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July 12, 2019

The One and Only Thing You Need to Find “The One”

Across the internet there are loads of articles about finding ‘The One’. All sorts of tips and ‘how to’s’. Yet, there is so much more to coming into finding someone who makes you happy. Most of those relationships are free from lasting. Why? Because they are based upon concepts that have you reaching ‘outside’ of yourself and usually based in lack, fear, and separation. To truly find ‘The One’, we are to look deeper within our soul.

Love is our natural vibration and resonance of BEing, for it is the consciousness we are as Source/God/the Master Artist is. We are created of this Love and from this Love, therefore we are this Love. Ergo, what I invite you into understanding is that when we are ‘looking’ for ‘The One’, what we are really looking for is Source or this Love that Source is and that we are within another.

When one falls in Love with the Divine Masculine man or the Divine Feminine woman, the Love one feels is free from coming from that man or woman; it is the Love that is already and always, in all ways, flowing from within your own heart of who we are as Love/Source that you feel and is then subsequently being shown through another (which there is free from being another, but that is for another article). The one you choose to be in Love with is simply the reflection within an object of your attention that has you radiate that Love. For that Love you feel for a man or a woman is you seeing the God/Source/Master Artist within them and within you. When two beings are both in that resonant vibration, that is what we call falling in Love and BEing in Love.

In this brief vignette I wrote a few years gone now I share this~

How do you know if he/she is “the One”

He enquired ~ What are you looking for in a man?

She responded ~ God/Source

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It was asked~ How do you know if he/she is the one?

And the Master Artist whispered “Does he/she bring you to me?, Does this one remind you of me, the God incarnate you are? Does this one uplift you into your Soul and of the wholeness, perfectness, completeness, and beautifulness you are no matter how you act, what you do or say as I see you?

THEN he/she is “The One”

A lover, ‘The One’ if you will, comes to us when we are BEing the vibration of Love and all its attributes as the reflection of the Love we are and of our happily ever after that we are already being within us rather than a lover coming because we want to be that Love and happily ever after as if it is not here already and always. Since we are this Love as we are made of and from this Love, such Love is already and always, in all ways here as it is who we are.

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What are the attributes of Love? They are resonances such as loving kindness, compassion, caring, giving, showing another you love them and telling them, co~creation, co~operation, empathy, compassionate listening, community, freedom, union, the benefit of all, gentleness, tenderness, softness, real, raw, vulnerable from the heartness, generocity, how may I serve, what may I give, how can I assist, what is the loving thing to say, do, be in this moment, upliftment, encouragement, seeing the Source/God within one another and all.

When we are BEing that Love and that Happily Ever After with or without a lover, with or without that thing we desire, relationship we desire, job we desire etc. that is when such comes to us because the Universe then delivers to us because we are then a vibrational match, ie in the vibration of being open to receive as we are BEing that of what we desire. We are then being Love and Happily Ever After free from being because of a person or thing as that person or thing is free from being our Source of that happiness, that Love. We are simply loving because we Love, happy because we are happy and for no other reason. And this is the vibrational frequency language the Universe responds to in giving us the mirror of who we are BEing. As Neo said to Agent Smith in the last Matrix film in the trilogy when he asked him ‘why do you continue to do this?’ Neo responded, ‘Because I choose to’.

Thus, rather than coming from a resonance of lack and feeling separate from Love in looking for Love, searching for Love, longing for Love or coming from fear that are free from having nor will ever have such Love, I invite you to just Love. Just Love. Just BE Love and all its attributes. As just you loving places you in the openness to receive Love. May sound counter intuitive yet such is true. As you Love, and give Love, you then receive Love from many infinite sources rather than just that one Source of the job, or person, or thing do you not? As you can feel Love, BE Love, and BE in that vibration of yer Happily Ever After regardless of situations, circumstances, or people being Love to you and with you, THAT is where your true power and true freedom is. And when one or more of us are that together, wow! amasing magic occurs!

