5 Ways to Have a Ridiculously Amazing Life. ~ Richelle Morgan

Via on May 21, 2013

Reese & Hayley Synchronized Crazy Happy Dance!

I used to dream, wish and hope for an amazing life—not just an okay life, but a ridiculously amazing life.

When I was younger, that dream had me rolling in style, of course, with fabulous clothes, a big house and a fast car.

As I grew older and wiser, the material wants and needs of my dreams changed—I simply wanted to be inspired and excited to get out of bed.

But that wasn’t happening…I was living within a shell of myself.

Sleep, wake, crawl out of bed, work, eat, sleep and repeat. And repeat. And repeat again. Snooze alert.

I found myself caught in a vortex of boredom with my dreams of a different life on hold. I was stuck. Not unhappy, just stuck, like a pot of overcooked pasta, heavy, uninspired and pasty.

That heaviness was not only settling on my ass, it was finding its way into my heart. And, all I wanted to do was sleep. And eat. And then sleep some more.

The problem was that this wasn’t the first time I experienced this; it was not a new story I was creating where I could put the blame on all the supporting characters. This was my own fault; I had built a decently successful business, had wonderful clients, friends, family and all that fun stuff. I was living in suburbia heaven with a nice car, good home and it was killing me.

Slowly and surely, I was dying inside.

I had worked myself into exhaustion and the stress I put on myself to succeed gifted me with a lovely autoimmune disorder—which was ironic, considering my business was teaching others how to create healthy lifestyles.

I was unmotivated, uninspired and unfulfilled; a walking, talking empty shell. Like a pretty puppet, I moved, acted, responded, but if you had taken the time to knock on my shell, you would have heard a resounding echoing emptiness inside.

So what did I do?

I woke up, took a hard look at my life and told myself to snap out of it. I made the decision to step back into my life, to take the bull by the horns and take charge of myself. No more excuses. No more blame.

It was time to start living from the heart…and it was then that my life started to become a bit more amazing.

It was then that I started to become a bit more amazing.

And, yes, it was that simple. The decision, that is.

I realized that the only way out of my spiraling vortex of un-fulfillment was through me. In order to create the life I dreamed of, I had to be the one to change. I couldn’t blame anyone for my choices, my dissatisfaction or my growing ass. I had to turn the mirror around and face myself.

And at first I peeked, not wanting to face myself. But, as time went on and I did the work needed, that mirror started to shine and reflect a happier me. And now, I can proudly say that I have fully and completely stepped into my life. And I try to do at least one thing to make my life ridiculously amazing each and every day.

Five ways to step into your life and make it ridiculously amazing:

1. Move.

As in, move, breathe and sweat.

You can’t be ridiculously amazing burrowing a hole into your couch or glued to your computer screen. (I know this because I tried. Massive fail! And what makes matters worse, that decently successful business I ran was a fitness business. How sad is that? I was inspiring others to move but couldn’t get myself on board!)

You have to get up and get your ass moving! Get the blood flowing, muscles fired up and the energy levels inspired. And the million excuses you have will come up, shelf them. If you can walk to the fridge, you can move.

I’m not asking you to hop off the couch and run a marathon, go for a walk, dance, do yoga, something. Just move. While you’re at it, move on to number two.

2. Check in and take notice.

One thing that is consistent is that life is continuously changing—and it will pass you by in the blink of an eye if you don’t take notice of it.

Start by checking in and paying attention to the little things that happen on a daily basis. I take the same route everyday to teach and each time I notice something different; it didn’t used to be that way. I used to drive mindlessly to client’s homes or to appointments and find myself 10 km down the highway with no recollection of what just passed me by. I had created a cozy vacuum of numbness that had me periodically checking out of life.

Now, I pay attention. I check in and stay present. Even when I’m doing something I do everyday, it’s become a mini adventure. I’ve noticed that anything can and will happen, but it’s up to me to take notice. So open your eyes, ears and mind. Rediscover your senses.

When you pause and actually notice the little things, what you see might surprise you.

3. Love.

Sweet, juicy, love.

Get the love juice flowing for your friends, family, partner and pets. Basically, anyone or thing that shares your space. Try to sweeten the pot with some unconditional love. Pets, easy. People; maybe not so much so try to practice first and foremost on yourself. Drown yourself in a giant pot of love juice. Be kind and nourishing to yourself in deliciously healthy ways because when we start to treat ourselves as though we are worthy, we set amazing things in motion.

After all, we can’t tap into love if we don’t love ourselves first.

4. Play.

Remember that four letter word?

If you don’t, seek out a niece, nephew, your child or a friend’s child. Watch, listen and learn. Life has enough serious moments without us purposely adding to the mix.

It’s okay to let loose and let your inner child come out and play once in a while. Be silly, dance, sing and laugh a lot. Don’t let anyone dampen your silliness. I did that and it wasn’t fun.

