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Quote of the Day: Love Your Solitude.



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Some poets we love. Others, we just need. And then there are those who we can’t help but love and need (and want).

Rainer Maria Rilke does all three for me. In light and in darkness.

“Therefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away… and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast. Be happy about your growth, in which, of course, you can’t take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don’t torment them with your doubts and don’t frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn’t be able to comprehend.

Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn’t necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust.

And don’t expect any understanding; but believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it.”

~ RMR, Letters to a Young Poet

 

Now, if he had just met Audrey…

I have to be alone very often. I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel.

 ~ Audrey Hepburn

 

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Andréa Balt is an unfinished book, garage philosopher, eco maniac, art nut & other unrealistic & impractical things on a bike. She has a BA in Communication, an MFA in Creative Writing & she's a certified Nutrition Junkie. You can connect with her via Facebook, Twitter & Pinterest, or pay her a visit at Rebelle Époque, her art & writing blog, where she might fetch you a virtual cup of word-tea. She also makes daily, green rebellion at Rebelle Wellness and she recently co-created Rebelle Society, a creatively maladjusted, imaginary country, occupied by the art of being alive. Rebelle?

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29 Responses to “Quote of the Day: Love Your Solitude.”

  1. shanti says:

    So beautiful, thanks

  2. Dear Sister Andrea of the Order of Words & Mischief….

    Love it. :)

    yours,
    Sister B xo

  3. ValCarruthers says:

    Dear Word Sorceress: Rilke+Audrey = Alchemy. Charmed us again, didn'tcha, Andrea :) )

    Just posted to "Featured Today" on the Elephant Spirituality Homepage.

    Valerie Carruthers
    Please go and "Like" Elephant Spirituality on Facebook

  4. Eric says:

    Yes, besides everything else to marvel at—of course you breathe Rilke :)
    Einmal ist keinmal…und jezt, und jezt….nur mein Herz.

    • Andréa Balt says:

      Aw, thanks You!

      That last line in German – had to bother and use google translator but it made my evening. Love back. Are you on FB? Are we friends?

      • Eric says:

        Ah, no, I ditched 'La Facecraque' last Autumn :)

      • Eric says:

        ~one of my favorite Rilke quotes:
        "I want to be with those who know secret things–or else alone."

        • Andréa Balt says:

          You're heavenly, you know that? I was actually looking for that quote like a maniac for this post, and I could not remember who had said it, I'd only read it in a flash and you know, it's a tragic thing (to me) when I lose a quote. I prefer losing my wallet – it's empty anyway. Seriously, I love auspicious coincidences.

          Thanks! I now feel like one of those people who know secret things (or else I feel alone). :)

          • Eric says:

            actually, I'm quite earthy–like a fine old single malt. or a 1965 Côtes du Rhône.

            (I collect quotes, so again, we keep the known universe in balance. auspiciously delish :)

  5. Jill Barth says:

    T h a n k s. Great words.

  6. Robert says:

    Both quotes! Fantastic!!!

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    Thank you for the quotes, thoughts, and links. Much appreciated :-)

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