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How I Stumbled on the Power of Singing Orgasm’s

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July 26, 2018
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With National Orgasm Day just around the corner, I felt compelled to share what I discovered about a cool type of orgasm you’ve probably never heard of that we can all experience.

‘You can’t write that….it’s way too risqué!’

And the big one… ‘What if my Dad reads it?!’

My ego is having a field day trying to sabotage this piece on the still taboo topic of self-pleasure, somehow managing to cause some people to be very awkward and judgmental about it – even though we all do it!!

Thankfully it’s been normalized to a huge degree with the advent of ‘Sex Toy’ Party Plan gatherings in lounge rooms across the world and much more ‘Sex and the City’ style, open conversations, between friends about who’s vibrator is ‘the best’ over a glass of wine and much laughter.

The inner dialogue continues….

‘Be brave, it’s important to share.’

‘Don’t be a wuss’ the inner voice insists.

Thank God courage wins out saying ‘F#%k it, I’m doing it.’ I am helped by the words of Ricci-Jane Adams who encourages others to develop spiritual stamina by facing our fears and always asking ourselves the question, ‘What if there is no problem?’ as written about in her Elephant Journal article, ‘The question that set me free from my unhappiness.’

So here I am, embracing my inner warrior and unabashedly sharing this with you. In a nutshell, what I stumbled across helps give you mind blowing orgasms via the power of your voice. Um, yes please!!! Despite all things Tantric and Kundalini being familiar, this is new to me; I had never heard anything like it.

Inspired by the work of leaders in the field such as Emma Power of Tantra is Love, who runs hugely popular Sexuality Workshops and Sexologist Juliet Allen, who demystifies all manner of sex enhancing topics, I am excited to openly share my experience on singing orgasms.

To begin, Kundalini energy is the activation of different energy centre’s in the body starting at the base of the spine that happens when spiritual awakening occurs and can also be brought about through breathing exercises and yoga practice.

It’s a life force energy that is stronger than anything we can imagine possible that is likened to an electrical current running through the body. This was certainly the case for me as I embarked on my spiritual awakening that was interestingly exacerbated by the grief of the impending death of my Mother last year.

It’s like my body came alive in a way I never knew was possible. Extreme grief on the one hand, but also blissful heart exploding sensations on the other. Two sides of the same coin. I had started to feel what I called internal energy bursts.

A mixture of butterflies in the tummy feeling/inner goose bumps/blissed out energy all in one. It could happen almost any time, affecting random body parts like my upper jaw, heart chakra or the back of my head.

It would often take my breath away and stop me in my tracks. I have since learned that this is common amongst people going through transformational life events. Music would often be the trigger, but it could equally be looking at a particular image or thinking about something or someone.

At times this left me feeling excruciatingly raw but made me more present to what I was dealing with and the precariousness of life.

So what’s this little known singing orgasm all about? Well in amongst my kundalini awakening I’d ordered myself one of those ‘all the rage’ crystal pleasure wands and was trying it out – (BTW f#%king amazing in its own right!) and had a playlist going when a great song came on. Going with the flow of the moment, I started singing along and noticed that the feelings intensified significantly.

It’s like you can feel the songs vibrations (pun intended) within your body when you are singing, taking it to a whole other level. Suffice to say the resulting orgasm is way more powerful. Given orgasms are so healing in their own right, combine that with the healing power of sound and we can massively amplify the energetic effect. As friends I’ve shared this with have said, ‘It makes complete sense. Can’t wait to try it!’

It’s as if this type of orgasm unlocks an energetic force that can only come out to play in this way. The musical notes reverberating within our body combines with the energy already arising, resulting in a huge release. Our chakras go off the chart, especially the throat chakra which for most of us can do with some clearing.

We so often don’t say what we want to say; don’t want to offend; want to be seen as nice; hold it in; avoid conflict at our own expense; and suppress, suppress, suppress. This is a way to help unleash all of that crap. Pretty cathartic really. To tune into our bodies and really feel the true depth of what there is to be felt is liberating.

