The Low Life of High Rollers

Via on Nov 25, 2011

The average salary for a yoga teacher is $45,000, so I was a bit surprised recently when a normally crunchy yoga teacher friend took me out for a night on the town.

We had a great steak dinner at The Strip House including 16 oz New York Strip, a spectacular bottle of Cabernet, a Grand Chocolate Profiterole, and a ridiculously savory glass of port.

I caught a glimpse of the $572 bill and couldn’t help but ask, “Things are going well?”

“Better believe it.”

“Did you get a sponsorship?” I inquired.

“Nah.”

“Doing a teacher training?” I continued my line of questioning. Teacher trainings can spell beaucoup bucks for certain yoga teachers.

“Nah, can’t deal with teacher training. Excuse me waiter, can I get one more glass of this Fonseca?”

“Something great is going on in your life…” I pushed a little more.

“I got a $1000 tip from the Janey Ettenberg,” he said, as if he won the lottery.

Janey Ettenberg is known in NYC’s Upper East side for being a big tipper if she receives just the right adjustments during her private lessons.

Legend had it that one yoga teacher received $5,000 for giving her a Savasana Shiver, and another received $2,500 for giving her a Hanuman Helper, and yet another received $3,200 for a Cobbler’s Cuddle.

“Why are you spending that money on me? Why don’t you save it? And what the hell did you do to get $1000?” I yelped.

“Can’t you just live in the f-cking moment?!” he said, putting me in my place.

*****

Considering the fact that the above yoga teacher lives paycheck to paycheck and often borrows money from friends and family, it was somewhat surprising that he blew it all so fast.

Whether $1,000 or $315,000,000, human beings facing a sudden windfall (relatively speaking) struggle to make intelligence decisions.

Take Jack Whittaker Jr, who on December 25, 2002 won $315 million in the Powerball lottery. At the time, Whittaker was successful, president of a construction company, a well-rounded family man.

But upon becoming stupendously wealthy, the following took place:

-He was arrested twice, once for drunk driving and once for threatening a bar manager.

-A woman sued him after he groped her at a dog racetrack.

-Thieves took $545,000 in cash from Whittaker’s car while he was visiting a strip club.

-Caesars Atlantic City sued him for bouncing $1.5 million in checks.

-His wife divorced him.

-In 2003, Whittaker’s granddaughter’s boyfriend was found dead of an overdose inside Whittaker’s home.

-His 17-year-old granddaughter, whom he had been giving a $2,100 weekly allowance, fatally overdosed months later, at a different location.

-His daughter—mother of the dead granddaughter—died in 2010 this year of as-yet-undetermined causes.

Said Whitaker, now with no family and no fortune, “I wish I’d torn that ticket up.”

It’s not just Whitaker, but consider Callie Rogers who won $3 million and now works as a maid to pay off debt. Or Evelyn Adams, who won the lottery twice, TWICE, in 1985 and 1986 for a total of $5.4 million, and now lives in a trailer.

WHY LOTTERY WINNERS STRUGGLE

The list of piss broke lottery winners consumes page after page and link after link on Google.

Why?

According to a BBC article, excessive wealth, particularly for people unaccustomed to it, can actually cause unhappiness.

There is a quote I often use in my yoga workshops, “Your life should fit snug over your soul.”

Think of it this way: sleeping with a bunch of excess clothes, itchy blankets, and varied trinkets scattered across your bed makes for an uncomfortable slumber.

The same goes for the soul’s journey on earth. It doesn’t want to lug a bunch of crap around in its quest for fulfillment.

Extravagantly wealthy people might have it easier, but the science shows again and again happiness does not come from ease but from coziness and its cousins “autonomy, competence in what you do, a sense of closeness with others, and self-esteem, all of which bring a well rounded state.” *

60 SECOND CHALLENGE

As you head into this weekend, take on the following challenge. It will be the true test to see if you are engaged and cozy in life. This challenge is difficult, and recommended by relationship expert Harville Hendrix as a miracle healer.

Deep breath. Are you ready?

Give someone a 1 minute hug. That’s 60 long seconds. That requires time. And according to the great philosophers, “Being rich is a measurement of how much money you have. But being wealthy is a measurement of how much time you have.”

Or otherwise stated by the abovementioned yogi, “Live in the f-cking moment!”

Join me in 2012 on a mission to Take Back Your Life one beautiful, funny, and delicious moment at a time: LIVIN THE MOMENT 2012

Namaste,

David Romanelli
www.beautifulfunnydelicious.com

About David Romanelli

David "Yeah Dave" Romanelli has played a major role in pioneering the modernization of wellness in the United States. He believes wellness and feeling good is so much more than fancy yoga poses, green juice, and tight-fitting clothes. Dave launched his career fusing ancient wellness practices with modern passions like exotic chocolate, fine wine, and gourmet food by creating Yoga + Chocolate, Yoga + Wine, and Yoga for Foodies.  His work has been featured in The Wall Street JournalFood + Wine, Newsweek and The New York Times; and his debut book, Yeah Dave's Guide to Livin' the Moment reached #1 on the Amazon Self-Help Bestseller List. Dave's new book launches in Fall 2014 from Skyhorse Publishing. Check out his new show Yeah Dave! brought to you by Scripps Network, the people behind The Food Network, Travel Channel, HGTV, and more.  He is a current contributor to Health Magazine, Yoga Journal, and various other publications. Discover more about his journey on www.yeahdave.com.

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7 Responses to “The Low Life of High Rollers”

  1. Truth says:

    I think its nearly impossible to live in the moment while eating dead flesh. If you did, you'd be aware of all the pain and suffering that happened so that piece of meat could be on your plate.

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  3. Lovely says:

    This article had nothing to do with one's choice of vegetarianism or not. It was about happiness and it was an incredible article. People say they want to win the lottery and I always say absolutely not. happiness is found within yourself. Discovering who you are, loving what you find and living from your heart. I wouldn't want it any other way. Thank you for your article. ♥

  4. Pam J says:

    I love to eat meat, and it does not prevent me from living in the moment. This was a terrific article, and while I wouldn’t mind winning the lottery, I know it would be more likely to cause problems than solve them unless I got help from an ethical financial advisor.

    • SOFLY_Anna says:

      funny, there is no meet no meet eating mentioning in this article…but I agree with Pam – eating meet has nothing to do living in the moment of winning lottery:-)
      On contrary, I would not trust any financial advisor…don't think the word "ethical" goes well with it…

  5. Tanya Lee Markul says:

    Hey, that's a pretty good salary! :-)

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  6. Rick says:

    I have an acquaintance who did the same thing… After winning 7 million in the Florida lottery. He became even more obnoxious than he was before winning. His greed rose to new heights and his wife left him. Sudden wealth doesnt mean instant happieness… Personally though I think the good that can be done with winning such a large amount can change lives for the better in so many ways… I still wont buy a ticket though!

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