Now I play, a lot, everyday, with my crazy dogs, in the beautiful sea, on my yoga mat and with my boyfriend. They nourish my quirky side and allow me to be me. Which makes me smile a lot.

As a bonus, they’re helping me develop gorgeous laugh lines… much prettier than the frown lines I was working on before.

5. Leap outside your comfort zone.

Don’t think. Get like Nike and just do it! Leap, jump or dive into something that takes you outside your comfort zone, something that scares you a little or a lot.

I did this when I first arrived in Tulum. Shy, deathly afraid of house parties, I became a bit of a hermit back home. Once my shell started to crack open, I forced myself to do things that took me way outside my comfort zone.

The end result was I became more social, less afraid to attend parties or events solo. And it was so extraordinarily freeing, terrifying at times, but once the sweat stopped pouring, I noticed that I was not alone. And no matter what the outcome, I embraced every experience as an opportunity to spread my wings and grow.

Amazing things happen when we open the door to life and let our senses explore. When you step outside your comfort zone and try new things, visit new places, create new adventures, you give back to yourself ten fold. Embrace what comes up when you take a chance on life.

The good with the bad because it will help you grow as a friend, lover, mother or father.

Take charge of your life.

If you’re unsatisfied, do something—your life won’t change unless you create the change.

So get things moving, go dance in the rain, kiss your partner deeply, try a new taste, take the road less travelled, open your eyes and drink in the sights.

There’s beauty to be found in simplicity.

Make the choice to step up to the bat and hit a ridiculously amazing home run in this fabulously messy thing we call life.

 

Richelle MorganRichelle Morgan is a wanderlusting yogi, teacher, lifestyle coach and mama to three dogs and a cat. Lover of chocolate, wine, animals and life, she explores with her heart and craves the roads less travelled. She teaches her clients how to leap out of their comfort zones, trust in their inner strength and step into life. In 2011, her wanderlusting soul found it’s way, via motorhome, from Canada to Tulum where she currently lives, plays in the waves and teaches others to follow their hearts. Follow her adventures on Facebook  or join her on her next yoga retreat.

 

 

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13 Responses to “5 Ways to Have a Ridiculously Amazing Life. ~ Richelle Morgan”

  1. Laura says:

    Great article but you have a typo – you instead of you're. "If you unsatisfied, do something—your life won’t change unless you create the change."

  2. Hi Laura! Thanks for the feedback… and yes, caught the typo as I was rereading! My fingers fly faster than they should and am horrible as proofing! Take care!

  3. Amber says:

    Thanks Richelle… I needed to read this right now. I've been very much in a "Geez I have to get out of bed AGAIN? Didn't I just go through this yesterday?" rut that I just can't seem to shake. Thanks for the inspiration/words of encouragement!!! :)

    • Hi Amber! That rut is a simply put a rut… and you will pass through it and the reason I think this is because you recognize it and you chose to read, to absorb, to get inspired so you can shake off the dust. When I had my business back home in canada, I used to tell my clients to post, shout it out, let the world know they need a little helping hand and to set a goal or start to follow a dream and say it outloud everyday. I always think that once we put it out there, it's out there and we have to then get off our asses and do something about it. My life in the past two years has been filled with bumps and twists and turns. A crazy ride! BUT as I read your comment, then got up to get myself a drink and think about answering, I realized that everything I have gone through in the past two years has led me to this moment in my life and I am grateful. I needed to be jolted back into my life and now I have to do whatever I can to keep on stpeeing up to the plate & being present.

      So whatever you do, chose to get out of bed! The beds not going anywhere. You are! Do whatever you need to get inspired. And only you know the answer to that. Simple words, I know… but it's always the simple truthes that seem to work the best. Please stay in touch. I'd love to know how ridiculously amazing your life turns out to be! ~ xx Richelle

  4. Daniela Gusman says:

    Some very good advice here Richelle – thanks for taking the time to share. I hope to make it back to one of your amazing yoga retreats soon.

  5. Loz says:

    This article has probably just saved my life! This is everything that I’ve been thinking & feeling! I know now my life needs change & only I can do that, it’s a powerful feeling. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one.

    Thank you for writing this article!!!

  6. Gina says:

    loved the article, very inspiring. I to have an auto immune disease.I feel like we don't open our eyes and slow down until its to late. Life is to short you never know when its your time. So I agree, we should live life to its fullest and appreciate the little things.
    Namaste,

    • Hi Gina,
      Definitely true… I felt the signs, but kept ignoring them. My business, my clients, etc… everything else was more important than taking care of me. And then it kicked me in the butt! Giant wake-up call. I get excited by life and oddly enough that excitement led to me being burnt out… I know have figured out how to balance it. To take moments to just be.
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
      Hope to hear from you again!

  7. Abhishek says:

    Amazing article.. Very inspiring.

  8. Todd says:

    Fantastic article! Looking forward to following that advice very soon!

  9. Ben says:

    Thanks for your words. Now I´m on my way to change things in my life.

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