written a book Kissing Fish: christianity for people who don't like christianity


7 Responses to “Why my fish are kissing”

  1. Randi Young says:

    Roger- this is just fantastic!! You have such a wonderfully fresh view on Christianity. It's much more relatable than what I see everyday. I live in North Central Mississippi. Yep, you guessed it- right in the middle of the Bible belt. Southern Baptist is the most numerous denomination here, but Christianity in general is definitely the norm. My problem with this is that each separate group, be it different churches, different communities, etc., sees everyone else, including free-thinkers like myself, as pagans who will spend an eternity burning in hell. Animism is what I lean closest to as a chosen religion, but I'm a monotheist. I simply see my god in everything around me, especially nature. The closed-minded widely accepted religious views down here just do not leave enough room to encompass me.
    I find your views so refreshing. Probably because they put words to some of my own feelings. When I watch the sunrise from my garden every morning, I cannot deny a creator of higher intelligence; and when I watch the tadpoles who've taken up residence in our wading pool, I cannot deny an evolutionary miracle. I think the line between them is less of a line, persay, and more of an overlap.
    Sorry for rambling, but your writing has triggered a lot of thought for me this morning. 🙂 Keep up the great work.
    Peace and Namaste.

  2. Ben Ralston says:

    Hmmmnn nice. I love you and (both) your fish too. Not to mention the other bumper stickers… may the rest of the Christian world find such good leadership.


  3. Roger,
    Love this blog!!! You should check out the website for "Thanks God For Evolution" I saw Michael Dowd speak here in Syracuse a couple years ago. It was amazing!! A great lecture and very enlightening. There are a lot of great resources on that site as well, including his book and a bumper sticker of the 2 fishes kissing 🙂

    Here is the link: http://www.thankgodforevolution.com/

  4. Cheryl O says:

    I like the reasoning behind your kissing fish. I also just noticed your dog's name, and have to ask – does your Kingdom come? 🙂

  5. rogerwolsey says:

    @Cheryl, yep! : )

  6. Wallace P. Rowe, Jr. says:

    I'm glad I found this blog; the thoughts presented here reaffirm my views on Christianity vs Evolution. Living in the deep South for the last several years, I've met many literal-minded Creationists, most of them great people. But they won't accept the fact that God may have had a hand in evolution; I find this very frustrating.
    I learned last year that my prostate cancer had metastasized and the outlook wasn't very positive. It helps me in my relationship with God to know that the two opposing beliefs can be reconciled and coexist peacefully!