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July 12, 2019

The 66 second Hack that Can Save Your Relationship

Within the OneSoul REALationship mentoring I give, there are thousands whom write to me daily enquiring of me to assist them in their relationships of all kinds. From deep intimate romantic relationships and marriages, to twinsoul/near twin/soulmate relationships, parental relationships, and so on. One of the most common frustrations I hear is how people seem to butt heads in falling out with one another, unable to feel seen, heard, felt, and understood.

My mission and purpose here on this earth is to assist people such as you whom are reading this to come into who you really are of your Soul and to shine it. To come into the deepness of what you thirst for, long for, within integration and connection with Source, within, with a partner if you so choose, and with all. In my mentoring, as in my life, I come from a resonance of real, raw, vulnerable, and from the heartness within my approach to assisting those on the Sacred Path of the Soul. Equally, those who know me best and those whom I mentor will also attest that every now and again when required, I will give a loving kick in the bum as well lol! This said though, the way to transform our lives and heal our relationships into REALationship (real relationships of the heart and soul) is through connection.

Within that, I Am going to offer you an invitation into a special hack~ a 66 second hack that can improve and even save your REALationship, whatever form of REALationship you have in your life. Now, I preface this by saying, if you are experiencing any form of an abusive relationship, please love yourself enough to walk away and heal. This hack is free from being for these types of scenarios.

The 66 second hack is for those REALationships that you feel there is struggle yet is something that in your heart you know can be sorted through. Thus, before you choose to walk away I invite you to give this a go then. With this simple tip, you can get back the relationship or even create a deeper bond of closeness in an already good relationship. It is something that I myself over the years have utilised in many of my REALationships bringing healing to them.

First though, you may be asking yourself~ Why does she say 66 seconds rather than the standard 60 seconds or one minute? From the soul numerology perspective, the number 66 equals 12. Twelve is a Divine Consciousness number and is very powerful in Lemuria. Most people know about Atlantis, well Lemuria in linear succession of earthly time is before Atlantis. I have videos on Lemuria on my youtube and also information about Lemuria on my website. Sixty~six is also double 6 and six in soul numerology is the merkaba or merkabah essence which is who we are as Soul within our Lightbody. “Mer” meaning Light, “Ka” means Spirit, “Ba” means BEing or Body. Mer~Ka~Ba means the Soul embodied within Lightbody Consciousness. Therefore, there deep spiritual power within doing this hack I Am about to give you for 66 seconds.

The 66 Second Hack

The hack then that can save your REALationship that I invite you into giving a go before you walk away is….something that is known as Soul Gazing.

Soul Gazing ~ what is that you ask? Soul Gazing is something that I utilise in several varying ways within the courses I teach and in one to one or couple sessions as well, thus there are multiple ways this can be practised. For the purposes of this article and its intent, Soul Gazing can be practiced this way~

1. Stop wherever you are in the midst of the argument or if you are free from speaking due to being angry come into the same room with the one you are having issues getting on with and find a place where you both can either stand facing one another or sit facing one another (provided they are willing. If they are free from being willing, come to them at a time when they are).

2. By yourself first close your eyes both of you (as long as the other person is willing, if not, you still can do this yourself) and take 4 slow what are called Buddha~belly breathes or for us as singers we know this as diaphragmatic breathing. This is where you be as you were when you were a wee lad or lass (or if you see children when they sleep) of breathing deeply in through the nose and expanding your belly fully as you breath in. And as you breath in imagine calmness, centredness, relaxation, and Love flowing through you. Then breathing out through the nose in simply releasing, letting go. Doing four of these breathes this way automatically calms your autonomic nervous system which is what gets activated in an argument within fight, flight, freeze reptilian brain hijacked mode which has us unable to think clearly. This form of breathing calms, centres, and relaxes you so you can be in a more heart~centred resonance.

3. Then turn to the person you are with and without saying any words at all to one another, simply gaze into one another’s eyes.