Then who knows, maybe that Love will come from that person you desire it to or that job or that thing or a REALationship (a real relationship) coming seemingly ‘out of the blue’. And if it does wonderful. And if it is free from coming then that is ok too because you are receiving Love within the infinite ways Source gives such and as you feel this within you and within all, this is then truly fulfilling.

For as I shared above, when we are ‘looking’ for ‘The One’, at the heart and soul of it all, what we are really looking for is Source or this Love that Source is and that we are within another. We think it is that ‘other’ yet we are really desiring connection with Love/Source, itself. This is the ultimate fulfillment of our soul and of life here on earth is the experience and express this Love with, for, and in Source. Then to share that wholeness, perfectness, completeness, of fulfillment you are with another is the expression from within out rather than seeking someone to make you happy or feel complete within from outside ourselves first.

The point is to be free from placing pressure upon anyone or anything that they ‘have to’ love you. For those things or people are free from being your Source of Love, Love within its infinite ways it gives is. Love can come through another as Source sending such Love to you, yet that person or thing is free from being your source of Love. As a song I wrote says Let Love Love You’ within all the infinite ways that Love has to give such Love to you. Starting with the Love between Source/God/the Master Artist and you, then the Love within you as you give to you, then with a lover that Love brings forth to you from the Love you are BEing, giving, and are, and then Love with all in the infinite forms that Love then takes place within friends, relatives, soul family, and infinitely more!

The One’ who is to be will come as that lover as you be this Love, give this Love. So that such lover or that job or that thing you desire is then the result of you BEing Love and giving Love everywhere rather than the reason you give Love everywhere. To the degree you be this Love, will be to the degree you receive this Love. There is only ever one exception to you being free from receiving such of ‘The One’ in terms of a REALationship with a lover, and that is if you have a soul agreement in this life (or any other incarnation) that you chose to be free from having such.

Can you feel that you are worthy and lovable right here and right now for no other reason than that you are and that Source sees you as worthy and loves you? Can you be happy just because? Source is ‘The One’ you seek and having been waiting for and what you seek is seeking you. Mmmmm…..such deliciousness, such enchantment, and oh aye indeed, such Love coming your way then! May your life be full of magic, awe, wonder….and Love!

Lady Nenari is the Founder/Director of The DiamondLight Soul Centre and as a Complimentary Wholistic Therapist specialises in OneSoul REALationships Mentoring for individuals and couples, Meditational Hypnotherapy, Sound Healing Therapy, and Akashic Records Soul Mediumship Reading. To book in a one to one session with her or for the courses she teaches, visit her website

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Lady Nenari Anne Diamond, Princess of the Sea, DD, MHT

Known as the Princess of the Sea, Lady of Glencoe, Highlands Scotland, and the “Diamondlady” of Lemuria who brings the Love and Light to the world in all ways through the gifts poured through her hands and through the beauty of her song, Lady Nenari, (Nenari Anne Diamond) is a internationally/universally celebrated Complimentary Therapist, Akashic Records Soul Medium, singer/songwriter, author, speaker, and spiritual mentor within the resonance of Pure Love and Spiritual Oneness.

As a Complimentary Therapist (providing such therapies as Meditational Hypnotherapy, Sound Healing Therapist, Reiki Master, Crystal Therapist, Aromatherapist, Chakra Therapist), Lady Nenari is also the Founder/Director of The DiamondLight Soul Centre and the creator of several life transformational Soul Remembering Multi~versity courses including ~ the Meditational Hypnosis course which combines both methods to help heal and transform lives and as of December 2016 in the hands of Stanford School of Medicine to assist them in the brainwave patterning research, as well as, the Soul Mediumship & Soul Crystal Healing and Revealing courses in which Lady Nenari facilitates you into how to access the Akasha (Akashic Records) and channel Source energy straight and also providing leading edge ways to heal and transform mutated DNA into RNA of which she is a forerunner in both brainwave and RNA research. In addition, Nenari is also the inventor of the Vibrational Frequency Soul Resonance Attuner, a diagnostic healing tool that restructures the cellular and molecular mutated DNA of the body into Soulular RNA of our Soul lifeforce restoring the missing vibrational frequencies in the body into wholeness and integration utilising the technology of Piezoelectricity, SASER and Scalar waves.

