There are so many lessons yoga has brought to my daily life.
I taught a yoga class recently on this idea: “How to Know the Yoga is Working” and was surprised when more and more reasons just came to me on the spot. I decided to make a list for all the yogis out there to remember just how much value our practice has in our lives, both on and off the mat.
1. You’re less reactive.
Say somebody says a mean word to you and you tighten. In the past it may have turned into low self-esteem, blame or anger, but now you breathe. You notice what is happening in your body. You give yourself a moment.
Before, you may have attacked back, but now you’re able to see the whole situation from the outside. You realize the person may not have even meant that word in a mean way. You notice the trigger that arises and you let it out with the breath. You choose to act and speak from a calm, centered place.
2. You let go of your “story.”
You may have been triggered because of a story you carry about yourself. You check in with the people close to you about what your mind is making up. You realize most of it is not even real. It’s made up. With this awareness, you can let it go.
3. You face your fears.
You begin to see your fears as some kind of karmic inheritance,
“These are the places for me to grow.”
Now you ask yourself,
“What do I stand to gain by not doing this thing?”
You decide to face your fears. Each little fear you face gives you more courage to live as your full self.
4. You accept yourself as you are.
Your yoga class becomes the place to stop comparing yourself. You stop looking around at all the other people, and start looking within for acceptance.
5. You take care of your body.
Once you start doing yoga, it’s not too long before you start buying organic produce and drinking green juices. I think healthy eating and yoga go hand-in-hand. When you spend time being so close to yourself, listening to your body, it is more likely you will treat it with care. Your body becomes something you are only given once in this life, so you decide to take care of it.
6. You stop avoiding discomfort.
It was probably in my first sitting forward bend, Paschimottanasana, that I learned to breathe into my discomfort. I learned that it wasn’t so bad when I used my breath and as soon as I came out of the pose, I felt lighter, more open and flexible. Life is kind of like that. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable in the moment, but we can breathe through it and as soon as we get through the discomfort, we feel lighter and more open. Yoga reminds you to face your discomforts in order to grow.
7. You embrace vulnerability.
You realize that when you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you create greater connections and more authentic relationships. You let down your guards and allow yourself to be fully seen.
8. You hold yourself with compassion.
You don’t get down on yourself when you make a mistake. You let go of your ideas of perfection. You allow yourself to feel exactly what you need to feel and allow a great sense of love and compassion for yourself to arise.
9. You’re grateful, everyday.
Yoga opens you to gratitude. You stop focusing on the negative all the time, and ask,
“What am I grateful for? What is going right in my life?”
When we open ourselves to gratitude, we attract more of that good.
10. You come back for more.
When you first start yoga, you may just move through your poses waiting for that sweet savasana. But eventually, your body grows stronger, you tune into your breath and you begin to enjoy your practice. You wait for that time when you have full permission to let go of the past and future and be fully present with yourself.
Meredith Rom is a yoga instructor, blogger and photographer. She loves sharing her own life lessons and insights in her yoga classes and writing. She encourages you to live a healthy lifestyle, manifest your dreams, heal through yoga and speak your authentic truth. She enjoys instagramming, making green smoothies, teaching the benefits of raw, organic foods and coming up with new “raw goddess desserts.” She recently moved to Sonoma county, CA with her boyfriend Michael where she teaches yoga and writes from a sweet country cottage. More info at her website.
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Assistant ed: Catherine Monkman
[Photo: NYC via Meredith Rom at meredithrom.com]