Now, the first 10 seconds to 20 seconds or so may feel a little uncomfortable as one or both of you (especially is you have felt angry, hurt, etc from the situation) may possibly feel intimidated and vulnerable like ‘Oh my gosh I Am completely naked and being seen’, yet this is GOOD! I invite you to keep going with it, simply allow the process to unfold sitting in the silence and simply BE with this one before you.

What begins to occur around 25 to 30 seconds or so in is you begin to relax more into it and then you both soften as you start to really feel one another, see one another, as really you are seeing not just through your physical eyes, you are also seeing through your SoulEye (or what is referred to earthly as the Third Eye). As you go deeper into this, tears may begin to come through, and this is ok as well.

There is something very powerful within actually seeing into this person’s soul this way as it has you be within what we say in native tradition as being able to walk a mile in their moccasins. You may also notice that your breathing and hearts begin to synchronise or be within the same rhythm. This is called heart co~hearance, hearing another’s heart.

Now, do you need to do such for exactly 66 seconds?

You are free from having to have a timer or sit there and be in your head counting it out, yet be with one another this way for as long as you can, free from looking away. The longer you can, the deeper the connection and the deeper the healing for both of you free from words being said as so often it is words that can get in the way of really hearing another’s heart.

Another variation of the Soul Gazing that you can do if and when both of you are ready for it is something I do within sessions I give, courses I teach, and also within my Soul Gazing Satsangs in which is there are certain words that are said either telepathically/energetically expressed through your eyes as you are Soul Gazing and/or physically said to one another alternating turns that can actually be deeply healing such as~

* I Am sorry for anyone who has ever hurt you

* Please forgive me on behalf of anyone who has ever hurt you

* I appreciate you amasing being you are. Thank you for blessing my life

* I love you for who you are all of you even when you are hard to love

If you are able to be and do this with someone that you love an even deeper more powerful healing occurs. Soul Gazing allows yours and the other person’s defenses and walls around your hearts to melt to where you are then more calm and present with one another, hearing one another’s heart, and can then speak with one another from the heart of what really matters as it is never really about what you are arguing about that is the issue.

Whenever we fall out with someone more often than not it is because we are feeling unappreciated, unheard, unseen, unloved, misunderstood and there is a deep need for connection within that feeling appreciated, heard, seen, loved, and understood. Through Soul Gazing we are able to really then get to the heart of the matter beyond our defenses and pretenses. Which at the heart and soul of it all is all any of us ever desire is to be loved, heard, and understood. May this present of presence open the Sacred Path of Love and connection between you and the ones you love.

Lady Nenari is the Founder/Director of The DiamondLight Soul Centre and as a Complimentary Wholistic Therapist specialises in OneSoul REALationships Mentoring for individuals and couples, Meditational Hypnotherapy, Sound Healing Therapy, and Akashic Records Soul Mediumship Reading. To book in a one to one session with her or for the courses she teaches, visit her website

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Lady Nenari Anne Diamond, Princess of the Sea, DD, MHT

Known as the Princess of the Sea, Lady of Glencoe, Highlands Scotland, and the “Diamondlady” of Lemuria who brings the Love and Light to the world in all ways through the gifts poured through her hands and through the beauty of her song, Lady Nenari, (Nenari Anne Diamond) is a internationally/universally celebrated Complimentary Therapist, Akashic Records Soul Medium, singer/songwriter, author, speaker, and spiritual mentor within the resonance of Pure Love and Spiritual Oneness.

As a Complimentary Therapist (providing such therapies as Meditational Hypnotherapy, Sound Healing Therapist, Reiki Master, Crystal Therapist, Aromatherapist, Chakra Therapist), Lady Nenari is also the Founder/Director of The DiamondLight Soul Centre and the creator of several life transformational Soul Remembering Multi~versity courses including ~ the Meditational Hypnosis course which combines both methods to help heal and transform lives and as of December 2016 in the hands of Stanford School of Medicine to assist them in the brainwave patterning research, as well as, the Soul Mediumship & Soul Crystal Healing and Revealing courses in which Lady Nenari facilitates you into how to access the Akasha (Akashic Records) and channel Source energy straight and also providing leading edge ways to heal and transform mutated DNA into RNA of which she is a forerunner in both brainwave and RNA research. In addition, Nenari is also the inventor of the Vibrational Frequency Soul Resonance Attuner, a diagnostic healing tool that restructures the cellular and molecular mutated DNA of the body into Soulular RNA of our Soul lifeforce restoring the missing vibrational frequencies in the body into wholeness and integration utilising the technology of Piezoelectricity, SASER and Scalar waves.


