Feng Shui your Sex Life.

Via on Jun 2, 2011

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Got Sex?

Interested in finding a new lover, multiple lovers or waiting for a marriage proposal? Of course you are.

It’s human nature to want to be with someone—whether it’s in a long-term relationship, with Mr. and Mrs. right now or for a booty call. We’re not a species that deals easily with being alone. I know you have a friend who swears up and down, in a bitter undertone,  that she/he is happy being alone. If this is you, stop reading this blog. However, if it’s not you and you want to spruce up your sex life, want to meet a new man/woman or are looking for an engagement, you’ve come to the right place!

I had a client who was in the midst of getting divorced and she kept hearing from her friends that the best way to get over someone is to get underneath someone new. So we did just that with Feng Shui. The great thing about her bedroom was that she had two options in which to sleep to find a new man. I informed her that one direction would bring a lot of lovers and another direction would bring her a husband with a lot of money and stability. She wasn’t ready for another husband. She wanted the lovers. She had been married for ten years and wanted to play the field a little bit. I told her that when she was ready for a husband or something more serious we could adjust her bed to that direction but until then she could experience partners and a lot of them!

So here’s what I did and you can do this too, so pay close attention.Bedroom Closet Hiding Behind the Wall of Mirrors

There’s a few ways to do this. The first way is using a technique called  a “peach blossom.” A “peach blossom” is what the Chinese call a beautiful woman. It also relates to romance and sexual energy. By placing a vase full of water and beautiful flowers in a specific degree in your bedroom or living room, based on the animal year in which you were born, this technique will bring another mate, lover(s) or person of interest.

If you were born before February 4thin any given year, use the previous year for your animal year. Feng Shui is based on the Chinese Solar Calendar. The flowers need to be changed out every few days to ensure that they stay fresh and the water is clean. This technique is simple and easy to use but may take up to 90-days to see results. Remember this is a method that is used to attract a new feetromantic partner to your life, and it is not designed to bring harmony to those relationships in trouble. There are other techniques for that. It is best used for:  Single people looking for new love interests, a woman waiting for a marriage proposal, or singles looking to increase “attractiveness” or the power to attract ie. multiple partners. Before you activate your Peach Blossom, make sure there are no married people in the house that share the same Peach Blossom as you do, this may cause affairs.

Once you find the correct animal year in which you were born, look  to find the exact 15 degrees of your Peach Blossom. You will need a simple compass to find the 15 degrees that is your actual Peach Blossom. Keep in mind, every room of the house has an East, West, South, etc. This technique is best used in the bedroom. Place the vase full of water and flowers on the degrees or direction indicated for your “Peach Blossom.” Go here to find your peach blossom.

Another way to activate sexual or romantic energy in the home is to find your relationship direction (+70). Sleeping to this direction will stir the pot for more romance, sex, relationships and love. Go here and find your Gua number, which is based on the year of  birth and gender. Remember if you were born January 1-February 4, use the previous year as your year of birth. Once you find your Gua number, go here to find your +70 direction, which is just a numeric name for your relationship direction. Sleep to this direction and give it at least 90 days to work and voila, you’re on your way to more romance, love, sex, promiscuity, or multiple partners. Pick your poison!

The last way to activate sexual or romantic energy in the home is by finding the “Peach Blossom” energy pattern that is present in the home, which is based on the facing direction of the building (this is taken using a Chinese compass known as Luo pan) and the move-in date of the occupants. By finding the natal energy chart for the home, it indicates what type of energy exists and if the “Peach Blossom” energy is present. By situating the bed to that direction, the person activates it while they’re sleeping. Sometimes people will have a fireplace, stove or television that activates the “Peach Blossom” energy. In this case, that would be powerful enough to activate that energy.

After making simple modifications in my client’s home, adjusting her sleeping direction, the doors she used and activating the prosperity energy, she happily reported that she was dating three different men and that she already got a promotion at her job after only being there for a few weeks.

About Jennifer Bonetto

Known as 'The Hollywood Feng Shui Master,' since 2008, Jennifer has been the soul behind Real Feng Shui SOULutions. She incorporates interior design, Classical Feng Shui and building sustainably to make her one of the first Eco Shui Designers in the world. She is a certified Master Practitioner, Certified Master Instructor, and a fellow for the American College of Classical Feng Shui. She also serves as co-moderator for the Xuan Kong discussion group. Currently, she is part of the 400 year old Wu Chang Pai mastery lineage of Grandmaster Yap Cheng Hai, of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, through American Feng Shui Master, Denise Liotta-Dennis. She is featured on Season 3 of HGTV's show, Selling LA. Her background includes employment with several Fortune 500 corporations. Jennifer received an MBA from Chapman University in Orange, CA. Her business acumen and experience has helped executives and individuals alike to achieve their goals with money, relationships and health. Having lectured, written several articles, e-books and currently authored a book on Classical Feng Shui, she continues to educate people on this ancient science that has been mistranslated and misused throughout the years. Join us on Facebook: facebook.com/realfengshui Follow us on twitter: @realfengshui

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  4. Courtney says:

    The links all lead to the same page…

  5. Lucy says:

    I would like to hear how to boost/support monogamy within an already existing dyad. Thanks.

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