Tomorrow Yoga, Today Gin.

Via Candice Garrett
on Apr 26, 2011
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Sometimes you just have one of those days.

You know those days? When the sky seems to be falling and you wish you could find some space to breathe, when even a second to breathe in peace is fleeting.

It’s been a hectic month for me. I sold my house, lived on a couch for two weeks (in a house with ten people, six of them kids) and bought a new one. I moved 45 minutes away, canceled three workshops in Denver, lived without internet and a fridge for 8 days and am in the midst of preparing for my upcoming teacher training (38 pages of the manual written, about 40 to go…).  I have commitments that I can’t pass off, deadlines I can’t meet and three sons that need…well need constantly. I haven’t stepped on my yoga mat in over a month. There just isn’t time enough for anything more than what I’m doing already.

But today, well today just takes the cake.

It’s always difficult to move children from one school to another. There’s so much transition that happens, from the new house, to new friends, to new curriculums. My son has been faking an illness for three days. It was only today that I realized it is because he is feeling lost in the new curriculum at school. He is already a wiggly child, sociable and amiable, but wiggly. Throw in a new environment and new subject matter he is not familiar with and you have a full blown attention deficit problem going on.

So I make promises to the school that we will give ye’ old pep talk at home and trot off to pick him up. I pull up to the school, load him in and then…

Blood curdling screams from the back seat.

Two fingers smashed in the car door. Two fingernails snapped off at the cuticle. The screaming goes on and on. And on.

Homework be damned, how can he do homework when he can’t hold a pencil?  It’s all I can do to get some ice and set up a movie and hope the crying will stop sometime soon.

Meanwhile, the baby is secretly using a yogurt cup to drain the toilet of all its water and dump it on the floor. The dog is covered in yogurt. I’m pretty sure the baby drank some toilet water. Get some towels.

I look at my eldest son and ask “Why??”

He says, “I know! You’re the only one who gets me mom.”

“Let’s run to Mexico,” I say.

“Or how about Japan? They have sushi there.” He suggests.

Then my dear, sweet boy drops a glass in the kitchen. Baby standing in a pile of glass. That makes three out of three. Clean it up, what else can you do? So I deposit the baby in the livingroom and he promptly climbs, and falls off of, the couch, landing on his head on the hardwood floor. The dog was then found eating pizza covered glass shards out of the garbage.

I wish I could do some yoga right now. Escape, breathe. I wish I could be writing to you about how calm and centered I am and about the yoga of parenting, like I have before.

But today? Today I ordered pizza, handed the remote control to the kids and poured a nice, big, cold gin and tonic. Somedays are like that. So today, gin. Tomorrow, I’ll finally get off to yoga. Because dear god, tomorrow at least won’t be today.


About Candice Garrett

Candice Garrett is a yoga teacher, writer, foodie and mother of three from Monterey, California. She is author of "Prenatal Yoga: Finding Movement in Fullness," assistant to Female Pelvic Floor Goddess Leslie Howard and director of the Nine Moons Prenatal Yoga teacher training program. Candice teaches yoga, prenatal yoga and pelvic health with workshops nationally. You can find her teaching schedule at Candice Garrett Yoga or her love of food at The Yogic Kitchen


32 Responses to “Tomorrow Yoga, Today Gin.”

  1. deannemv says:

    This was me yesterday. I had several glasses of wine and then went to bed early. This morning I got up early and pulled out the old mat. It was the perfect plan. I hope tomorrow goes better than today.

  2. Oh wow. Just wow. As a mom to 6 kids I’ve had many days like this. Days where I don’t want to stop at just one beverage! What a great way to give yourself permission to not be a perfect yogi mother, skip the mat and just give in to the day.

  3. yogi tobye says:

    Bombay sapphire has like 16 different herbs in it and juniper's meant to be good for diabetes (native american herbalism), so it must be good for ya I reckon!

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  5. Emily Perry says:

    Oh girl! I only have two but have had similar days (switch to dog eating turkey bones, daughter eating crayons, son stuffing toilet with paper)! Things will settle… i swear! E

  6. Thad says:

    Here's an idea…instead of spending your time writing a blog, perhaps consider actually doing some yoga and then maybe you won't need the gin…

  7. Thad says:

    how about saucha for starters…you know, avoiding impurities in pursuit of purification…if that doesn't work for you, then how about the fact that according to ayurveda, alcohol is poison for self-realization, the purpose of yoga…..or, simply, contemplate this…

  8. Candice says:

    I am too! But now that we're settled, unpacked and 2 out of 3 kids have started school again, I am looking forward to making my mat a regular part of my day once again.

  9. Alan Haffa says:

    Candice is my yoga teacher and she is great. She is funny, supportive, and wise. Sometimes there is wisdom in making adjustments to one's routine, and sometimes there is wisdom in breaking the rules. And, there is definitely wisdom in having a sense of humor when confronted by the challenges that life brings!

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  11. I enjoy gin as well says:

    PO, is for the way you… POntificate
    MO is for the super… MOm… you are
    YO is very very… extra YOrdinary
    *You* are doing your best and yes you have withstood the test

    (sung to the tune of L.O.V.E. by Nat King Cole of course… because women with children were not included as heroes in the Bhaghavad Gita, but we all know that we ARE, so you just keep doing you)

  12. Jenn says:

    Being a supportive loving Mom IS your yoga! Namaste Mommie :)

  13. Yoga Dude says:

    Ah, the dogmatist does not like someone having another view…sounds like you could use a drink! 😉

  14. IrishBritt1 says:

    Amen to Tangueray Days! Everyone has them now and then. Extra lime, please!!!

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  16. Mirella says:

    Thank God I'm not the only yogini who has days like that!!

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  18. Katie Surprise! says:

    loved this! sometimes I have a gin and tonic when I haven't even had a bad day!

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