It can be easy for us to tie our sense of self-worth to a number, to our body.
Sure, our bodies are important, but we are spiritual beings inside a physical body. Without nurturing the spiritual piece of ourselves, the physical body will take precedence and our focus will be on the body and weight. This leads to thinking about how to change, control or obsess about our bodies and food.
At the root of any of this thinking is an emotional need that is not being met. By taking the focus off of the scale, off of food, and off of weight, you can begin to dig deeper within.
The reality is that the number on the scale has no significance.
It is about your mental and emotional sanity. The physical piece will fall into place once you have the awareness and understanding as to why you obsess and focus on food and weight.
Here are five reasons why it’s time to let go of the number on the scale and focus on the beauty you harness within:
1. You are more than a number.
It always amazes me how much power we can give a number. How we can give up all of our strength to something so insignificant. If you do this, you’re not alone.
Remember that you are respected and loved for who you are; for the inner love you harness within and the ability to be the person you were put here to be.
2. It’s an inside job.
The external world has the ability to take us out of the moment and bring us to a focus point outside of ourselves.
Yet, inside is what matters.
When we start looking within and allowing ourselves to feel what is coming up, we won’t look for external validation from things like the number on a scale.
The validation will come from within. We will learn to trust ourselves and take ownership and responsibility over our lives.
3. Focusing on weight takes you out of being present in your life.
Weight is an easy distraction for being present.
We can think if only I was skinnier, more fit or weighed less then my life would be better. When we rationally think about this, there really is no connection.
By staying present and taking each moment in, the need to focus on numbers and weight will start to diminish as we realize our true value and worth is much more than a number.
Focusing on our weight can make our world smaller and smaller.
Suddenly, we only care about ourselves and how to change the way we look. This takes us out of being there for our friends, family and co-workers. We deny these people the ability to truly get to know us. We deny ourselves that ability as well.
5. You don’t channel the light within you.
It is constantly looking to be ignited and brought to life. It comes out when we accept who we are.
When we let go of needing to change or fix anything. Focusing on the scale puts a dark wall up around us and the light has a hard time shining through.
No matter what you look like, the light is right there within you. Focus on bringing it out today.
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