 

Lady Nenari is also a spiritual minister with a Doctorate in Divinity (in World Religion & Spirituality) through her extensive study of the spiritual realms and wisdom that pours through her being. And as a Spiritual Counseling and Healing Minister Mentor, Nenari is also the creator of the Inner Soul Child Healing process (a process created based upon her own healing of traumas, wounds, PTSD) which assist people to heal from their childhood wounds and traumas providing integration, wholeness, well~being into their lives.

 

As an Ambassadour of Love and Light, Lady Nenari brings forth the Diamond energy of Lemuria to this earth within infinite ways. She is currently the author of numerous books including “Life Long Learning ~ Transforming Learning”, “Stepping Into Spiritual Oneness ~ Spiritual Rememberings of the Soul Through Life Experience”, “Song of the Princess”, “Beloved Troubadour”, and “WoW ~ Words of Wisdom from the Princess, A Satsang of the Heart with the Sangha Books One & Two”; and has appeared on various radio shows (also having her own radio show for several years) and within articles of international publications over the last 20 years. Nenari also had her own regular featured column for the India Newspost and has also been a contributing music writer for Gonzo Online, writing in~depth pieces from the heart to touch, move and inspire you to see the real, raw, vulnerable, and from the heartness of the musician behind the music within the legacy that they desire to leave for us all. In addition, Lady Nenari is also Music Manager/Publicist for Chris Madsen, in addition to other spiritual artists on the journey.

 

Born as gifted channeler, soul medium, healer, speaking fluently in Lemurian/Light Language (Source energy language) seeing your soul and its path from the age of 6, Lady Nenari who was originally raised Catholic, would sit in church and would see spirit guides, loved ones who crossed over, and auras. As a Soul Mediumship Akashic Records reader, she has over 33 years experience in channeling Source, dream interpretation, aura, and many other forms of soul channeling readings and sessions. Nenari has a unique way of channeling through The Master Artist (Source) tapping into the soul and being the clear conduit for healing in all multi~dimensions.

 

As a Sound Healing Therapist, Nenari currently has five albums currently released which utilise her gifts of song, guitarp, native drum, crystal bowl and Meditational Hypnosis therapies to provide healing to those whom embrace such. A songstress since the age of 8 and a channeler/writer since the age of 12, Nenari’s gifts through song and prose are a testament to not only her life’s journey within this life, yet also is the legacy of all ages pouring through her very being. Having also experienced 12 NDE’s (Near Death Experiences) in this life, Nenari has a unique connection with the Master Artist we know as Source/Spirit/God/All That Is (whatsoever you choose to call such) and utilises these gifts in a humanitarian fashion to assist in the transformation of the consciousness of this planet.

 

Lady Nenari provides satsangs, spiritual circles, loveshoppes, courses, webinars/seminars, and one to one sessions around the earth to inspire each soul to develop their own inner voice of the soul of who they are and bring the gifts of infinite healing, AbSOULute Love, Light, and Peace to all whom she inspires. She enkindles souls to experience the light within them by empowering all to connect with, trust in, and follow their own souls guidance free from the illusions of limiting beliefs.Lady Nenari’s healing Love and Light seeks to remind us that when you live from your heart, it is your soul that guides you rather than the illusion of this earth that we call as fear and doubt. To be living from your soul and your intuitive heart, free from limitation, is to bring bliss and AbSOULute love into your life experience and within the lives of all those whom you inspire which in turn illuminates the universe in an infinite circle. By simultaneously experiencing our Oneness, as well as, our individuality, Lady Nenari’s vision is that of seeing this earth as simply whole, perfect, complete, and beautiful simply as it IS (Infinitely Spiritual); where AbSOULute Love is seen as the natural vibrational frequency resonance. For more on Lady Nenari, please visit her website http://www.diamondlady.net