Singing orgasms can simply help us get in tune with ourselves, while taking ourselves to another (very satisfying) place at the same time. So, the moral of the story is we should all crank the music up while getting our ‘spiritual hat’ on to activate our sensual kundalini energy, to experience way more pleasure.

Why not create your very own ‘Orgasm Playlist’ starting with a few of my favourites including the soul stirring Cygnet Bay by Caravana Sun and Notion by Tash Sultana. I can already see ‘Singing Orgasm’ Spotify Playlists popping up everywhere.

As Marvin Gaye says in his song Sexual Healing ‘When I get that feeling, I want sexual healing….helps to relieve my mind…. sexual healing is something that’s good for me…helps to reveal the mind.’ You’ll never listen to music in the same way again!


About the Author

Claire McFee is a Transformation Mentor helping women get their ‘Mojo’ back. Women ready for change. She’s ‘been there’ and knows what it takes to turn things around and reignite your spark. Claire helps increase your confidence, expand your consciousness and tap into your innate intuition.



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miriam Jul 26, 2018 3:16am

Claire, this is amazing!!! I’ve never heard anyone talk about this!! How powerful and transformational… and actually makes perfect sense!
Thank you so much for writing about this… Definitely start a Spotify playlist.. I will be following you!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 3:55am

    Thanks so much Miriam. I look forward to you sharing your Playlist!

kay.jh5 Jul 26, 2018 3:42am

I love this article! Claire, thank you for sharing. I look forward to reading more from you!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 3:56am

    Thanks very much Kay. I look forward to writing more!

sayla.kimber Jul 26, 2018 3:48am

Love this – definitely going to try it!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 3:57am

    Thanks Sayla. That’s what everyone keep saying to me. Can’t believe there’s not more info on it!

Janineahutt Jul 26, 2018 4:46am

Very interesting…makes sense!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 5:36am

    It does doesn’t it Janine. Don’t know why I didn’t think of it before…. Better late than never!

jazzy_gibbs10 Jul 26, 2018 5:29am

Such a great article Claire! Makes so much sense!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 5:38am

    I know right! Complete sense. If only we were taught more about connecting to our bodies more – imagine the crap we’d avoid!

lisa54313 Jul 26, 2018 7:58am

Oh what an awesome read. Thank you so much for sharing. Our Vagus Nerve is stimulated by singing and deep tones and this causes an even greater release of oxytocin! Woohoo – orgasm central! Love it. Thank you

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:31pm

    My pleasure Lisa, glad you liked it. We all need a little extra Oxytocin however we can get it!

bek.butterflykisses Jul 26, 2018 8:04am

This is soooo juicy! Opens up a whole new way to look at pleasure! Revolutionary! So brave to share with the world, we need more of this, more orgasms and healing thru high vibration

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:34pm

    Thanks so much. Definitely took putting my big girl panties on to hit submit. So glad I did. The response has been amazing. Messages left right and centre. Lots of people wanting to get their hands on a crystal pleasure wands too!

tamalaridge Jul 26, 2018 8:57am

Wow Claire, this is incredible… Thankyou so much for sharing… it does make sense that combining the energy of singing with the energy of orgasm would make for a much more intense result… so intrigued..xx

tamalaridge Jul 26, 2018 8:59am

Wow Claire, this is incredible… Thankyou so much for sharing… it does make sense that combining the energy of singing with the energy of orgasm would make for a much more intense result… so intrigued..xxxx

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:35pm

    Thanks Tamala. Yes definitely a potent combination. Pretty cool hey!

naveen_light Jul 26, 2018 10:48am

Thank you for writing on a subject that is so important to our health and wellbeing.

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:37pm

    Thanks Naveen. Yes our health and well being is all interrelated after all. If we are satisfied at this level, it has positive flow on effect to the rest of our lives. So juicy. Much better living from this place!

jomottram Jul 26, 2018 3:19pm

Great article Claire. Thank you so much for sharing!

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:38pm

    My pleasure Jo. Glad you liked it. 🙂

alisarlaz2216 Jul 26, 2018 3:52pm

HELLO Beautiful Claire,
Thank you for your courage and wisdom. WHat a absolutely potent way to free your expression and release. I am on it in one huge orgasmc heartbeat.
SO much Love to you.

