F*ck Forgiveness: it takes Boundaries & Badassery to Truly Heal.
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Update (June 3, 2021): Winners from May 21-27 are currently postponed and will be posted early next week!
Unlike Instagram or Facebook, Elephant is independent, and mission-driven—and despite having (slightly) fewer resources, we believe in paying our writers to offer quality to our readers.
Elephant was one of the first major sites to pay our best, consistent writers. But it was always hard to measure “best.” Now, we are introducing weekly payments to the top 15 articles on Elephant based on their Ecosystem Score—95% determined by our readers’ actions: reads, hearts, comments, shares, and 5% determined by our Editor’s Picks (so that mission balances popularity).
Note: When folks earn identical scores, we use the number of reads as the tiebreaker.
May 14th-20th Winners
F*ck Forgiveness: it takes Boundaries & Badassery to Truly Heal.
8 Signs you have Finally Found your Person.
Secure Attachment is a Privilege.
Sexless Marriage? Here’s What’s Really Going On.
How Childhood Shapes Attachment Patterns & the Key to Healing Abandonment Wounds.
Women, we Don’t Owe Men Anything: On the Hidden Sexism of Male Entitlement.
When Did Having Trauma Become Trendy?
The Alchemy of Trauma: Turning our Wounds from Lead to Gold.
The First Healthy Relationship after a Toxic One is the Most Difficult.
When the Game Ends: The Unbreakable Love of Twin Flames.
10 Ways to Better Love the Avoidant-Attachment in your Life.
10 Lessons from an Ancient Sufi Practice on Guilt & Living a Better Life.
There Should be a Word for this Feeling.
The Gift of a Heartfelt Apology.
Why I Rejected Organized Religion & What I Found Instead.