So I thought when I read a very interesting comment a woman shared in one of the groups on Facebook.

There was a post about one of the books that can help you on your dating journey. The discussion was about how this book is and whether it helps.

If you read books (or watch YouTube videos or perhaps follow a handful of people on Instagram), you know you are up for a treat when you pick something you are interested in and you know you are about to learn something interesting.

However, the comment of this woman caught my attention. She said that the book is good but it is more like a workbook and that you actually have to do those things that are mentioned inside to feel the difference.

I thought to myself, that makes all the difference!

You can read as many books stuffed with great advice as you like but until you actually do something about it, things will not change. In fact, here is a short story to show you why knowing something is just not enough.

I met a one woman who read the books like that for quite some time but nothing was changing in her love life.

She would read one book after another and learned tons of amazing things about her attachment style, boundaries, letting go, being at ease when dating but things would still be the same.

She would get more and more frustrated, to the point where she started to believe that being in a committed and healthy relationship is not for her.

She would doubt herself and whether she was good enough at all.

Then, however, she went through a break up, once again. The history repeated itself again.

And that was the point where she felt that enough was enough and something really needed to change.

She had so much knowledge about what can be done to actually deal with break up in an empowering was and attract a great relationship.

She knew things will be different this time.

What was the difference this time?

She TOOK ACTION.

All those years, all that was needed. An action.

Not just any action, she chose those actions that would take her close to what she wanted every day.

She continued to learn more about how to be happy and secure within herself and attract a great relationship.

She hired an expert who helped her through this transformation, which she found incredibly valuable as she knew her own mind was tricking her into staying where she was many times before. That is what mind often does. It does not like changes, even if they are good for you.

That was where it dawned on her. She knew all those things about how to transform, all those books she read were an absolute gold, YouTube videos she watched…. they were all valuable. But until she did what was written in the book, until she acted on it, nothing was changing.

Guess what happened when she started actually doing what she read?

Exactly, dating became easy, believe it or not, even enjoyable. She felt relaxed and assured that whatever happens, she will be fine. And soon enough she met an amazing partner she is with now. They both love travelling, they laugh at the same things and they are getting even better every day.

That woman is me.

If you want to understand, act. Nothing changes if nothing changes. I learned that over the years in my love life.

I also learned that change is not always pleasant and one may find themselves back at square one again and again. However, I got over the humps and I now help other women to become naturally magnetic to a high quality partners.

How do I do it? By combination of psychology, NLP, subconscious reprogramming and transformational coaching.

If you are serious about transforming your love life and you are ready to give it a go and you would like my support, you can contact me via my website or/and my Facebook page. I look forward to hearing from you.

Much love,

Zuzana