Beyond Charleston: Racism is Learned, so Let’s Stop Teaching It.


It appears an understatement to say that acts of terror are all about fear.

But I’m just not talking about the obvious fear on the part of the victims and others affected. I’m also talking about the fear on the part of the assailants. They are motivated towards heinous acts of violence because of fear.

And these fears are founded in ignorance and bigotry.

It doesn’t matter what the bigotry targets—gender, race, sexuality, religious beliefs—the root cause comes down to fear. Because we do not understand one another.

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” ~ Nelson Mandela

The way to eradicate racism and other forms of bigotry obviously lies in cultural education. And that has to come from the ground up. The realignment of cultural values—ensuring zero tolerance for any form of bigotry as a new cultural norm—is not likely to come from the top down.

A revolution is called for if a radical shift is to occur. A cultural revolution, whereby we teach one another to honor and respect all beings—and not only those who look like and sound like us. Not just paying lip service to the notion of respect, but walking the talk every single day and showing our kids by example what respect for all beings really means.

It’s kind of obvious really. Each person needs to take a mindful stance in their own day-to-day lives. Stop minding our own business and start minding the business of the community as a whole. If we don’t like the status quo, if we believe it to be harmful to the greater good of all, then we need to individually do whatever we personally can to help—slowly, but surely—effect a transformation in societal attitudes. We need to stop tolerating bigotry and instead seek ways to kindly and gently point out another perspective—a more loving point of view.

How we do that will be different for everyone. For some, it will be outright activism. But it doesn’t need to be that. It can be done through our day-to-day conversations with others. Speaking up, instead of biting our tongues so as not to rock the boat. Speaking up in a respectful manner towards the person holding a contrary viewpoint, but also with respect for the rights of those we witness being denigrated.

Baby steps can be effective. A gentle word can alter someone’s perspective. Don’t remain silent when you see injustice being perpetrated.

We can fight the good fight, non-violently.


Bonus: Jon Stewart reaction to Charleston shootings.

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Author: Hilda Carroll

Editor: Travis May

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Linda V. Lewis Jun 24, 2015 6:35am

Jon Stewart hit the nail on the head of racism: it's a fact–2x more Americans are killed by non-Muslim racists in the USA than by homegrown jihadis. The Civil War was 150 years ago, yet the Confederate rag, Confederate General Street Names, and lack of gun control enable racists like Roof to kill 9 black citizens in a South Carolina church!

karen katz Jun 24, 2015 6:28am

actually for a good perspective read the editorial in today's wall street journal, the response to this horrible act has been multi-racial, multi-cultural. things, while not perfect, have changed a lot in 50 years, I am almost 60, so I have some historical perspective. You can never remove hatred completely-but most white americans are NOT dylan roof.

and this time, we might finally get rid of the confederate flag-which would benefit everyone.
hanging on to the civil war, (which the south lost) or some dream of the confederacy is delusional and unhelpful to everyone. and that flag IS a symbol of racism and white supremacy to some……let's just tuck it away somewhere it can't do any harm, like the bottom of the back closet.

Dale Sattizahn Jun 20, 2015 6:21am

I agree. "Perfect love is to cast out fear." Being raised in the Christian faith and now serving as an ordained pastor, it saddened me beyond belief when religion is used to promote bigotry and any type of inequality. I am convinced that religion should be the model of love and compassion. Unfortunately, it is more the opposite. I am convinced that perfect love does cast out fear. However, I am encouraged when I read an article demanding a better way of living. Please keep connecting and challenging bigotry

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