Don’t Take Anything Personally

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Of course you won’t!  Never. Me? Nope. Well, maybe… sometimes.

There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally. You will only need to trust yourself to make responsible choices. You are never responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you. When you truly understand this, and refuse to take things personally, you can hardly be hurt by the careless comments or actions of others.
~ Don Miguel Ruiz

Okay. I admit. I tend to take things personally. More than sometimes. To a fault.

Thanks to Dainaz Illava for posting this video to your facebook page. 😉

Photo via by CassidyGrummer

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About Lynn Hasselberger

Lynn Hasselberger is co-founder of GDGD Radio; The Green Divas Managing Editor; and Producer of The Green Divas Radio Show. She's also a mom, writer and award-winning cat-herder who lives in Chicagoland. Sunrises, running, yoga, lead-free chocolate and comedy are just a few of her fave things. In her rare moments of spare time, she blogs at and A treehugger and social media addict, you'll most likely find Lynn on twitter (@LynnHasselbrgr @GreenDivaLynn & @myEARTH360), instagram and facebook. She hopes to make the world a better place, have more fun, re-develop her math skills and overcome her fear of public speaking. Like her writing? Subscribe to her posts.


8 Responses to “Don’t Take Anything Personally”

  1. Susan says:

    I'm like you, I try not to take anything personally but it is hard.

  2. Cindi Silva| says:

    Through the practice of mindfulness and non-attachment it becomes easier to non-personalize. I find shifting perspective helps too. @zendi4peace

  3. anniegirl1138 says:

    My husband seems to have been born able to do this but I work continually.

  4. Abbie says:

    The text in the video seems to come straight from Ruiz's book "The Four Agreements". I would highly recommend reading it if you enjoyed this video. It is short, straight forward and gives further advice on living a life of personal freedom. We read it in our yoga book club last month and the other 3 agreements generated even more discussion that this one.

  5. Love this reminder! Have you read the book 'The Four Agreements'? Really good – has a great segment on not taking things personally. Hope you're having a wonderful day. 🙂

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