Choosing the relationship with yourself first

How many of us actually spend time and give time to work on the relationship with ourselves?
Do you even know what I mean by that?

Our relationship with ourselves generally starts with our perception of who we are. Do you like who you are?
Do you honour and respect yourself?
Do you put yourself first? and by this I don’t mean in a selfish way at all – I mean do you focus on keeping your own cup full so you can share and give abundantly….

Do you recognise what you need and feel through your Intuition?
This particular one I feel we could all work on more.
So, what kind of things can we recognise in our life that will indicate we might need to/ should focus more on that relationship with ourselves first ??

When your FOCUS becomes fixed on other people and things, pay attention. First we have to realise that we are fixating, pining over or chasing something outside of ourselves and that is the first indication that our focus needs to change.
Especially if we pay attention to how we ‘feel’ whilst focusing on external situations… is it dramatic, anxious, bipolar, do you get crazy highs and then super low lows.?

just know that as soon as your focus is on other peoples stories or your trying so hard daily to change your external life – your goals lower in vibration and your missing one mega thing.
Instead of working on and thinking about your relationship with external entities, you should be focusing on the one with yourself and you know what, that will be the catalyst to…

attracting better, more balanced and high vibrating experiences and circumstances. For you are essentially wha you attract.
And a great benefit from choosing to work on the ‘you’ relationship first is – you work out more of what you want in your life and what you will and will not accept – across the board.

Its great.

I also think it kickstarts your journey to non – detachment – which in a broader light is the skill / mindset (whatever you want to call it) – that reduces suffering and pain in your life…..
you learn to not need anything from people, from life – which allows you to ‘want’ things but keep detached from the idea of attaining it bringing you any kind of happiness.

that ‘you’ relationship is the backbone to how and what you manifest in your life. you choosing to obsess or focus in on something external to you more than you do to your own self is literally neglecting your soul.

correct the ‘you’ relationship and life will start feeling a lot lighter and smoother. less drama, less issues.
more of what you want, what you love and your realisation of what you deserve is sure to come to the surface.

when you start this ‘journey’ I need you to know that you are not alone – stay close and connected to friends, family, community and even drag someone on the ‘you relationship first’ ride, with you.https://www.iamnelamodos.com/my-blog