“Very slowly, with hands, tongues, mouths, we unwrapped and untied ourselves, laying open gifts. Gave birth to each other again, as separate bodies who enjoy collision.” ~ Anaïs Nin
I once perceived alpha males as arrogant, over-confident assholes. I have now been converted and find alpha males as attractive as hot sausages.
I’ve had enough of men who are afraid to ask a woman out because they are afraid. Or guys who play dating mind games by following textbook rules on how many days they should wait before they ask the woman out for a second date, and so on.
I think it is rather polite that a man ask permission to kiss a woman if the date went well, but being an alpha woman I find it rather unappealing. Please excuse me if I sound brazen, but nothing beats being with an alpha male who is dominant and can be in control—in and out of bed.
I’ve always loved reading romantic novels—specifically ones involving being ravished by pirates. I enjoyed the twist of the tales when the princess loses her innocence and falls into the arms of a barbaric outcast who devours her beauty, her innocence and teaches her the ways of love-making with raptures of surrendering into animalistic desires. Only he can reach the inner being of a woman and awaken her innermost sexuality. His sex is with pure intensity and he delivers fucking immense pleasure. His throbbing manhood is the personification of his alpha maleness.
This brings me back to the modern world where most women wear masks and conform to societal expectations to behave ladylike, when the majority would confess to close friends the desire for wild love-making with a confident alpha male. He is the real man, a warrior with a peak physical shape. He is strong, athletic and seductively and aesthetically pleasing to the opposite sex.
He is not ashamed to initiate sex with a woman and he knows how to pleasure her in bed with a multitude of orgasms. He does not beat around the bush about wanting to get you into bed. He dares to look intently into your eyes to see if you can match his burgeoning desires. If you are not ready to be on the same page as him, he does not waste his precious time and moves on.
He knows who he is; his values govern his life. He does not stray from these values, in fact he stands up for them. Even when he stands alone in what he believes is right, he digs his heels in and fights.
The alpha male is not a sucker. Neither is he a clinger. He does not go out of his way to please everyone as he knows it is a futile endeavor. He will not let a woman run his life. He is his own man. Though he may worship the ground his lady walks on, he knows how to pick her.
He will not be with a control freak or a jealous woman. He has the social intelligence to see the storm before it peeks its nasty little head. Most of the time, an alpha male prefers to be single and carefree, and spread the love around to many women, rather than stick to one particular woman. An alpha male is hard to tie down. He is wise enough to know where his advantage remains—being single.
While beta males are ogling and gaga-ing over girls or making excuses about why they are not going to talk to her, an alpha male steps up and gets the girl. And they succeed every time. Alpha males are not afraid to express their sexuality. They understand their role as a man. They do not need external validation. They live in their own world and have their own perception of what is right and wrong. They do what makes them happy and not what makes others happy. They are comfortable to saying “no” to others.
An alpha male will talk dirty to you in bed. He will be a little rough during sex, fitting his maleness deeply into you, getting you so excited that you dig your finger nails into his back and scream his name while he pounds you hard—making you cum so hard as you ride the wave of ecstasy.
He leaves you with a rosy glow and smile that lasts for a week as he knows how to please a woman. Such is bliss to mate with an alpha male. If you meet one, no need to think too hard about what is right or wrong, just get ready to enjoy the erotic pleasures being in bed with him.
Author: Michelle Hardie
Editor: Travis May