Why She’s Single.

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She's beautiful.

Nope, she’s not crazy at all.

She’s brilliant.

She’s worthy.

She’s discerning.

She’s got a radar that detects bullsh*t.

She’s opinionated.

She’s absolutely true to herself.

She’s not willing to sleep with you even if you tantalize her with a string of sexy words because she already knows she’s hot.

She’s able to take care of herself.

She knows her body is a temple, and won’t waste it on a one-night stand.

She’ll make the most sensual love when she’s ready to, and it’ll be worth waiting.

She doesn’t need your validation.

She’s willing to take the time to meet a partner who will be her equal.

She’ll ask you a thousand questions.

She’ll listen with an open mind, but she’ll have an opinion about where to dine because she prefers Thai food over Chinese—all you had to do was ask.

She wants alone time to clear her head, and secretly play Rayman.

She feels alive dancing with her friends in a club, and doesn’t need the come-on look.

She says, “f*ck it,” without blushing.

She’ll leave you wanting more (of all of her).

She is an empath.

She is a trickster, teasing you with jokes and random acts of silliness.

She will love you deeply and strongly if you hold her heart with gentle hands.

She’s wild if she wants to be.

She’s calm if she wants to be.

She is grace.

She is raw.

She is elegance.

 

Most of all,

She is beautifully hot,

and

She is single,

but she isn’t crazy.

 

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Author: Jessie Wright

Editor: Renée Picard

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anonymous Apr 1, 2016 10:48pm

absolutely right words…

anonymous Dec 13, 2015 7:29am

Exactly Me!!! Thank you so much for this! 🙂

anonymous Dec 8, 2015 7:25pm

Yes yes yes!!!

anonymous Dec 8, 2015 12:49pm

Love this! Too true. I might also add to this that that “she has no regrets”. All experiences are worthwhile. Thanks for this!

    anonymous Dec 9, 2015 6:10pm

    Thanks! Yep, "no regrets" for sure!!

anonymous Dec 8, 2015 8:59am

You're welcome! Loveit! 😉

anonymous Dec 7, 2015 9:41pm

Thank you. Damnit 🙂

anonymous Dec 7, 2015 7:20pm

YES!!!!! Brilliance. You are amazing Jessie. xx

    anonymous Dec 8, 2015 8:59am

    Sara, Thank you!!! Wow! You are pretty darn amazing, too! Thanks for sharing all your beautiful words!

Christine Reyes Dec 20, 2016 1:21am

Hi Corey I am not sure where you get your statistics but, you used some interesting words, "probably" "assumably" is this your experience or are you guessing? or am I being to picky because I expect each relationship to start on a level playing field? or is it okay to make statements that aren"t true, just because you say it is that way?

Ashley Brown Dec 19, 2016 4:38pm

I hardly think that makes me crazy.

Ashley Brown Dec 19, 2016 4:36pm

I'm hot and single. I'm sane and logical and quite frankly not interested in being with some dude. I prefer my indipendace. Being with a man forces me to be self sacrificing and responsible for another persons emotional state. It's exhausting to take on that responsibility and it really cuts into your ultimate sense of freedom and I don't wish to be tied down in life. That's why I am hot and single.

Michelle Cowlishaw Aug 19, 2016 11:46am

Beautifully written. I relate. But can this woman that youve described be seen and appreciated for all the wonderful attributes by a future partner? Perhaps. But not by someone shallow?

Corey McDonald Aug 4, 2016 9:00pm

No, she's probably crazy. :) Think about it though. If someone seems very desirable to date, and they are single for an extended period of time, they either don't want to date or they are undateable for another reason. It's just math. A person based on their desirability has access to X% of the single people in their vicinity. If that percentage is assumably high, there is something else going on. This applies equally to both genders. Think about that friend of yours who seems cool and has been single for years. He/She has probably been on numerous dating websites or uses Tinder all the time. Now, it could be that their expectations are so ridiculously high (sense of entitlement) that no girl or guy could ever make them happy, or it could be that everyone they date quickly figures out that they "aren't looking for a serious relationship (with him/her... because he/she is nuts)". Or that person just bounces from person to person because the grass is always greener in the next lawn.

Aristi Papaioannou May 15, 2016 12:14am

simply brilliant....THANKS JESS!!!!!

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Jessie Wright

Jessie Wright is an artist who grew up as a wild girl in the Sierra Nevada mountains. She holds an MA in Creative Writing from Goddard College. Her art, poetry, and writing may be found at Be You Media. Connect with her via Twitter, and enjoy her Instagram account (her favorite place to hang out in social media land).
 
P.S. You can find Jes’s most recent poetry book here.