You can look good on the outside but if you don’t feel good on the inside, what’s the point?
As a culture we have become so obsessed with looking good on the outside, but disconnected from the source of real aliveness on the inside.
In 2012, in the U.S. alone:
- >> $10 billion was spent on cosmetic surgery.
- >> $14.4 billion was spent on make up.
- >> $82 billion was spent on clothes.
We’re bombarded with millions of images each day telling us what sexy is. Magazines, celebrities, television, the internet all sell you their version of sexy. Trying to get you to buy it.
Wear these clothes. Use this perfume. Drink this wine. Buy this jewelry. Look a certain way.
Sexy is not something you can buy. It’s what you are.
Sexy is soul. True sexy is not based on anything outside your self since everything outside is transitory.
Real sexy is when you are connected to the unchanging core of your being.
Sexy is who you are being. It’s not something you do. The more connected you are to your true Self, the sexier you will become and the more alive you will feel. It’s about how you feel about yourself. Then your soul shines so brightly through you that you radiate the force of your Spirit.
Your personality may be imperfect. Your body will surely change over time. But your Soul is infinite, unchanging and radiant.
Your soul has no wrinkles. Your Soul does not age. It just is.
In our pursuit of sexy, we have lost our Soulfulness.
There are thousands of courses, books, classes, and coaches all teaching you how to be sexy.
Real sexy is being connected to your soul and living boldly.
Real sexy is accepting and loving yourself exactly as you are.
Real sexy is being fully self expressed.
Real sexy is living your heart and generosity of spirit.
Real sexy is daring to speak and live your truth as honestly as possible.
Real sexy is being willing to live with an open heart and be vulnerable with those you love.
Real sexy is not taking yourself too seriously or life for that matter.
Real sexy is when you live fully in the present moment.
Real sexy is when you are living for a purpose bigger than your self
When you’re tuned in to your Soul you will be turned on to Source. When you are turned on to Source your soul shines brightly. All those around you will feel it.
As you’re connected to your Soul, and let it shine you will attract people to you who can see who you really are. Then those that you attract into your life will be much more authentically aligned and real.
When you’re connected with your soul, you begin to live for a bigger reason than your self. You begin playing a bigger game than the ego’s game of survival, selfishness and never ending seeking. You move into living service and contribution.
Your soul doesn’t need anything since it is everything.
When you know who you truly are, you become authentically sexy.
Mandela, Martin Luther King, Jr., Mother Teresa, Bruce Lee, Bob Marley, Chuang Tzu—they were some of the sexiest people alive.
They were fully surrendered to their soul, and being lived by a purpose bigger than themselves.
Are you ready to be sexy for real?
Then know that: You are Infinite. Beyond birth. Beyond death.
Your Soul is Free.
I would love to hear what sexy means to you in the comments below.
Kute Blackson is an utterly unique visionary in the world of human potential. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s life work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. World renowned for creating revolutionary results, Kute is creating a world-shift in consciousness and is widely known as a transformational facilitator, speaker and leader. Today, the venue for his message may be one-on-one, a vast stadium setting, experiential seminars and transformational travel intensives all of over the world. Kute has an energy that is so powerful and complete, one cannot leave his presence without a recollection and feeling of what love truly is, true love, who they have been all along. His transformative and healing energy is sought out worldwide. Kute is a bold voice for a new generation. If you are ready live a truly SEXY life, then find out more about my life changing seminar at www.boundlessblissbali.com! The next journey takes place July 4th to July 15th, and we are filling up fast. So if you feel moved join us! Feel free to share this once in a lifetime experience with your friends: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Ed: Apprentice Ramunno/ Lynn Hasselberger
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