October 5, 2017

Why do we even Bother Fighting for what’s Right?

Quite often, I write and I talk about issues surrounding social justice.

And, as you might have guessed, that’s because I care about these issues. I care to see women receive the same rights that men take for granted. I care to see people of color enjoy the privileges that many white people aren’t even aware that they have. I care that anyone at all—be they gay or bisexual, transgender, disabled, neurodivergent, or whatever the case may be—is able to exist within this society feeling safe and loved and accepted.

All of this matters to me.

But, because I talk about these issues often enough, I’ve come across a few people who’ve offered me this question: Why?

Do I really think that I’m going to make a difference? Is pointing out that a specific train of thought is sexist really going to stop people from thinking that way?

All of these issues that I fight to bring to light to—racism, sexism, homophobia, heteronormativity, ableism—are all so deeply ingrained in our culture that I can’t even really expect it to change. So why bother, right?

Shouldn’t we just give up? Shouldn’t we just accept that the world is flawed and move on with our lives? Wouldn’t that make things easier for everybody?

Well, speaking from personal experience, I have to say—no, it wouldn’t make things any easier. In fact, it only makes things worse.

My problem is that I can’t not be aware of these things. I can’t help but notice that they are not only present but prevalent in everything that we think, do, watch, and say.

It exists in the politicians that we choose to elect, in the celebrities that we choose to look up to, in the fictional characters that we choose to relate to. It exists in our personal relationships, in the ways that we talk to different people, in the things that we expect from them.

I have seen sexism destroy families, and I have seen homophobia kill children. Some people can go their whole lives without noticing any of this, but I can’t—partly because I live it, as a bisexual woman, but also because I’ve gone out of my way to try and educate myself on these matters.

As I said, these issues are important to me. I need to talk about them. And I know I’m not the only person who feels this way.

But even ignoring all of that for a moment—let’s say we as a society could stop talking about these issues. Let’s say that we just dropped every social justice movement tomorrow, because from the logic of those who ask the question to begin with, you’d think that what would happen would be…nothing. The world just wouldn’t change—it would remain the way that it is right now, forever.

And, maybe it would.

Maybe women would continue to be told that it was their fault—that they should have dressed or acted differently to avoid being raped.

Maybe black people in America would continue to get shot in the streets by white cops who get off punishment-free.

Maybe gay, bisexual, or transgender children would continue to kill themselves before they even reach adulthood, because they don’t see any possibility that they will ever get to be themselves.

Or, maybe all of this would get worse over time, because no one is talking about these issues. No one is making sure that these people know that they aren’t alone, that someone cares and is truly trying to make a difference for them.

And if that’s all you do by talking about these issues—just let someone know that they aren’t alone, and that if they just keep fighting, things might just get better—then isn’t that a worthwhile fight in its own right? Isn’t hope, at least, worthwhile?

Maybe things won’t get any better, I don’t know. Maybe this truly is as good as it’s going to get. But, maybe it’s not. Maybe things will get better. They already have, after all. We reach new and exciting milestones all the time—in 2015, the United States legalized same-sex marriage, because people cared enough to talk about it.

In 2014, Laverne Cox became the first transgender woman to be featured on the cover of Time magazine, accompanying the claim that we as a society were at “the tipping point” for discussing transgender issues. And, no, things aren’t perfect; we still have a long way to go—but little by little, we are winning battles. We are doing this because we refuse to give up. Because we know that these issues are worth talking about, and so, we talk about them.

We fight, not because there is any guarantee that we’ll win, but because we know that it’s a worthy fight nonetheless.

So if you can say that you feel that same way—maybe not specifically about a social justice movement, but about anything at all—if you feel that it is worth defending, worth believing in, and worth fighting for—then, by all means, fight.

Maybe you won’t win, but at least there will be someone fighting. At least people will see that this is something that people care about—something that matters.

And, maybe not everyone will agree with you—but that isn’t the important part. What’s important is that at the end of the day, you can rest easy with yourself knowing that you did everything you could in your attempts to make the world a better place.

And that, after all, is what we all want to accomplish in our time here on earth, isn’t it?



Why I Whole-Heartedly believe Fighting is Necessary.


Author: Ciara Hall
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