You win some, you lose some

Via on Aug 1, 2010

It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
 Alan Cohen quotes
Softly and kindly remind yourself, ”I cannot own anything.” It is a valuable thought to keep in mind as you struggle to improve your financial picture, worry about investments, and plan how to acquire more and more. It is a universal principle which you are part of. You must release everything when you truly awaken. Are you letting your life go by in frustration and worry over not having enough? If so, relax and remember that you only get what you have for a short period of time. When you awaken you will see the folly of being attached to anything.
 

 Wayne Dyer quotes

Musings from a newly bald woman…

What an interesting few weeks.  Last weekend I got to go home to colorado to celebrate my twin son’s 21st birthday and in honour of that grand celebration we did something rather unorthodox…My daughter-in-law suggested a few months ago that instead of gifts we celebrate the boys birthday by holding a fundraiser; specifically a fund raiser for the St. Baldrick’s Foundation…(it’s OK if you don’t recognize it..I had to look it up!) But it is an amazing group focused on funds for childhood cancer research… Check out the links to learn more and to donate.

So my mind was already on the idea of Vairagya  after the big “shave”

  • Vairagya/Non-attachment: The essential companion is non-attachment (1.15), learning to let go of the many attachments, aversions, fears, and false identities that are clouding the true Self.
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    aminda freshly bald
    Yep that's me...cooler
    I mean seriously I had just “let go” of my hair right?  Alas, lessons usually come in groups… You see although I had “lost” my hair, I had “won” admiration. This was not my intent, however, it does ease the path when people admire or compliment what you have done; it felt as if the sacrifice wasn’t one at all.  Excellent really, I can continue to help raise money for an outstanding cause,
    YOU CAN HELP BY DONATING HERE:!!! 

    ttp://www.stbaldricks.org/participants/mypage/participantid/410553

    I connect on a visceral level with a tenet of yoga and I come out feeling awesome…sounds like a win, win, win.  Maybe in losing we win?  (my god waylon that is a tritism that hope doesn’t make you sick :) )
    But the week’s not over yet. I almost hestitate to tell you, seriously beginning to question my “non” accident prone persona,  but my car had an accident this week.  You read that correctly, MY CAR had an accident – all by it’s little lonesome.   Genie (that’s the car’s name) decide it would be fun to take a roll without me apparently. So, there I am, just me and my dog Asimov (yes, as in Isaac)  driving back to Az from Colorado, and we stop for fuel and a rest break in Monticello, Utah. Do you know what’s in Monticello, Utah??? …. a gas station, a hotel, and apparently a tree (and surprisingly a really adorable restaurant that had an awesome Vegan Hummus Spinach Wrap, go figure… Peace Tree Juice Cafe)
    Anywhoo, back to genie’s misadventures. Asi and I walk a few feet from the car while she fuels, so poor
    Asi can stretch his legs (poor guy is car sick :( )  and I hear the clank of the gas pump hitting the ground, it takes me a few beats to0 long to react (I am a bit tired)  and then like the scene from a bad buddy cop film I turn around to watch my car roll out of the gas station parking lot — across a four lane Utah highway —- down a gentle slop —- and run headon into a fully loaded apricot tree.   Upon running to her side I smell the anti-freeze and hear the pop and sizzle of a busted radiator and the dying sounds of a car that is so NOT driving me the rest of the way home tonight.  Really? Really?  I just stand there, and apricots fall on my newly shaved head and clunk against the roof of the car.  And for one moment everything stops, my heart seizes and I feel panic start to well up, eyes brimming up ….it’s about to be a full out freak out.  But then, I smile, I breathe…heck I laugh; and the panic passes.  I just stand there making a plan…
    Fast forward, car is towed, husband comes to pick me up yada yada yada …what does this have to do with Vairagya?? I had lost my panic mode… No seriously you don’t know me that well, you can’t imagine the gale force of a full blown Aminda panic attack; they are actually somewhat infamous (and not so pretty) and something I have actually been working on cleaning up…And here it was a moment to put into play what I had been practicing; and it worked! Yeah Yoga right???  But you do, you win some, you lose some.
    what I realized standing on the side of highway 191 is that the part of me the no longer felt the need to completely freak out was also the part of me that used to take many things by storm.  In the past I might have freaked but I probably would have done something like hitch hiked home to avoid inconveniencing anyone  and to get home sooner.  So I gained a calmer me…all the way around.  I suppose that’s safer? Maybe smarter? But I think I miss the freak a little, the dare devil….and I think that was my lesson that you have to be willing to detach not only from “things” and “outcomes” but even from “identities” . I am not the same rebel I once was and although she will be missed I am OK moving into who I am becoming. Are you?
    This week I invite you to consider what identities and stories you are carrying around that might be keeping you from a new horizon?  What can you release so that you can make space for something else?  What bold statement can you make that says HEY I’m not afraid, I’m enough…as I am TODAY? 
    Asana(yoga pose) of the week:
    Urdhva Dhanurasana Wheel Pose
     
    Mantra:
    inhale: embrace exhale: release
    Fitness Tip of the week:
    Just to keep you guessing…so the theme is about letting go of attachment…so your fitness tip is to set a goal outside of yourself.  Make your fitness be about something bigger than you a marathon fund raiser, a yoga class for a cause…set the goal but let the outcome be about the project and not your fitness and watch the fitness come anyway, and often with less strain, boredome or worry…It’s fitness with a joy perk!

    About Aminda R. Courtwright

    Aminda is a wellness facilitator and founder of ARCreated Wellness, LLC. A yoga teacher, transpersonal hypnotherapist, and Reiki Master, she shares her own healing journey with others in hopes of inspiring and uplifting those she meets. Her yoga classes are gentle and workshop style to invoke a real sense of learning and designed to be truly accessible for all levels. Her biggest hope is to help others take their yoga practice off the mat and into everyday life where it is truly meant to be experienced. (and can be most useful) Refusing to settle into the middle path just yet she prefers to dally on both edges and can be seen swinging right and leaning left. A devoted animal lover and activist and a humanist she is prone to rants and believes strongly that life is to be savored and that “we are all in this together, shouldn’t we enjoy it that way? “ When she isn’t teaching yoga, hypnotizing people, adoring her husband or doting on her grandson she is out riding her motorcycle—promoting the image that yogis are rebels and are a force to be reckoned with! You can also find her on Facebook. To join her for free classes online follow her here.

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    3 Responses to “You win some, you lose some”

    1. jolinda Van Haren says:

      I stand in awe. Your car didn't hit THE "Peace Tree" of the above mentioned resaurant did it?

    2. ARCreated says:

      NO,,, but that would have been irony beyond imagining!! LOL….I have always wanted to run into peace :)

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