Lady Nenari is also a spiritual minister with a Doctorate in Divinity (in World Religion & Spirituality) through her extensive study of the spiritual realms and wisdom that pours through her being. And as a Spiritual Counseling and Healing Minister Mentor, Nenari is also the creator of the Inner Soul Child Healing process (a process created based upon her own healing of traumas, wounds, PTSD) which assist people to heal from their childhood wounds and traumas providing integration, wholeness, well~being into their lives.


As an Ambassadour of Love and Light, Lady Nenari brings forth the Diamond energy of Lemuria to this earth within infinite ways. She is currently the author of numerous books including “Life Long Learning ~ Transforming Learning”, “Stepping Into Spiritual Oneness ~ Spiritual Rememberings of the Soul Through Life Experience”, “Song of the Princess”, “Beloved Troubadour”, and “WoW ~ Words of Wisdom from the Princess, A Satsang of the Heart with the Sangha Books One & Two”; and has appeared on various radio shows (also having her own radio show for several years) and within articles of international publications over the last 20 years. Nenari also had her own regular featured column for the India Newspost and has also been a contributing music writer for Gonzo Online, writing in~depth pieces from the heart to touch, move and inspire you to see the real, raw, vulnerable, and from the heartness of the musician behind the music within the legacy that they desire to leave for us all. In addition, Lady Nenari is also Music Manager/Publicist for Chris Madsen, in addition to other spiritual artists on the journey.


Born as gifted channeler, soul medium, healer, speaking fluently in Lemurian/Light Language (Source energy language) seeing your soul and its path from the age of 6, Lady Nenari who was originally raised Catholic, would sit in church and would see spirit guides, loved ones who crossed over, and auras. As a Soul Mediumship Akashic Records reader, she has over 33 years experience in channeling Source, dream interpretation, aura, and many other forms of soul channeling readings and sessions. Nenari has a unique way of channeling through The Master Artist (Source) tapping into the soul and being the clear conduit for healing in all multi~dimensions.


As a Sound Healing Therapist, Nenari currently has five albums currently released which utilise her gifts of song, guitarp, native drum, crystal bowl and Meditational Hypnosis therapies to provide healing to those whom embrace such. A songstress since the age of 8 and a channeler/writer since the age of 12, Nenari’s gifts through song and prose are a testament to not only her life’s journey within this life, yet also is the legacy of all ages pouring through her very being. Having also experienced 12 NDE’s (Near Death Experiences) in this life, Nenari has a unique connection with the Master Artist we know as Source/Spirit/God/All That Is (whatsoever you choose to call such) and utilises these gifts in a humanitarian fashion to assist in the transformation of the consciousness of this planet.


Lady Nenari provides satsangs, spiritual circles, loveshoppes, courses, webinars/seminars, and one to one sessions around the earth to inspire each soul to develop their own inner voice of the soul of who they are and bring the gifts of infinite healing, AbSOULute Love, Light, and Peace to all whom she inspires. She enkindles souls to experience the light within them by empowering all to connect with, trust in, and follow their own souls guidance free from the illusions of limiting beliefs.Lady Nenari’s healing Love and Light seeks to remind us that when you live from your heart, it is your soul that guides you rather than the illusion of this earth that we call as fear and doubt. To be living from your soul and your intuitive heart, free from limitation, is to bring bliss and AbSOULute love into your life experience and within the lives of all those whom you inspire which in turn illuminates the universe in an infinite circle. By simultaneously experiencing our Oneness, as well as, our individuality, Lady Nenari’s vision is that of seeing this earth as simply whole, perfect, complete, and beautiful simply as it IS (Infinitely Spiritual); where AbSOULute Love is seen as the natural vibrational frequency resonance. For more on Lady Nenari, please visit her website