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June 11, 2020

Twin Flame Relationships are about Romance & Love

It’s the Most Epic Love Story

It’s the most epic LOVE you’ll ever feel. There’s nothing like it. You haven’t felt this connection with anyone else. Not before meeting your Twin Flame and not after. And the best part? It’s real. You get to have it. Yes, You. You get to experience it. Only if you’re courageous enough to let it in.

The Twin Flame relationship defies all logic because it’s heart-based. Your mind can’t explain it. It will try to though and that’s why so many run from it. Your mind will tell you it’s not real. Your mind will tell you that your Twin Flame doesn’t feel the same and that they never will. Your mind will tell you to let it go before you get hurt. Your mind will tell you that it’s not meant for you.

 

Your Ego will tell you to Run

What do we do when we’re afraid of being hurt or rejected? We run. Why? Because we’ve experienced some sort of rejection before and our ego remembers it. Our ego stores it and brings it up when we meet our Twin Flame in order to protect us from that same pain. Our ego is just doing its job. To keep us safe.  That’s why the mind tells you all those things. It wants you to run.

But this love is not a safe love. This is an epic love. Epic loves are full of risk, romance, and adventure. Desires we lost touch with long ago. The Twin Flame relationship will push you and test you until you say “screw it!” to your comfort zone. You realize that your comfort zone isn’t serving you anymore. It did at one point and you thank it, but you choose to set yourself free.

 

A Twin Flame Love Sets you Free

The Twin Flame relationship is about freedom! Freedom to experience life and love for the first time. Realizing that everything you’ve experienced up to that point in your life was just playing it safe. You’ll find yourself bored with life or unfulfilled if you try to go back to your old life and old ways. You feel that fire inside of you pushing you for more. It’s meant to. That’s a Twin Flame love.

What do you have to do in order to set yourself free? You have to change your mind. You have to stop your ego from running it. Your ego will run the show as long as you let it. Your ego is just running an old story. Someone else’s story. It doesn’t belong to you. It wasn’t yours to begin with. You were born loving and deserving of an epic love. You were born lovable, desirable and playful.

You just have to find your way back to YOU. All it takes is one decision. Choosing LOVE over FEAR. Dropping the armor and defenses in exchange for vulnerability and trust. Love leads you to the life you’re meant to have. Love leads you to your Twin Flame. Love is what actually makes you feel comfortable and safe. Love teaches you patience with yourself over control of others.

Your Twin Flame’s 5D higher self (their Spirit) is always with you, guiding you back to them with the signs and synchronicities. That’s where the adventure comes in. That’s where the courage and confidence comes in. You have to choose if you’re going to play it safe or play it BIG.

Your Twin Flame in the 3D (day-to-day physical life) will show up with characteristics and traits that resemble past loves or past hurts that you’ve felt before. They’re meant to. They do and say things unconsciously to trigger these old wounds in you. That’s why your ego wants to run.

The reason is so that you release these fears once and for all. They’re there to show you that they’re a different kind of love. They love you no matter what. They show up for you no matter what. And all it takes for you to experience that kind of love is for you to stop running. For you to stop listening to your ego over your heart.

 

Love is your Natural State of Being

Following your heart will lead you back to your Twin Flame every time. Following your heart sets you free. Following your heart means that you’re true to yourself and your natural state of being.

You’re your authentic self, not your defensive, fearful self. You’re stripping away all the thoughts, people, situations that don’t align with you. You’re not afraid to love and be loved.

You realize that love is an adventure and not the source of pain. That’s where the self-love comes in. You give yourself permission to experience this once-in-a-lifetime relationship. Do you have the courage to let this epic love in or are you going to continue to run?

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