There Will Again Be Light.

Via on Nov 19, 2012
Photography: Ingrid Schroder

Yesterday had me fooled.

Big time.

That bad boy loured and lulled me with its oh so sweet and easy ebb and flow—it totally soothed me into a false sense of security, hands slippery and slow, helping me along nicely in the act of letting my guard down.

Let’s just say that yesterday’s brightness was dimmed more than abruptly.

Let’s just say that yesterday packed more than a little bit of a punch.

Two hours and thirty seven minutes of listening to your child relentlessly scream their little lungs out while they battle the impending process of sleep will do that to you.

It’s a test alright.

If you’ve ever been through the hell of listening, helplessly, as anyone, let alone your baby, completely looses their shit, you know for sure, that describing the experience as a test only touches the tip of the iceberg.

Listening to Ayanna have an absolute melt-down is beyond brutal. There’s no holding back—that little Minx really goes for it. Very dramatic (wonder where she gets that from), to the point where she basically just rips my heart out (the fact that you can’t see the scars, doesn’t mean they aren’t there).

It took a long time, like 14 months probably, for me to get the knack of just sitting in the midst of all that flying shit of parenthood, and still hold onto a thread of myself, a taste of that peace I work so fucking hard for, a shred of the sanity I sometimes feel is slippery at best.

Well, that lesson took it’s sweet time to arrive, now didn’t it?

Nothing like feeling helpless and hopeless and sleepless for over a year to jump start your sway back into the brightness.

That’s just the way life goes sometimes—the pulse is always swaying. Some things, some circumstances, some heartbreak, some challenges that we’ll face in this lifetime take their sweet fucking time moving through us. 

That’s just the way it is.

We don’t necessarily spend the same amount of time in the darkness as we do in the light.

It’s in those moments where you feel like you can’t possibly take anymore, or work anymore or be any more tired or empty or broken, remind yourself that there will again, be light.

Remember that change is imminent; it’s unavoidable…it’s the only constant.

Everything pulses. Everything fluxes and flows. Everything changes, sometimes. Nothing lasts forever, thank God.

Not the good and not even the bad. Not being sleep deprived, not sleep-ins, not break ups or broken hearts or empty arms. Not sleepless nights, or painful words, not first kisses, not your twenties, not the tight little thighs you worked so hard for.

Everything is in transition. All of the time.  All. of. the. time. 

Moments melt and friendships fade; pain passes and even cherished childhoods end. Relationships change and seasons change, life changes and changes and changes. The evolution never ends.

Nothing is ever stagnant; nothing stops moving, even if you can’t initially feel that pulse.

(Just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t there).

Everything will shift and change, so stop sweating the small stuff. (Maybe the medium stuff and some of the bigger stuff as well).

Lighten your mental load of desperation knowing that no matter how rough the road feels right now, this too, shall pass.

It may not feel like it in the midst of it, but somewhere down the line, everything is going to change.

There will again be light.

This, I promise.

 

 ~

Ed: Bryonie Wise

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About Kelli Prieur

Kelli Prieur is a mother, a teacher, a writer and a retreat facilitator, running her business, Kelli’s Heart Glow Yoga Retreats, internationally as well as locally, throughout Australia. She’s spent the last two years welcoming in her deepest and most profound of teacher yet, her daughter, little Miss Ayanna Raine Desenberg. The past twenty-four months have brimmed and boiled with love, overflowed with growth and have torn at the seams with challenges. There have been endless opportunities for growth and expansion, for faith and surrender, for finding softness, and for finding strength. It’s been a life-changing, eye-opening, awe-inspiring experience, so she’s been writing about it, about life, about what she’s practicing, what she’s loving and loathing, what’s breaking her down and carrying her though. She writes about all the splendor and the simplicity. Just life. And a lot of it on her blog. She teaches yoga classes as offerings and reminders that you can be happy, and feel full, and satisfied, and light. You can find her classes packed full of gems of shiny challenges and pearls of deep breathing and dramatic transformation, Monday nights and Wednesday mornings at Preshana Yoga in Sydney, Australia; at a Soul Steps event she and her partner, DJ Kid Kenobi, collaborate on, creating a 3 hour musically- infused journey into the heart through deep twists, deep heart-openers, and deep forward folds; or at one of her Heart Glow Yoga Retreats—next hit of tropical transformation is this Oct. 25-Nov. 2 in Maui, Hawaii!!! For more on Kelli, visit her website: kellisheartglow.com, her blog: kellisheartglow.blogspot.com, or her FaceBook page: https://www.facebook.com/kellisheartglowyogaretreats.

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10 Responses to “There Will Again Be Light.”

  1. Mary says:

    Thank you.

  2. Tracy Wisneski Tracy says:

    What an important message for everyone, regardless of their individual life challenges!
    I also wanted to deeply sympathize with the unique struggle of a mother living through a colicy baby. It is fraught with feelings of intense guilt and inadequacy. How beautiful that you can already see the growth that it's inspired in you!
    And lastly, if your Anya is two, you're entering some of the absolute best years of parenting. People talk about the "terrible two's," but they're not terrible at all. They're a hell of a lot of work, but they're also a tremendous joy and privilege, filled with wonder, excitement and hilarity! Most awe-inspiring of all is the honor of watching a personality unfurl and soul blossom. You've got oodles of fun ahead! Enjoy! <3

  3. Elizabeth says:

    just wonderful

  4. Kelli Prieur Kelli says:

    Thank you Tracey and Elizabeth!

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