Meditation is Awesome (but it Isn’t Easy).

Via Daniel Scharpenburg
on Nov 13, 2013
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Meditation is a cornerstone of Buddhist practice.

If there is one piece of advice that you take from this book it’s that you should meditate.

Meditate daily if you can.

We often tend to think we don’t have time to devote to meditation, but most of us do. In our culture, we tend to spend a great deal of time just….passing time, engaging in activities that are just designed to fill our time in a really meaningless way. There’s nothing wrong with that, of course, but it means that we do indeed have time to meditate.

Meditation is not what I would call fun or exciting—it can be hard to force ourselves to sit down and meditate sometimes. But, it is important and there are a number of benefits to meditating regularly.

Meditation helps prepare our minds for contemplating spiritual truths. It is what truly opens the door to unleashing our Buddha nature. When we meditate, the delusion that stops you from recognizing our Buddha nature is, at least temporarily, cleared away. When we meditate, we pay attention to what’s really going on. And if we can do that, then we can pay attention to what you really are. We can pay attention to what is really within. That is the message of Buddhism. The truth is within us and it has been all along. What we really are is one with everything. When we are meditating, the goal is to stop focusing on trying to feel independent from everything else.

That sense of independence is false and inherently unhelpful.

Meditation also has health benefits. It has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety, to improve heart problems, and to help improve focus and memory. The time we spend meditating will improve the rest of the day, even if we don’t unleash our Buddha nature. But it’s that feeling of oneness and interconnectedness that makes meditation a truly important practice.

This is how I meditate at home. I put a pillow on the floor and sit on it. I face a blank wall. Some people like to face a burning candle or an image of the Buddha or a Bodhisattva instead. I sit cross-legged and I just look at the wall. I sit with my back as straight as possible and I just try to clear my mind.

We have thoughts and distractions constantly in our minds. When we meditate, it clears out the junk that is in our deluded minds so that the Buddha nature that is beneath all of that can shine through. It’s there already, it just has delusions that are covering it up. If we can get those delusions to go away for a bit, we will be aware of oneness. It is our true nature, we just have delusions in the way, kind of like a dirty dish. We have to wash those delusions away. Buddhist practice is a way to do that.

Probably not the only way, but it’s the best way for me.

Anyway, I sit and meditate for 20 minutes in the morning and 15 at night before bed. It’s part of my daily routine. In my experience that’s the only way to do it. If I don’t meditate in the morning, right after my shower, then I don’t meditate at all. Routine is critical because it’s easy for us to find reasons not to meditate. Our lives are very busy and there are constantly things we could be doing.

We have things to do that we can use as an excuse. Some people say that the modern world isn’t conducive to meditation.

I don’t agree with that—there have always been distractions.

We don’t meditate because it’s fun or easy. It isn’t. We do it because it helps us improve ourselves.

It’s kind of like exercising for the mind instead of for the body.

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About Daniel Scharpenburg

Daniel Scharpenburg lives in Kansas City with two kids and two cats. He teaches classes in Buddhist studies at the Rime Buddhist Center, where he's starting a Zen meditation group in the near future. He's studied with a wide variety of different Buddhist teachers and is a dedicated follower of the Zen tradition. He received personal instruction from Shi Da Dao, in the Caodong (Soto) tradition, and he has served as jisha (personal attendant) to Karen Maezen Miller on a Zen retreat. He's the writer of Notes from a Buddhist Mystic Find out more about Daniel on his blog and connect with him on Facebook and  Twitter.


7 Responses to “Meditation is Awesome (but it Isn’t Easy).”

  1. Camilla says:

    "We don’t meditate because it’s fun or easy. It isn’t. We do it because it helps us improve ourselves."

    I wouldn't say that I meditate to improve myself, I meditate and/or practice centering prayer to connect with my own inner divinity, or to that one-ness of all beings, that is sitting there in your chair, and is sitting here in my chair. In the West we often get hung up on "improving" ourselves, where as what we really need to do is practice radical acceptance of our selves, along with deep compassion and unconditional, impersonal love for ourselves.

  2. Keiko says:

    thanks for the tips! it is really dificult to include it in our day to day routine and we tend to be lazy… one question:what do you use to measure time?

  3. Guest says:

    I use my mobile phone. It has a timer on it (I think all phones do; mine runs Android).
    I set it up so that the alarm sound is actually just a beautiful piece of music that gently fades in from silence.
    It's a wonderful way to 'land' without having to peek at a clock, or be startled by an alarm. Give it a try! 🙂

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