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 4:39pm

    Glad to hear! So much love to you too.

gavrachbrown Jul 26, 2018 5:31pm

Great article Claire! Will definitely start my playlist! Thank you for being brave enough to write about your experience.

    claire mcfee Jul 27, 2018 6:06am

    Thanks Rach, glad it tickled your fancy! There’s so many awesome songs to try!

gail Jul 26, 2018 7:44pm

Love your share and what a great read! thanks Claire xxxxx

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 9:45pm

    Thanks Gail. So glad you got something out of it.

mjc.coaching Jul 26, 2018 9:40pm

Very interesting article thanks Claire for stepping out & sharing

    claire mcfee Jul 26, 2018 9:45pm

    thanks so much. my pleasure. I felt compelled as much as part of me said noooooo!

beatrizguevaraf Jul 27, 2018 5:36am

Fab article Claire. I had never heard of singing orgasms. Good on you for sharing your experience and thanks so much for sharing it with us. Love the idea of spotify list by the way 🙂

    claire mcfee Jul 27, 2018 6:08am

    Thanks so sweet chi Beatriz. I’d never heard of it either so was surprised there’s not much in the way of writings on the topic so just had to fill the gap!

iencoj Jul 28, 2018 6:20am

Hi Claire this all makes perfect sense and love this so much ???

    claire mcfee Jul 28, 2018 7:08am

    It does doesn’t it it? That’s what everyone keeps saying to me! GLAD you love it. 🙂

judi Jul 28, 2018 1:25pm

Absolutley! THE power or music is incredible so it makes perfect sense that singing would enhance any transformational or learning experience. THANKS for sharing!

    claire mcfee Jul 28, 2018 6:00pm

    Pleasure Judi, it does make complete sense doesn’t it. That’s what everyone’s is saying to me! Love it. ??

leah Jul 29, 2018 2:13am

Very well written and exaplained Claire! LOve working with kundalini in new ways. The power of vibrational Healing you mention is great too. Thanks for sharing and inspiring!

    claire mcfee Jul 29, 2018 3:17am

    Thank you beautiful. Yes Kundalini energy is friggin amazing. It wasn’t something I thought I would be capable of experiencing and am
    so glad I got that wrong. We are all capable!
    I am so excited to hear from more and more women who are experiencing Kundalini Rising symptoms. It helps to know it’s all part of the awakening process doesn’t it. ??

tmh44 Jul 29, 2018 3:39am

Claire you are a guiding light and a true inspiration a wonderful article reminding all women to stand in their be brave be fearless be you xxxx

    claire mcfee Jul 29, 2018 4:42am

    What a lovely thing to say. Thank you very much. Yes the world definitely needs us to step into our power. 🙂

rebeccacurrie Aug 1, 2018 6:02am

fabulous read my lovely friend , finding my inner Kundalini May be on the menu , great insight :)!

    claire mcfee Aug 2, 2018 2:27am

    HEY Bec! YES you’ve definitely got to get your KUNDALINI energy going. You’re on the Way for sure! Xx

sara Aug 1, 2018 6:01pm

I love this SO much, Claire! A few years ago, I learned about Sacred Shamanic practices and how sound/movement/breath are at the core of our ability to move energy. Singing is such a simple way to include ALL three elements. I had never even considered this before. Thanks for your open dialogue about your journey and this AWESOME discovery!

    claire mcfee Aug 2, 2018 2:30am

    Thanks so much Sara. It’s all so fascinating isn’t it! LOVE Shamanic teachingoo too. All the best. ??

linda Aug 5, 2018 12:24am

Such a great article Claire! You had me at National Orgasm Day (NOD). Nodding along all the way.
Thank you for you and writing about such a great topic! xx

    claire mcfee Aug 7, 2018 2:46pm

    Thanks Linda! My pleasure. Check out my SInging Orgasm Playlist on Spotify to see if it takes your nodding up a notch! 🙂

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