Homage to Betty Ford: We’d have no Dr. Drew without you.

Via on Jul 10, 2011

When Gerald Ford became president in 1974 after Nixon’s resignation, I was seven years old. Sadly, it took Betty Ford’s death last Friday, July 8, 2011, for me to understand fully her legacy and how aligned her worldview was with mine.

Here’s what pierces my heart.

  1. In 1964, Betty became dependent on prescription pain pills, originally administered for a neck injury and continuous pain from a pinched nerve. Over time, and with her husband increasingly absent from their marriage as his political career grew, she drank. “Now I know that some of the pain I was trying to wipe out was emotional,” Betty described in her 1987 autobiography. She faced and shared frankly her personal struggle with alcohol and prescription pills, and later founded the Betty Ford Center outside of Palm Springs, a 12-Step in-patient recovery center that was the first licensed Addiction Hospital in the world. Her willingness to face her addiction publicly forever changed addiction care for the better, and brought the hidden aspects of addiction to the light. Powerful legacy, Betty. We’d have no Dr. Drew without you!
  2. Throughout her career in the public eye, Betty showed a lack of pretense. She was outpoken and frank about all of her personal struggles. She took over the stiff and formal White House from Pat Nixon, and nixed Richard and Pat’s requirement that staff remain silent and invisible. She kept Pat’s formal furniture, but playfully placed a cigarette in the outstretched fingers of a Greek Goddess in the Yellow Oval Room.
  3. Betty started the dialogue on Breast Cancer. In 1974, after her husband assumed the Office of the President, Betty underwent a radical mastectomy, followed by two years of chemotherapy. The prevailing sentiment at the time among women was that they’d rather lose almost any body part rather than a breast. Asked if she felt sorry for herself during the trauma of losing her breast, she replied: “No! Oh, no — heavens, no. I’ve heard women say they’d rather lose their right arm, and I can’t imagine it. It’s so stupid. I can even wear my evening clothes.” Plucky.
  4. As a Republican, her popularity and appeal crossed party lines. And she spoke her mind, even when it was inconvenient and cost votes. Pivotal stands on key issues: she endorsed legalized abortion (this was the Roe v. Wade era) and the Equal Rights Ammendment.

Have I personally struggled with breast cancer? Uh, no, but I’m grateful that we can talk openly about it in 2011. Am I addicted to alcohol or prescription drugs? Not that I know of, but the 12-Step process is a gallant, proven method for spiritual conversion, and really, I don’t see a down side. We’re all addicted to something, some little thing that helps us adjust to life. Maybe it’s an addiction to negative thought, or an addiction to online communication, or to chocolate or overnutrition. Yoga and meditation help me. The Betty Ford Center helps others. We all benefit from the spotlight Betty shined, with dignity and aplomb, on the emotional underbelly of addiction.

I stand inspired. Thank you, Betty Ford.

About Sara Gottfried, MD

I believe in evidence-based ancient wisdom. I believe in eating your leafy greens rather than popping synthetic pills. I believe in Ayurveda and integrative medicine. I believe in botanical therapies over synthetic hormones. I believe you deserve to feel sexy, ripe and delicious. I believe in tending your flame. I believe that proactively managing and optimizing your health is your divine responsibility and a path to personal power. I’m a mother suspicious of processed sugar and a yogini hotly pursuing lithe, lean lusciousness. I’m committed to deep green, organic living. I’m a scholar and a seeker of truth, vitality, hormonal balance, sacred balance, spirituality and divine self-actualization. I’m Sara Gottfried, MD and you can find me at my website or love my Facebook page.

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11 Responses to “Homage to Betty Ford: We’d have no Dr. Drew without you.”

  1. Eric says:

    I agree Sara. It seems to me that Betty Ford made it okay to talk about things , which in that time, were just keep silent. Addiction, that was for hippies right? Breast, you couldn't even say breast! Betty Ford was truly a culture changer.

  2. Tanya Lee Markul tanya lee markul says:

    Thank you so much, Sara. I learned a lot from this article.

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  3. Tanya Lee Markul tanya lee markul says:

    Just posted to "Featured Today" on the Elephant Yoga homepage.

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  5. Great post, Sarah! Just posted to the elephant journal home page. Cheers!

  6. And no Dr. Drew would be a bad thing?!

    • No offense intended to Betty Ford. But any "therapist" involved with a shameless travesty like "Celebrity Rehab"–exploiting addiction for fame and profit–should have lost his certifications years ago.

      • elephantjournal says:

        Amen. I don't know him at all. On the other hand, I'd think that it's healthy that such issues are out there, instead of closeted, suppressed.

  7. Tanya Lee Markul tanya lee markul says:

    Just posted to "Popular Lately" on the Elephant Yoga homepage.

  8. elephantjournal says:

    Jana Gray: Anyone else old enough to remember when Betty Ford opened up the private residence areas of the White House and gave Barbara Walters a tour? Some people expressed shock that the President and First Lady shared a double bed instead of having two twins. Times have changed.

  9. Christianne says:

    beautiful article and beautiful woman. found it as it had been linked to mine with the word family. would be so honored if you would read. The Kyrygyz 65 have descended upon DC this week.
    http://www.elephantjournal.com/2011/07/the-childr

    Can't wait to read more of you.

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